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TSreed90
post Dec 21 2017, 11:51 AM, updated 7y ago

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"I was broken from the inside.

The depression slowly chipped me away, finally devouring me.

I could not beat the negativity.

I hated myself. Even though I tried so hard demanding my memories that kept getting cut off to ‘wake up,’ all I got in return was silence.

I‘d rather stop if I cannot breathe.

I asked who could be responsible for me.

You’re the only one.

I felt utterly alone.

It is easy to say “I‘m going to end it.”

It is very difficult to actually go through with it.

I’ve been struggling through the difficulty.

I told myself that it‘s just me wanting to run away from everything.

It’s true. I really did want to run away.

From me.

From you.

I asked, “Who‘s there?” It’s me. It‘s me again. And it’s me the third time.

I asked, “Why do I keep on losing my memory?” They said it‘s due to my personality. I see. It’s all my fault.

I wanted someone to notice (my suffering), but no one knew. Of course, they wouldn‘t. They never met me before.

I asked why people live. Just. Just. They live “just because.”

If I ask why people died, they would probably say they couldn’t bear it any longer.

Troubling thoughts flooded my head. I never got the chance to learn how to change dull pain into pure joy.

Pain is just pain.

I kept reprimanding myself not to do so.

Why? Why can‘t I even end my life with my own will?

I tried figuring out the reasons for my pain and suffering.

I already had the answer. I was in pain because of me. It’s all my fault that I carry so many imperfections.

Teacher, is this what you wanted to hear?

No. I didn‘t do anything wrong.

I used to think that it’s so easy for doctors to blame your personality for the suffering in their calm voice.

It surprises me how I am feeling this much pain. Those people, who have suffered worse than I, seem to go on living perfectly fine. Those weaker than I am live on as well. I guess not. Among the living, there is no one who is suffering worse and no one who is weaker.

The only answer I got back was “just live nevertheless.”

Asking the purpose of life more than one hundred times is not for me. It‘s for you.

I wanted to do it for me.

Please don’t say things you don't know.

How could you ask me to still look for reasons behind my pain? I told you multiple times why I‘m suffering. Do I need more reasons to be in pain? More dramatic details in my stories? More stories even?

I told you already. Were you absent-minded when I told you? Things you can bear and even come above do not leave scars.

It wasn’t my responsibility to go against the world.

It wasn‘t my path to become world-famous.

That’s why they say it‘s hard to go against the world and to become famous. Why did I choose this path? It’s quite funny now that I think about it.

It‘s a miracle that I endured through it all this time.

What more can I say. Just tell me “good job.”

You did great. Tell me I suffered enough.

Even though you can’t laugh right now, just don‘t send me off blaming me.

Good job.

You suffered a great deal.

Good-bye."


Read more at https://www.thestar.com.my/news/regional/20...zTH342wUQ8oh.99


https://www.thestar.com.my/news/regional/20...uns-death-note/


Just sharing to see what in his mind.

Remember to talk to someone and get help. We can help.
ashenzint
post Dec 21 2017, 11:57 AM

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no friend?
nebula87
post Dec 21 2017, 12:06 PM

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This is indeed Depression.

Why he keep pushing himself to be perfect?

And why his group mates buat tak tahu?
TSreed90
post Dec 21 2017, 12:12 PM

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QUOTE(ashenzint @ Dec 21 2017, 11:57 AM)
no friend?
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Not sure. Idol life is pretty different. Friends might be a far fetched idea.

QUOTE(nebula87 @ Dec 21 2017, 12:06 PM)
This is indeed Depression.

Why he keep pushing himself to be perfect?

And why his group mates buat tak tahu?
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Could be pressure from company management. Or insecurities from the past

Deswai groupmates also maybe too busy to care. Their schedule really tight one.

This post has been edited by reed90: Dec 21 2017, 12:13 PM
nebula87
post Dec 21 2017, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(reed90 @ Dec 21 2017, 12:12 PM)
Not sure. Idol life is pretty different. Friends might be a far fetched idea.
Could be pressure from company management. Or insecurities from the past

Deswai groupmates also maybe too busy to care. Their schedule really tight one.
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But he mentioned about forgetting past.

I think he have concussion or something that made him lost part of the memories.

Yes, it is proven here "Teacher, is this what you wanted to hear?"

Maybe his teacher pushing him hard due to company's objective too. And while other group members are doing good compare to him...he stressed out kot.
TSreed90
post Dec 21 2017, 12:20 PM

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QUOTE(nebula87 @ Dec 21 2017, 12:17 PM)
But he mentioned about forgetting past.

I think he have concussion or something that made him lost part of the memories.

Yes, it is proven here "Teacher, is this what you wanted to hear?"

Maybe his teacher pushing him hard due to company's objective too. And while other group members are doing good compare to him...he stressed out kot.
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tu lah. real scary.
nebula87
post Dec 21 2017, 12:25 PM

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QUOTE(reed90 @ Dec 21 2017, 12:20 PM)
tu lah. real scary.
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yeah. Depression is dangerous.

I once had minor one. but luckily not that serious, still able to live happily back to normal.


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post Dec 27 2017, 12:34 PM

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I'm sure he has plenty of friends, including the other 4 members who are as close as brothers. But sometimes, there are struggles that he couldn't speak of. Not everyone is made for the limelight and it was all too much for him to bear. It's such a sad case and I was left in shock.

 

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