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 FI/RE - Financial Independence / Retire Early, Share your experience

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fjoru103
post May 31 2020, 01:35 AM

On my way
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QUOTE(wongmunkeong @ May 30 2020, 10:36 PM)
thanks for asking  console.gif
coping? luckily better than thought coz that was about 12 years back  sweat.gif
life rebooted, losses cut, etc. - only thing is i miss my little one mucho mucho - only see her like 3 times a year. Now with MCO-no travel, impacted 1 of 3  cry.gif

on a serious note - a partner can boost, neutral or KILL one's financial plans. Thus, compatibility in financial outlook is a serious consideration - neednt be exactly the same but the heading or end goals should be similar. If one is the type of "i deserve it spender" VS one of us type of saver-investor-life optimizer, sure crash somewhere one. It's just a matter of time and what time of crashes.

personal lesson learned: dont marry hoping to other party change - people become more and more of what they really are (core).
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Like that advice mate, part of me wanted to get a gf, part of me wanted to stay single lol
i am near 40s lol and even without gf, am having kind of heavy family commitment now,
thus in my brain now like .. lost?
Unsure the saving and investment bla bla whether for me to "get married"
or I just want stay like this smile.gif

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