Guys, wat would u do if you have a suicidal friend?
first of all, im not sure if this girl is really depressed or just seeking for attention. She's 29 and she always think she's being treated unfairly by the world. I know her for very long since school time and even a tiny thing she can see it as a very big deal and ppl prejudice on her.
6 months ago, her father passed away and she was extremely sad. So i chatted with her and comforted her. After tat, she really got very annoying. She keep texting, calling and occassionally came to my office to find me.
Actually im not really close to her and her topics are usually very boring: all her rambling on how she's being treated unfairly in the office, her friends dislike her, things do not go the way she prefer and more. More often than not, i will layan her but if your advice is not what she want to hear, she will get angry.
There are times even she listen to you, it will repeat again the next day with the same old issue. Imagine if you are having a bad day and suddenly you receive a message telling u she's very sad and down bcoz of some petty issues (at least from my pov) and how unfair my life is better compared with hers. Like seriously wtf....
So i also malas want to layan and just ignore and she sent me 70++ messages in an hour or two. Some of the emails are about how she wished to die and tell me dun underestimate ppl with suicidal thoughts. I duno but it seems like threatening me if i dun layan, she will go suicide and post few gory pictures to me.
Honestly speaking, i feel quite disgusted with her attitude as it seems like a threatening me to chat with her. I did ask her to consult doctor like so many times and she refused to do so and said only me able to help her. If i could help, she wouldn't have been like this since 6 months ago.
So guys, if you were me, wat would you do?
Suicidal Friend, Please give advice what to do