Hey Bro, unless you are considered good looking or macho type like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or the KPop looks don't expect girls to be giving you hints that they like you.

Get to know more people and expand your social life and confidence first.

I was in your shoes before, involved in long term relationship that did not work and single for many years.

Start slowly else you will look desperate.

Woman are attracted to confident men.

Hi Bro, I think generally, if a girl takes a long time to respond to your messages / e-mails, etc it means one of few things

a) She is very busy with her work and overlooked to reply to you.

b) She is not really interested and is merely being polite in entertaining you when you call her or catch her at the right time.

How to tell the difference between the 2 is this.. if you are always the one doing the calling / initiating (say more than 75%), then it’s the later (b) that she is not really interested in being more than friends and you should move on.

At your age, time is a precious commodity that should not be wasted on futile projects. In a way, it is better than leading you on and using you as a doormat or ATM.

Good ways to meet chicks (which I have used before).

a) Ask friends to introduce – this way you know that she is single and available if you can click it off

b) Join social events that interest you – you can meet like-minded people and have better instant chemistry

c) Join dating events / speed date / lunch actually – you meet women who generally want to date guys in your profile group

Generally, I would say that you should approach woman with the intention of just to know them and be friends. After a few outings or events (I don’t like to use the word dates), you would know if there is any chemistry to take it to the next step.

Portray confidence when meeting women in your speech and actions and don’t come off as desperate. If you sense that the woman is not interested, just cool off for a while and move on. Who knows, she may call you back and you can restart the process.

Wish you luck in advance.