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post Apr 2 2018, 12:55 PM, updated 8y ago

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How much charge nowaday for morning session or whole day ?

Ayam may need one later
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post Apr 2 2018, 12:57 PM

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no need. waster of money.
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post Apr 2 2018, 12:57 PM

miaw miaw miaw^^
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post Apr 2 2018, 12:59 PM

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If you want to go with all the traditional stuff, then you need someone to be telling everybody what to do, when to do what. This is what the dai kam does basically. Otherwise everybody kelam kabut.

Save money just have simple registration and then dinner will do.

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post Apr 2 2018, 12:59 PM

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hell no

pay money to menyusahkan
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:04 PM

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usually morning session. mayb 500-1000 gua
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:06 PM

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I forgot but the one i hired...she talk a lot of funny stuff...kept the guest entertained with her funny antics. No cringy jokes or jokes which makes ppl roll eyes. If pick the right one can really make the occasion very merry.
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:14 PM

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if ur family or spouse family insist need traditional marriage customs BUT nobody knows what to do then OK hire one la. Otherwise u simply do here do there then ppl later complain suay or whatever ...
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:17 PM

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i think money more well spent if donate to charity, generate good karma, again, this is personal choice, no offence😊
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:21 PM

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normally chinese will need
i didnt hire one
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:24 PM

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If you want to save money, no need hire dai kam che, i have seen a wedding couple without hire dai kam che, their photographer did the job by telling the couple and family members what to do for the ceremony. Just that it's not so happening and merry only.
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:27 PM

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another stupid cainis tradition
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:31 PM

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QUOTE(Zoopdiidoo @ Apr 2 2018, 01:06 PM)
I forgot but the one i hired...she talk a lot of funny stuff...kept the guest entertained with her funny antics. No cringy jokes or jokes which makes ppl roll eyes. If pick the right one can really make the occasion very merry.
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Say till so good, but forgot contact doh.gif
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:32 PM

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QUOTE(ThisWorldisWeird @ Apr 2 2018, 01:31 PM)
Say till so good, but forgot contact  doh.gif
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:47 PM

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nope no need
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post Apr 2 2018, 01:58 PM

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Depends on both family side if really need to follow the traditional stuff/ritual. My wedding, i asked my auntie to help... that one also half know half dunno.. But still ok la since my side and wife side also not those traditional mindset..
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this one usually is the bride side that asked for it one la... if bride say no need, then nvm lo... but if they say want, then u have to find one lo... then if ur family want it, then lan lan suck thumb and get 1 nia lo
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:17 PM

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if family members alot
it would be messy during tea ceremony without someone to organize it
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:20 PM

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Depends ji mui naisu anot..if naisu ok.mana tau can get some numbers

If all dinox dun need waste money.fast done fast cabutzzzzz
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(Left4Dead2 @ Apr 2 2018, 12:55 PM)
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How much charge nowaday for morning session or whole day ?

Ayam may need one later
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just pay la. ur a DAP right? to me, the most important thing is face.

if you want cheap wedding, salary 2k also kids 12, you vote BN. But as an opposition supporter, it is our duty, that 20k can only afford 3 kids, by spending it on all these things.
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:27 PM

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Their experience really needed, my sis decided not to hire one and the ceremony became so chaotic.

sweat.gif nobody know that we need get ready to clean the tea cups during tea ceremony.

Save your family/quests all the stress.
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:29 PM

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The only reason you need dai kam che / gong during wedding session is for someone to blame / eat dead cat laugh.gif

If in laws/parents say why never do this do what, just say dai kam che / gong say no need do wan #truestory
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QUOTE(Prometric @ Apr 2 2018, 03:29 PM)
The only reason you need dai kam che / gong during wedding session is for someone to blame / eat dead cat  laugh.gif

If in laws/parents say why never do this do what, just say dai kam che / gong say no need do wan #truestory
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:36 PM

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QUOTE(suikod3n @ Apr 2 2018, 03:27 PM)
Their experience really needed, my sis decided not to hire one and the ceremony became so chaotic.

sweat.gif nobody know that we need get ready to clean the tea cups during tea ceremony.

Save your family/quests all the stress.
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common sense also dont know?
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:37 PM

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QUOTE(suikod3n @ Apr 2 2018, 03:27 PM)
Their experience really needed, my sis decided not to hire one and the ceremony became so chaotic.

sweat.gif nobody know that we need get ready to clean the tea cups during tea ceremony.

Save your family/quests all the stress.
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Confirm ada experience myself, just need to say those sweet words only

RM500 for morning session only is money fly though. Better give jiemui for brows.gif rclxm9.gif
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post Apr 2 2018, 03:43 PM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Apr 2 2018, 03:36 PM)
common sense also dont know?
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my sis is the bossy type, want to manage everything and act knowledgeable. So we just follow the flow expecting everything arranged LEL.


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post Apr 2 2018, 04:02 PM

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Better get one.

else
1. you don't know what to do or prepare
2. drinking tea become some boring as there are no "Voice over" "commentary" when it's going on
3. You don't know the arrangement or sequence of who to drink tea first.
4. Yum Seng session becomes super boring and meaningless

Seriously, some things really cannot kedekut one. it's like trying to run an event without a proper host or emcee.

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QUOTE(exkay @ Apr 2 2018, 04:02 PM)
Better get one.

else
1. you don't know what to do or prepare
2. drinking tea become some boring as there are no "Voice over" "commentary" when it's going on
3. You don't know the arrangement or sequence of who to drink tea first.
4. Yum Seng session becomes super boring and meaningless

Seriously, some things really cannot kedekut one. it's like trying to run an event without a proper host or emcee.
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1. Hei tai jie mui will play the clown
2. This one no comment
3. Follow age and rank lah
4. Night time doesnt need dai kam
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post Apr 2 2018, 04:40 PM

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QUOTE(Left4Dead2 @ Apr 2 2018, 12:55 PM)
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How much charge nowaday for morning session or whole day ?

Ayam may need one later
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u need her to shiong tau at girls home a night before , unless u find a relative or friends that is long life and good long marriage relatio to do it.
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QUOTE(exkay @ Apr 2 2018, 04:02 PM)
Better get one.

else
1. you don't know what to do or prepare
2. drinking tea become some boring as there are no "Voice over" "commentary" when it's going on
3. You don't know the arrangement or sequence of who to drink tea first.
4. Yum Seng session becomes super boring and meaningless

Seriously, some things really cannot kedekut one. it's like trying to run an event without a proper host or emcee.
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night time dinner restaurant mc can do the talks
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:10 AM

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any contacts to share?
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:20 AM

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Dai kam is like keeper of tradition. If your family already very kuat in the tradition knowledge then no need.

But if nobody know what to do, then hire one to make the process more smooth. You don't want your wedding to be awkward.
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:28 AM

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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Jan 19 2019, 01:10 AM)
any contacts to share?
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Kl area? I have a few contacts. From cheap ones to really good ones. Man or woman also got. Good ones usually around 1k. Morning only
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:59 AM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Apr 2 2018, 03:36 PM)
common sense also dont know?
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post Jan 19 2019, 02:45 AM

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QUOTE(DS_Legacy @ Jan 19 2019, 01:28 AM)
Kl area? I have a few contacts. From cheap ones to really good ones. Man or woman also got. Good ones usually around 1k. Morning only
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Yes boss. U use them before? Can pm? smile.gif
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post Jan 19 2019, 02:49 AM

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pick 1 tat is funny, they really knw how 2 make the wedding lively
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post Jan 19 2019, 11:22 AM

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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Jan 19 2019, 02:45 AM)
Yes boss. U use them before? Can pm? smile.gif
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I have a team that covers actual wedding day service. Photography, videography, cinematography and makeup. So I deal with this kinda people a lot. Some dai kam waste time with their unnecessary traditions. But the following two is best I have met in 3 years. biggrin.gif

Funny and best dai kam imho
Gaga Ong 011-28080179

Modern, young and easy going dai kam. One of the best MC (say soya intro, maybe can get discount) tongue.gif
Jerry Wong 016-202 2528
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(DS_Legacy @ Jan 19 2019, 11:22 AM)
I have a team that covers actual wedding day service. Photography, videography, cinematography and makeup. So I deal with this kinda people a lot. Some dai kam waste time with their unnecessary traditions. But the following two is best I have met in 3 years. biggrin.gif

Funny and best dai kam imho
Gaga Ong 011-28080179

Modern, young and easy going dai kam. One of the best MC (say soya intro, maybe can get discount) tongue.gif
Jerry Wong 016-202 2528
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Nice. Thanks alot. Hope they still available on the date i want...
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post Jan 19 2019, 01:31 PM

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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Jan 19 2019, 01:07 PM)
Nice. Thanks alot. Hope they still available on the date i want...
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If they are not available, then u pm me. I will find u one decent one. biggrin.gif
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post Jan 19 2019, 03:09 PM

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http://www.wedresearch.net/2013/08/dai-kam...-chaperone.html
here you can find all the dai kam gor/jie contacts you need.

i used kengo (geng gor) before.. very fun to work with.

one of the best mc around - pro and fun - http://williamlee.com.my/
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QUOTE(kons @ Jan 19 2019, 03:09 PM)
http://www.wedresearch.net/2013/08/dai-kam...-chaperone.html
here you can find all the dai kam gor/jie contacts you need.

i used kengo (geng gor) before.. very fun to work with.

one of the best mc around - pro and fun - http://williamlee.com.my/
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lmao, william friggin ex bro
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post Jan 19 2019, 06:34 PM

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QUOTE(myasiahobby @ Apr 2 2018, 12:57 PM)
no need. waster of money.
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And it's a bloody nuisance.
Noisy.
Talk unnecessary. Trying hard to make jokes.


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post Jan 20 2019, 01:22 AM

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i have 1 during my time, but i have lrettt big family, so she basically help on all stuff arrangement, sequence, some singing and comedy.

at night she even assist to remind of procedure and lookout for me
and my wife as we contanstly moving around. i find that her service helped us a lot so my other family member,especially parents/sibling can truly enjoy their time
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Just sign the cert and spend the rest on booze for dinner much appreciated!

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