QUOTE(Drian @ Jun 12 2018, 12:20 PM)
To be frank if that was true , she already fall for the other guy before the 6 weeks.
Well she only knew the guy after she got posted to the new working place. that was 6 weeks. There was a hint from her once that her superior is after her when we just started working. well, seems that i trusted her too much.
QUOTE(Blofeld @ Jun 11 2018, 04:01 PM)
have choices in life.
date as many girls as you want
Considering that. but then i am too busy with my work, which in one way helps in resolving the pain.
QUOTE(magasel @ Jun 11 2018, 10:14 AM)
TS, look at the brighter side, she and you are not meant to be together, imagine if she can betray you macam ini, she will sure betray you in a marriage. Don't think she can find a boyfriend within 6 weeks. That guy been pursuing her since day 1.
I know its hard but its time you get back to your feet.
1. Watch horror movies to get your mind off her
2. Be closer to your family, now is time to get in touch
3. Go to gym, burn out those excess fat
4. Join social activities or religious activities - study new concepts to get your mind off and refocus
5. Concentrate on career and better yourself
6. Do not try to have future gf like her. Dare to try different dating, please do not try to form the girl to be like your ex. Try to change your mindset to accept different kinds of girl
1. To timid for that
2. Yeah, but my family are busy too. Always wake up and come back to an empty home.
3. my BMI is only 20.
4. Yeah, reluctant to go back to empty home after night shift. rather joining colleagues for chat
5. Its hard to focus on it initially, but i am trying hard to divert my attention to the loss
6. Definitely. She was such a disappointment.
Well, a loss is a loss. Its beyond repair. Tried to reconcile but came back to more hurtful words.
QUOTE(yewyeah @ Jun 11 2018, 03:29 PM)
As some people said, workout . now I go jog and weight training, six day a week.
Broke up with my ex 3month ago.(5 years relationship).
I m consider myself a good boyfriend.I gave everything to her, My time,My salary,My love(100% of it), cut all my contact with any female friend,bring her go concert, vacation,listen to what she said with my 100% attention,because whenever she got a problem,she will call me(any time,including my working hour). Then I will comfort her,gave her surprise(DIY dinner, gift, flowers etc etc),Wishes her good morning and good night everyday(since the day we become couple).
Just after 1 or 2 week, she got a new bf,the new bf is the one she used to said just her ‘best friend’
lol .And yes, sadness, the feeling, all the sweet memory pop up in my head whenever I try to sleep.Keep thinking why why why? All the things she gave me make me feel even worst when I see it. (My bag, wallet, earphone,watches,shirts,almost everything )
Some close friend of mine said I spoiled my ex kao kao. I treat her like my princess, better than myself.
After the brokeup , Im just DEAD inside my heart
Now, feeling better. workout made my mind clear.
I did not throw anything that she gave, will do it some day once I can said to myself: I m ok now.
My personal opinion to TS is: F*** it, Just be a bad boy better.
Find someone that love you,appreciate for what you do. And don't expect returns in the LOVE world, the less you expect,the less you get hurt.
And sorry for my lousy english.
I deserve a better girl ,I can find a better girl. Keep this in your heart.
Glad that you are almost over it.
She asked me not throw things she gave me and she wanna keep things i gave her. She said she appreciate them. Even said she thanked for good memories and things I had done, she will remember, felt sorry for breaking up, apologize and talk those craps. I was like F it, what shit she was talking about, 100% anger and 100% sadness. Well, i didnt throw away, but kept them in the store. Will pass them to the next person I care for.
Sometimes people tend to lose their integrity, and they lost the way on what they really want in their life. Or maybe they just lost faith in their partner. In my case, I guess all 3 of the factors came into play.