i've been to a few cainis wedding that don't take angpau.
still wedding cost are expected to be spent. only old uncles like my dad generation take wedding dinner as a profit.
i told my friend i dont wanna check angpau when i'm getting married. well, some said, they keep a list of names and their angpaus. how much they gib then when it's their wedding you gib back how much.
cainis. manyak kira la.
before you trigger. ayam cainis. hainanese x teochew if you're curious.
RM10 chinese wedding dinner angpaos