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QUOTE(Zackwong6167 @ Apr 11 2018, 07:56 PM)
I believe its normal for couples to fight but I'm not sure if couple fight at the slightest of things.
My girlfriend is a very small gas person and known to be "small gas" type of person within her circle of friends.
Few months back, our relationship had a rough patch because I was constantly working part time(for our future of course) and she complaining I did not spend enough time with her. Somehow I am able to fix the problem and focus on giving her some attention.
Fast forward to few months, I am still doing the same thing, not looking at my phone when I'm talking to her, fetch her family members everywhere when they needed to get somewhere (my gf, her bro(still in high school) and her mom all don't drive), watch her favorite tv shows every night with her and fetch her home every week when my house is located about 40+km away from her house. I cut down some of my hobbies to be with her and I'm happy with it. Even when argument, I was almost always the one who just gave her a huge hugs and just forget about it. Most of her family members have huge temper problem, so I understand about it when she shouted at me whenever I made a mistake and never fight back.
As of today, we had a huge argument and it got me thinking. I need to be away for a few days so I figured I should spend some time with her before I'm away. So I picked her up from uni and head over to shopping complex since she love shopping. I mentioned a restaurant which i'm dying to eat since its my childhood food. Little did I know was the pricing, and it got her extremely mad. She mentioned she did not want to spend so much on a food (cost around 15-20) and she shouted at me in the restaurant and keep crying. I didn't know what to do and just kept quiet in the restaurant while people looking at me. She complained she was very tired that she woke up early in the morning for class and skipped lunch to rush her assignment and now I brought her to eat shitty and expensive food.
I was clueless when she said that..
In all outings, I never get to eat my favorite food for lunch and dinner and just eat what she likes. Money is never the problem as I can belanja her but she rejected and complained that I brought her to expensive restaurant without researching the menu. I dont understand why she was so mad about it when she can easily spend 40-50 ringgit for her make up stuff and not willingly to spend rm20 for a food that I would like to eat.
am I really a bad boyfriend?
Sorry for the huge ranting but I just feel sad when she said that I fucked up and that she will never trust my words anymore (for not researching the price of the food) and would rather stay at home than letting me bringing her out.
My girlfriend is a very small gas person and known to be "small gas" type of person within her circle of friends.
Few months back, our relationship had a rough patch because I was constantly working part time(for our future of course) and she complaining I did not spend enough time with her. Somehow I am able to fix the problem and focus on giving her some attention.
Fast forward to few months, I am still doing the same thing, not looking at my phone when I'm talking to her, fetch her family members everywhere when they needed to get somewhere (my gf, her bro(still in high school) and her mom all don't drive), watch her favorite tv shows every night with her and fetch her home every week when my house is located about 40+km away from her house. I cut down some of my hobbies to be with her and I'm happy with it. Even when argument, I was almost always the one who just gave her a huge hugs and just forget about it. Most of her family members have huge temper problem, so I understand about it when she shouted at me whenever I made a mistake and never fight back.
As of today, we had a huge argument and it got me thinking. I need to be away for a few days so I figured I should spend some time with her before I'm away. So I picked her up from uni and head over to shopping complex since she love shopping. I mentioned a restaurant which i'm dying to eat since its my childhood food. Little did I know was the pricing, and it got her extremely mad. She mentioned she did not want to spend so much on a food (cost around 15-20) and she shouted at me in the restaurant and keep crying. I didn't know what to do and just kept quiet in the restaurant while people looking at me. She complained she was very tired that she woke up early in the morning for class and skipped lunch to rush her assignment and now I brought her to eat shitty and expensive food.
I was clueless when she said that..
In all outings, I never get to eat my favorite food for lunch and dinner and just eat what she likes. Money is never the problem as I can belanja her but she rejected and complained that I brought her to expensive restaurant without researching the menu. I dont understand why she was so mad about it when she can easily spend 40-50 ringgit for her make up stuff and not willingly to spend rm20 for a food that I would like to eat.
am I really a bad boyfriend?
Sorry for the huge ranting but I just feel sad when she said that I fucked up and that she will never trust my words anymore (for not researching the price of the food) and would rather stay at home than letting me bringing her out.
it sounded like its all about her. where are you then?
everything you do will not be right, everything you do will be shouted at, just because she is temperamental.
if relationship has no respect, it will go toxic.
you have to stop give in too much, end up you spoil her and she do whatever she wants and then you know the relationship is already toxic.