Im a male in the mid 20's. I've am in my 3rd serious relationship, while the longest one was my first, being two years where we lived together while studying abroad. My first and second ones were ended abruptly due to long distance, and yet my 3rd one will be LDR real soon too.
I hate myself but I feel like I always encounter the right people/people that returns mutual interest at the worst of times. All 3 girls that I have dated/am dating are great individuals that loved me back dearly too. But... as of late, I bumped into a girl and crushed because we share so many common interest but I did not proceed as I am already in a relationship. Point being, why do I have strong feelings for such new acquaintances when I clearly know I am in a relationship?
Based on my past experiences also I realized that I like to flirt when I am in a relationship past several months. I know its wrong but I keep justifying to myself that as long I am not out making out someone else, it should be okay, right? Im actually afraid that I am incapable of long term affection and may even jeopardize marriage.
This post has been edited by sweet_pez: Aug 13 2018, 12:08 PM
Advice Wanted Why am I incapable of loving someone long term?