QUOTE(jenny1990 @ May 6 2018, 11:55 AM)
i have been with my gf for 3 years. she keep asking me to buy car to fetch her. even her mother also hinted me. i already said in future will buy car. Also, she keep asking how was my planning for future? when buy house and car. she also ask me work tgt to find side income to prove her mom.other than that,she also comparing frenbf always fetch go around and treat eat. with the 1.9k nett salary after minus epf. i am dy 27 yo with no house andcar. am i just loser and idiot?
Bro, to be honest with you, RM1.9k isn't enough, especially for your age; what are you currently working as? what are you qualifications?
I hope your gf realizes that being in a relationship is a 2 way street; a push and pull kind of thing; both parties have to equally contribute to the relationship;
How about your gf? Does the have a car herself? How are her efforts in pursuing a future together with you?
IMO, not having a house nor a car doesn't make you a loser. A Man is not measured by the material wealth he has accumulated; but the actions and responsibilities he shoulder.
On the other hand, perhaps indirectly, your gf and her mother, by hinting your to pursue a plan to purchase a house and a car is a way to hint you to seek for better opportunities for a higher paying job, seeing that your current RM1.9k is quite low compared to the average salary.
As the bf, you should be looking towards a long term and stable future for you and your gf; perhaps this is what your gf is looking for. Women prefer men with a plan for a future together.
This post has been edited by RisingTide: May 7 2018, 11:25 AM