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TSLada Putih
post Dec 12 2017, 02:48 AM, updated 7y ago

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Its being 5 years since i broke up with her
i found some of her stuff sitting in my storeroom while cleaning the storeroom

what should i do with them
i cant never bring myself to just throw or campak them out away
She is also currently in Oversea of which i do not know the address

There is no way i could contact her at all lets say if i were to send her item to her even though it may cost me as much as rm600
My current gf and my ex has a feud and theres no way i can talk to my gf about this

what should i do???
Im afraid if i were to contact my ex, all drama break loose again.
If i were to campak her stuff just like that, i would probably not be able to sleep at night anymore.

please help sad.gif
3rdEdition
post Dec 12 2017, 03:17 AM

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really? dude....just campak.
if she didn't contact u during the last 5 years for her stuff, why would she want it now?

campak is not heartless, is just letting go and move on.

genjo
post Dec 12 2017, 09:46 AM

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So your heart is at current gf or ex ?

make up your mind dude
tstan8_8
post Dec 12 2017, 09:56 AM

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put back in your store room!~
TSLada Putih
post Dec 12 2017, 01:08 PM

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QUOTE(3rdEdition @ Dec 12 2017, 03:17 AM)
really? dude....just campak.
if she didn't contact u during the last 5 years for her stuff, why would she want it now?

campak is not heartless, is just letting go and move on.
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ok

QUOTE(genjo @ Dec 12 2017, 09:46 AM)
So your heart is at current gf or ex ?

make up your mind dude
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pretty much know what to do after the previous replyer gave his opinion


QUOTE(tstan8_8 @ Dec 12 2017, 09:56 AM)
put back in your store room!~
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currently im renovating and turning the storeroom into a guest room<
so all the unneeded stuff, im throwing it out
b3arbear
post Dec 12 2017, 01:50 PM

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if still usable stuff, donate to charity body. you can spot those Green Steel Box at roadside sometime.

if its valuable stuff, give it to me. I help u resell and profit 50-50 hehe
teddy1985
post Dec 12 2017, 02:06 PM

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u should juz take it n destroy it all. if things from past like this keep on haunting u, i believe ur heart still can't let go. i still remember the day i burn up all my bad memories in order to start anew. now happily married tongue.gif
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post Dec 12 2017, 02:16 PM

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just throw la, i threw all as well, only left a platinum ring cz not sure if it have a tiny 2nd hand value to sell to pawnshop. after i confirm i will throw as well if the ring confirmed no value. tongue.gif
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post Dec 12 2017, 02:46 PM

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contact her n see whether she need it or mot. then cmapak
timesquare.net
post Dec 12 2017, 04:29 PM

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throw or donate
and move on
dont suffer urself..

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post Dec 12 2017, 06:40 PM

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QUOTE(Lada Putih @ Dec 12 2017, 02:48 AM)
Its being 5 years since i broke up with her
i found some of her stuff sitting in my storeroom while cleaning the storeroom

what should i do with them
i cant never bring myself to just throw or campak them out away
She is also currently in Oversea of which i do not know the address

There is no way i could contact her at all lets say if i were to send her item to her even though it may cost me as much as rm600
My current gf and my ex has a feud and theres no way i can talk to my gf about this

what should i do???
Im afraid if i were to contact my ex, all drama break loose again.
If i were to campak her stuff just like that, i would probably not be able to sleep at night anymore.

please help sad.gif
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Solution 1
Just throw her things out and that means you are moving your life on with your current GF. She probably don't gives a shit about you and partying with Jho Low.

Solution 2
Post it on mudah or ebay under second hand item. Can still make money to cover back some losses with your ex previously.

Solution 3
Create all the drama again by trying to locate where she stays and then post it to her. It doesn't matter if your current GF knows about it because the most important is to create drama.
ViktorJ
post Dec 12 2017, 11:28 PM

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If she cared about the stuff, she would have contacted you before now.

Sell them, give them away or throw them away.

At best they have some monetary value. If you care about your current relationship at all, they CANNOT have any sentimental value.
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post Dec 14 2017, 02:45 PM

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bro, just throw it away and start anew
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post Dec 14 2017, 04:36 PM

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just campak je. while its got sentimental value, it does spark argument if your current gf knows about it. i doubt the item is of importance since its already 5yrs. furthermore you already move on. bahagia with current gf and there is no need to look back.
TSLada Putih
post Dec 14 2017, 07:36 PM

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I appreciate all your opinions
And have already dispose all of mu ex stuff

thank you fot caring
rinsedpie
post Dec 15 2017, 03:40 PM

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