Hey you!

I just replied to your other thread, so do check it out when you have the time.

Now, this is just me, drawing preliminary clues, and based on your post from this thread and the other, so correct me if I am wrong but it seems that not only are you an introvert person but you are quite the perfectionist too.

Is there a desire within you that wants all things to be right, and that the slightest mishap can knock your balance off?

Tell me, are you a September baby? If you feel uncomfortable answering this question, then you do not have to or if you prefer, you can PM me. I am all ears, buddy.

If you do not mind me asking, has there ever been a social situation where you actually felt happy and comfortable and you look forward to such social gathering again, with the same people, in the near future?

Aha! I was right about the September baby part.

No, it was not any of Lilian Too’s book that got me to ask you that question but rather, it is my own keen observation on people, their behavior, their choice of words and their description of their lifestyle, that made me put clues together on their birth month, buddy.

In case if anyone of you ever wondering, no, I would not be able to put my finger on one’s birth date because that is just nigh-imposisble … or is it? I will try to work on that. Haha.

Now that you have given us some glimpse on your lifestyle, which is you spending most of your waking hours at the office, let’s take it from there, shall we?

Ok, my apologies, I will need to postpone my reply because it is boarding time for me now.

On the subject of communication, I like to share a little secret with you, and this might surprise you, so here we go:

No one knows how scared you are, inside, unless it is projected on the outside … meaning, like a goose, that looks so calm on the surface but beneath the water, their freaking feet is paddling away like crazy, just so to keep themselves look elegant and composed, so that others only see what they want others to see, and you are just 2 steps from being like that goose, figuratively speaking

Ok, now I really got to go, buddy!