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Headmaster slapped my nephew
Odinn
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Mar 12 2018, 03:06 PM
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Find witnesses who are willing to testify if questioned. Regardless of status, if you're wrong then you ought to apologize. Even moreso an educator, in this case the head of a school. Make it known to him, if he is indeed found to be wrong and still refuses to apologize, what kind of message do you want to drive to the students.
Again, find witnesses. No witness, then it's your word against mine. And if this is the case, you won't win. Just cos he didn't go to work for 2 days doesn't mean he is guilty for sure.
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Dr Jan Itor
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Mar 13 2018, 09:17 AM
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How do you know for sure that your nephew was not involved in the fight? Kids lie all the time
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lingleeyen
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Mar 13 2018, 11:42 AM
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Make police report. Report jabatan pendidikan.
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djboycalvin
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Mar 13 2018, 11:50 AM
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> got to hospital for inspection (your nephew) > find witnesses (or evident) > make police report > make report to jpn > inform school that reports is already done (at most school will look for parents / penjaga for discussion / nego )
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Mikeshashimi
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Mar 13 2018, 11:52 AM
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Right or wrong is secondary.
No educator should ever slap a student.
Just report to Kementerian and lodge police report if you really want to take it that far.
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b3arbear
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Mar 13 2018, 11:58 AM
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can share what was the whatsapp msg content to the HM ? it might cause him feel threaten and he might report to police.
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Radioactive Infused Cola
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Mar 13 2018, 12:27 PM
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QUOTE(b3arbear @ Mar 13 2018, 11:58 AM) can share what was the whatsapp msg content to the HM ? it might cause him feel threaten and he might report to police. im sure the weight of physical abuse is much heavier than a threatening text message.
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yeezai
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Mar 13 2018, 02:51 PM
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go for medical checkup in hospital ..make police report ..and inform pibg , education ministry , mca micheal chong about this...
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zackskate666
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Mar 13 2018, 04:12 PM
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sikit2 report,sikit2 viral..end up next generation all pandan.. because of current grown up also pandan everything want make a big ho-ha about it..
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Rubypoyo
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Mar 13 2018, 05:35 PM
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Cheh so pandan generation, slap sahaja maa, anyway TS please investigate the root cause first, you can just ask other student or teacher around maybe they can give you the clear picture what really happen. HM wont simply tampar student, i got the feeling your nephew is being fishy here
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SUSVoidDance
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Mar 14 2018, 09:07 AM
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QUOTE(COOLPINK @ Mar 12 2018, 01:58 PM) student right or wrong - headmaster/teacher has no more rights to slap face. Go hospital for check-up, make police report and file a report at JPN. Viral the issue if no action taken. No wonder we're creating world class students nowadays. But correct. Teachers are not suppose to slap in the face. Can report to JPN first. This post has been edited by VoidDance: Mar 14 2018, 09:08 AM
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TimesOfTrouble
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Mar 14 2018, 11:27 AM
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I had similar experience before, but back then no one would come up and stick up for me so had to just let it go. Most teachers just like to show their authority, it's really rare to find genuine good teachers these days that actually cares about students.
So it's a fact that he was indeed slapped. You have right to first visit the HM personally to question why he has not investigate first before punishing your nephew. If HM tried to putar, give shitty excuses and refuse to apologize still. Then bring it to PIBG and JPN.
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maniack
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Mar 15 2018, 02:15 PM
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this is valid case, the teacher (regardless position) should not take any action without checking/asking the current situation
as for the kid, he/she will get trauma and humiliated from that incident
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man
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Mar 15 2018, 02:25 PM
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QUOTE(zackskate666 @ Mar 13 2018, 04:12 PM) sikit2 report,sikit2 viral..end up next generation all pandan.. because of current grown up also pandan everything want make a big ho-ha about it.. +1 This post has been edited by man: Mar 15 2018, 02:26 PM
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myasiahobby
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Mar 15 2018, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(TENGAHMAKANV2.0 @ Mar 11 2018, 08:39 PM) No police report has been made yet but other teachers have heard about this. My brother just want the teacher to apologize infront of everyone so they know that my nephew is innocent One problem is my sister in law is not Malaysian(yet),my nephew being able to take UPSR also is the best. He will be going to tahfiz because he cannot go to SMK. Get to take upsr or not is two different case. Is your child born in malaysia. If not go to jpn(jabatan pendidikan negeri) talk to the officer.
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myasiahobby
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Mar 15 2018, 02:34 PM
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QUOTE(Peiyantiu @ Mar 14 2018, 09:03 AM) Last time in school, kids always kena tampar by cikgu... Mostly bcos they deserve it but sometimes innocently kena... But life goes on Nowadays big issue alrdy No wonder go work, boss scold sikit wanna cry and resign alrdy.. If kena tampar by cikgu in school, people scold also no problem Last time at school kena tampar if go home complian to parents sure kena tampar second time. New generation very pampered
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Knight_2008
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Mar 15 2018, 02:37 PM
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QUOTE(myasiahobby @ Mar 15 2018, 02:34 PM) Last time at school kena tampar if go home complian to parents sure kena tampar second time. New generation very pampered I don't know why you want the new generation to live like the previous generation. Your father generation jamban kat luar rumah, so your jamban also want to put luar rumah?
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seather
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Mar 15 2018, 03:49 PM
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assuming ur nephew was wronged, what do u actually hope to get from the HM?
a true apology from the HM + a teaching moment on life, or a humiliation on the HM just sate some bruised ego?
if the former, just ask the HM for a private meeting and insist nicely on a apology... then if the HM is truly sorry, then teach the kid what is forgiveness and tell him he can be the better person..
if the later, sometimes there such thing as going too far for an apology... and u mite end up as the arsehole for demanding too much...
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