QUOTE(wongmunkeong @ May 31 2020, 10:52 AM)
i'm just lucky bro.
my girl's awesome & i'm trying to live up to be a father she deserves + my wife's husband she deserves.
still practicing & trying
fellow FIRE-liker, in my simpleton approach - basis should always be "self clarity" first.
ie. i must know myself and my NEEDs/Goals - not nice to have / not want type of goals. NEED - like air.
when U know, then whether U are single or married with kids - U will follow through coz that's core NEED. Usually your core need will usually encompass your loved ones, just need to set "higher levels" of same needs/goals.
eg.
Level 0 basic NEED/goal: FIRE for self = RM1.6M, assuming 4% drawdown, ie. will have RM64K pa or 5,333 pm to live on.
Level 1 scaling same NEED/goal up: FIRE for family when married = RM2.4M, assuming 4% drawdown, ie. will have RM96K pa or 8K pm to live on.
my parents thought me a simple thing - "if i cannot take care of myself or better, how can i take care of others". thus, for my - self clarity first, then scale where/when needed. the core is the same
note - not the only way forward ya, just the way i found that works for me. different strokes for different folks, just sharing
very practical approach.my girl's awesome & i'm trying to live up to be a father she deserves + my wife's husband she deserves.
still practicing & trying
fellow FIRE-liker, in my simpleton approach - basis should always be "self clarity" first.
ie. i must know myself and my NEEDs/Goals - not nice to have / not want type of goals. NEED - like air.
when U know, then whether U are single or married with kids - U will follow through coz that's core NEED. Usually your core need will usually encompass your loved ones, just need to set "higher levels" of same needs/goals.
eg.
Level 0 basic NEED/goal: FIRE for self = RM1.6M, assuming 4% drawdown, ie. will have RM64K pa or 5,333 pm to live on.
Level 1 scaling same NEED/goal up: FIRE for family when married = RM2.4M, assuming 4% drawdown, ie. will have RM96K pa or 8K pm to live on.
my parents thought me a simple thing - "if i cannot take care of myself or better, how can i take care of others". thus, for my - self clarity first, then scale where/when needed. the core is the same
note - not the only way forward ya, just the way i found that works for me. different strokes for different folks, just sharing
i have come across plenty of people declaring that they would need no less than rm20mil or more for FIRE.
and if simply based on your 4% approach, i was thinking what the hell does someone needs to spend RM66.7k per month on????
and life is always unexpected. one can plan all they want but somehow may end up a complete opposite to the plans.
so while FIRE is important, one must also know how to live their present life imho.
Jun 9 2020, 02:23 PM

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