So basically I'm being wif this girl around 4 years.
For first year everything seem to be smooth and nice.
For second year I start to argue wif her and its become like habit.
Reason for this is I'm really stress at office and I got no idea how to tell her.
After 4 years, I'm sick and I really not sure what I'm thinking, I said to her
that I'm thinking to break up.
In same time. during few weeks or maybe a month ago, she decided to know
1 guy which is driver bus from bus she took to office.
That guy seem so caring about her, send her medicine and everything.
Meanwhile I never do that before.
Now we're in conflict when her parents interrupt.
We're getting married soon.. But now on how I threat her, she seem opening her heart for this guy already.
I'm worried. We're getting married.
I try to change by start sending her go office, fetch her back from office cause I'm scared..
Yesterday I decided to meet her and we argue 1 more time until she cannot tahan anymore. She said to me she need time
until end of this month to decide..
In meantime I'm scared she will choose this guy and throw away this 4 years relationship..
Any advice? I'm really feeling so scared+not secure and many more until I can't do my work at office.. Please guy give some proper advice to me..
I know I'm bad for keep arguing wif her until she said she really hurt.. But I really wanna change..
This post has been edited by HafeesFadil: Apr 18 2018, 10:22 AM
Advice Wanted Need some proper advice