QUOTE(Avangelice @ Mar 4 2018, 12:42 AM)
Don't be a door mat brother. I too spend a shit tonne of money on my ex (understandable she was a uni student then) but I doubt she is one of those kinds that will pay a little for the relationship.
Anyways either way you are fucked.
talk to her about it and it will cut your manliness out and she will always remember it.
keep quiet and you will whittle your savings away and she leaving you for another better person with more money
that's life man protect yourself first. I know I have a sum of money tucked away in case I get screwed over
Yeah I'm trying to control the spending a little when I'm out with her. Like when she wants to order some fancy wagyu that costs RM200+, I'd be like "why not we get fish instead, been eating so much meat lately".
I sometimes suggest like cheaper places to see if she'd offer to pick up the bill but nada. No dice.
Talked to her before a couple weeks ago. She agreed to pull her weight but I haven't seen any improvements yet.
QUOTE(Adri Wing @ Mar 4 2018, 03:18 PM)
Ok ... you like girl and she seem oso like you. Discuss your concern regarding money with her.
Discuss it in kopitiam ... she wouldn't know.
All the best.
Discussed before. Told her it's not that I'm not willing to spend, but I don't see any financial commitments from her side, so it kinda makes me feel like she's in it for the money and fancy food etc.
QUOTE(TheReaderReads @ Mar 4 2018, 03:50 PM)
Leave her
This sort of girl will probably leave u when u r in trouble or bankrupt
I've asked her this several times before. Her reply always standard "is that how you think of me?" which makes me feel bad instead.
QUOTE(cfa28 @ Mar 4 2018, 10:07 PM)
Hi TS, is she officially your GF..
Have you piap her already.
I hope at least one of the above answers is YES... else you're just an ATM to her.
Long term she is NOT wife material.
Up to you to decide
Not officially. I didn't want to put a status to us because I fear that she's in it for the free meals.
She seems to be a good wife material aside from this. She cleans the house, cooks for the family etc. But if course it's based on what she told me.
When she stayed over at mine, she didn't bother cleaning up after herself. E.g. Used bowls left on the table, hair clogging the shower drain, beds not made up etc.