QUOTE(Irresistible @ Jun 19 2018, 08:50 AM)
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1. What should I do in this situation?
2. My salary is MUCH below my friends about the,same academic result who graduated about the same time. ( Cgpa 3.47 , above average).
3. What should I change in order not to be forget and earn my respect?
Thanks, I m feeling sad and find myself helpless...
1. Leave. I agree with ahchun below. Your superior lacks credibility for not keeping her promise. Are you still going to believe her from hereon?
2. Even more reason to leave. You've worked in this company for 6 years. It's time to leave for higher pay and not let your superior downplay your salary and character anymore.
3. You need to learn when to help and when to reject. In the workplace, it's hard to survive "alone" so we need to help each other out. Employees in an organisation have a symbiosis relationship with each other. In earning respect, first and foremost you need to show you're capable of handling your own work well. Learn to read the situation and know when people take advantage of you - reject from the early stage when you detect this. If you accept it even once, the other party will continue to expect that you'll do this for them.
However when the other party is desperate, it's okay to offer a helping hand. Consider telling them that you're doing this as a favour, to avoid having this person expecting such help repeatedly in future.
QUOTE(ahchun @ Jun 19 2018, 09:58 AM)