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yungkit14
post Feb 23 2018, 10:32 AM

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funny i am always the guy that ask girl this question ,never realise this ,i guess i now know where i wrong but if i dont ask ,hati no feel,if i ask ,hati macam down .
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post Feb 23 2018, 11:46 AM

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you can know the answer without even asking
just use your brain a little
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post Feb 23 2018, 11:50 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Feb 16 2018, 01:11 AM)
Asking someone got bf or gf or not isn't an obvious hint that you are interested to her/him? What do you think?
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usually people that ask so direct like this are a nerd or dry until cannot tahan anymore
smart fishing player will twist the question around to get the answer but not direct ask the question
btw, plenty of girl nowadays usually will say "i am single" , when you throw in effort and money , end up in the middle "sorry you are not my type" but the truth is she ald had a bf long long time ago, only to test market...haha
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post Feb 23 2018, 11:53 PM

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QUOTE(PhakFuhZai @ Feb 23 2018, 11:46 AM)
you can know the answer without even asking
just use your brain a little
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Nobody ask you to answer and to say nice thing don't cost you any

QUOTE(shinchan^^ @ Feb 23 2018, 09:31 AM)
just ask what do you normally do on weekend?
follow by , no go for dating etc
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One day reply once. Lol

QUOTE(skylee18 @ Feb 23 2018, 11:50 AM)
usually people that ask so direct like this are a nerd or dry until cannot tahan anymore
smart fishing player will twist the question around to get the answer but not direct ask the question
btw, plenty of girl nowadays usually will say "i am single" , when you throw in effort and money , end up in the middle "sorry you are not my type" but the truth is she ald had a bf long long time ago, only to test market...haha
pathetic city living culture
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Maybe asking is a wrong thing to do.
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post Feb 24 2018, 09:48 AM

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post Feb 25 2018, 09:06 AM

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Most guys can take a hint that the girl is interested.

Just like what kind of movie you like and then say what kind of movie you like that is currently showing but you have NOT watched it yet.

Or you heard that there is a new cafe but you have not gone there yet.. But please don't mention something too expensive else you are seen as gold digger.
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post Feb 25 2018, 08:54 PM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Feb 25 2018, 09:06 AM)
Most guys can take a hint that the girl is interested.

Just like what kind of movie you like and then say what kind of movie you like that is currently showing but you have NOT watched it yet.

Or you heard that there is a new cafe but you have not gone there yet.. But please don't mention something too expensive else you are seen as gold digger.
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Means you suggest me to ask him out?
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post Feb 25 2018, 11:33 PM

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Asking if someone has a girlfriend or boyfriend is sort of odd, phrasing wise. Won't it be more polite and effective to just ask if they're "seeing anyone at the moment"?
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post Feb 25 2018, 11:35 PM

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QUOTE(itekderp @ Feb 25 2018, 11:33 PM)
Asking if someone has a girlfriend or boyfriend is sort of odd, phrasing wise. Won't it be more polite and effective to just ask if they're "seeing anyone at the moment"?
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Doesn't matter at all for now. Maybe I will just move on.

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post Feb 25 2018, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Feb 25 2018, 11:35 PM)
Doesn't matter at all for now. Maybe I will just move on.
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Just ask anyway. You know you want to. wink wink
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post Feb 25 2018, 11:46 PM

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QUOTE(itekderp @ Feb 25 2018, 11:36 PM)
Just ask anyway. You know you want to. wink wink
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Just install an app. I saw he have an account and looking out...He told me is too busy to find a relationship and yet I saw he inside the Badoo app, in case you don't know, similar with dating app. Well, he is a smart person, I don't think he don't know what I think after I initiate messages to him after so many times and with that kind of question. Lol. Maybe I m just too ugly for him


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post Feb 25 2018, 11:48 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Feb 25 2018, 11:46 PM)
Just install an app. I saw he have an account and looking out...He told me is too busy to find a relationship and yet I saw he inside the Badoo app, in case you don't know, similar with dating app.
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Kesian, so you do feel he just isn't interested. Maybe all for the best then if he can't get past the superficial right.
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post Feb 25 2018, 11:50 PM

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QUOTE(itekderp @ Feb 25 2018, 11:48 PM)
Kesian, so you do feel he just isn't interested. Maybe all for the best then if he can't get past the superficial right.
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Is Ok. Maybe I will found someone there. I just follow his step.
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post Feb 25 2018, 11:51 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Feb 25 2018, 11:50 PM)
Is Ok. Maybe I will found someone there. I just follow his step.
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Let your inner little girl out to play sometimes, have some fun.
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post Feb 26 2018, 12:00 AM

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QUOTE(yungkit14 @ Feb 23 2018, 10:32 AM)
funny i am always the guy that ask girl this question ,never realise this ,i guess i now  know where i wrong but if i dont ask ,hati no feel,if i ask ,hati macam down .
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At least you got the answer, to pursue or not. For my case, I feel myself very cheap already to get his attention. I am done lol

QUOTE(itekderp @ Feb 25 2018, 11:51 PM)
Let your inner little girl out to play sometimes, have some fun.
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I m quite old already..Maybe fun is not in my dictionary. Probably I will just do something else, travel etc instead thinking why he is not looking for me everyday, I shouldn't reply his first message after all.
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post Feb 26 2018, 05:58 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Feb 25 2018, 08:54 PM)
Means you suggest me to ask him out?
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If he is interested in you he will take you out and you will be able to ask of he is attached during the outing
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post Apr 1 2018, 09:16 PM

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QUOTE(besthanj @ Feb 22 2018, 09:11 AM)
Nowadays different liao, if you're interested u can make the first move. Rather than waiting, at least you know your answer earlier before wasting your time on him right?

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Manage to chat with him..Reply....Very late. Like one message, replied nxt day. Should I just move on? Every time I say move on, but I never...What to do.....I don't want him see me like a desperate person .
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post Apr 1 2018, 09:18 PM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Feb 26 2018, 05:58 AM)
If he is interested in you he will take you out and you will be able to ask of he is attached during the outing
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No attach..I guess I will just see what he will do, this month is my birthday month...If he didn't say anything.... Probably I will just cry and walk away.
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post Apr 1 2018, 09:21 PM

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If he takes one day to reply your message, means that you far down his list of priorities.

Best you focus on yourself.
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post Apr 1 2018, 09:27 PM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Apr 1 2018, 09:21 PM)
If he takes one day to reply your message, means that you far down his list of priorities.

Best you focus on yourself.
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@nicole

As mentioned by cfa n agree as well.
Since he reply u late, better to just move on and focus on your self as I can feel that his priority on you is not there.

Best of luck, dont look back, keep focus on yourself n future .

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