QUOTE(BlueWind @ Dec 30 2017, 07:23 PM)
Go out and join some activities? Look out for charities and practice your communication skills. Don't be desperate of getting girls if you don't have social skills.
One shouldn't join charities for the sake of finding a partner. It is most likely that if one does that, he/she would fail for sure. It is merely a window of opportunity to know more people, boys and girls alike. From there, conversations are what develop friendships into something more if there is chemistry. Then enlarge the choices of activities; hiking club etc ... eventually the social circle would grow.
Of course is one is a loner, who only wants to stay at home and sulk about not having a GF, nothing would happen. Surfing forum, stalking IG/FB ain't gonna cut it.
The saying "If It Is To Be, It Is Up To Me" holds plenty of truth to it ... For many things, it doesn't just fall onto your lap by doing nothing. Heck even a lottery win requires you to purchase before you stand a chance.