my daughter 2 years+ already still dunno go toilet when poo poo. when tell her must go toilet she dunno what i say.

Routine is all it takes. You have to keep on asking her if she wants to pee pee? Perhaps after 15-30 minutes. And for poo poo, just get her to sit on the potty in thr mornings. And you'll soon find that she'll be able to do it... don't rush. Routine is the key. Good luck.

she know what is poo but only after she poo. before that i ask if she want to poo she just look at me blankly.

i try let her sit potty she don’t want.

how to start train her?

you have to train them within their own pace. and have a lot of patience
already can pee in toilet?

no. i think she dunno what is pee. how to train her? i dont know when she will pee and she just let go in pampers. tell her also she dunno what i say

This post has been edited by Sammich!: Jul 6 2018, 09:29 AM

first step is, don't wear any diaper.. some kids learn better without wearing anything down below.
ask them and put them on toilet/potty every 5-10 minutes, and gradually increase the time to 15.. 20 minutes.

not too worry on this...my kid only know how to go to toilet to poo at the age of 3....give some patience, they will somehow naturally know one day...=)

u didn't do any training and your children just know?

LOLz.....how on earth can children know if they are not taught and trained? Practice makes perfect. Not too late to start but you better make haste.

is she pooping every day now or how?

ya all ok but big already volume a lot so need train her go toilet otherwise come out pampers sometimes

Yes, must do it asap otherwise big problem for you later. Better late than never, right? All the best and good luck!

but how to train? please teach me as i’m first time

she understand words?
can she speak yet?

does she understand simple sentences?

for example, do you want to eat A or B?
or Where is mummy?

I agree with alucard_my. Routine is what you must do. Don't get lazy if you know what I'm mean.
For my case, my baby girl knows to say "Ng Ng" or "Shi Shi" when she was 1 year old.
Never allow her to wear pampers/ diapers, only napkins.... yes! you may have to wash it every day or every time they missed it and wet themselves.
Then make it a routine to have them sit on the potty every half hours. Increase it when they able to hold longer.
At first, they may only finger point the potty. Never mind, let them sit on it. Once their business is done, told them it is "shi shi" or "Ng Ng". Slowly they will know.
Of cause, if they we themselves. You may need to give an angry face and small punishment to them. So that they know to give signal and you are angry if they did it on purpose.

for me, i never purposely train...but wat i did was everytime i mentioned the same thing...like whenever i c he poops i will always remind him saying that must go toilet poops or shi shi, must tell mummy when want.......so everyday keep on mentioning same thing when changing his diaper as a reminder to him....just suddenly 1 day he tell me that he wanna go toilet....so that is how he knows lorrr....u can try also, jz a bit patience will do..

so smart your kid can ownself tell.. hope mine also will know to tell

does the baby understand what you say?

You need to constantly keep talking to your kid and use the same words so easy to capture and remember. Don't worry, all will unfold and work out eventually.

Usually at what age we should start toilet train them?

Roughly around 1.5 - 2 years old would be an ideal time to start.

saw some parents above talk about potty training in routing eg: every morning.

however i read somewhere says that this is not a good practice to train a kid to poo since is like forcing the kid to poo and it may hurt their anus.

please advise..

For me.. Both my boys fully bebas pampers at almost 3 years old.

Just have to make sure they understand us dulu.

Dont force them.

It only takes me one week to train them.

That is quite the achievement there. Pamper's not only costly but also unhealthy for baby's skin and also the environment.

Yes only one week. No lies.

But then i also had to pick up their poop from the floor on the 1-2 days

depend on the kids also. but yes u need to give extra effort to always talk about it.

for me, i have 2 kids. first one need 2years+ to stop diapers. but my second 1yrs+ already stop diapers(on 10months already stop pooping on diapers)

but at night, it was really tired to wake-up 3-4 times to bring them to toilet @@

Malam give chance la.. Since my boys also on bottle milk so have to wear diapers or else banjir

After a while they can control it.

nah...they refuse to wear. feel uncomfortable maybe. but lucky they always woke me up and ask to bring them to toilet

Of course, I truly believe you. There is no gain without pain. Small price to pay for long term goals.

what u do until finally he go?

Persistence, patience and keep repeating until profit.