QUOTE(qse150 @ Dec 8 2017, 11:47 AM)
or u can get ur bro to sleep in the living rooms or spare rooms for a few days. doesnt matter what. do this for bro's future mah. then ur gf mah can stay with u. parent wise, u just had to let them know she's your gf and she's staying over.
He is still childish, still a high school kid. Dont understand all these.
I will intro her to my parents but cannot stay in my house. Will just rent an airbnb to make her feel more homey. Just can store her stuff & rent airbnb with her since it is cheaper compare to hotel.
QUOTE(bananadrew @ Dec 8 2017, 12:09 PM)
just some advise for TS, if the girl really loves you, she wont mind about you staying with parents and sharing room.
and also,if me ill just bring home meet and greet, rent a room for your bro (Air BnB) ask him jio his friends go play there for one night.
Can try your idea.
QUOTE(Pete the great @ Dec 8 2017, 02:03 PM)
Yes girls are like that, because they may think you are just playing with her, and not being serious.
If you don't want to heed my advice then its not my problem, but I can tell you, if you continue to hide from her, this relationship is not going to lasts.
Just ask her, if she want to be sleeping with two men, meaning your brother is sharing the room, she sure change her mind. Bring her to your house and show her your room is emough, no need to sleep with you.
Ok.
Pete, I know u are a married man. Pls advice. She says she want to temporary store her stuff at my room so that i can open and see it when i miss her.
So the plan is bring her to my home visit, i doubt she likes it... cos not modern and as new as her house. Then intro to parents. Store stuff in my room & check in to airbnb/hotel.
Is that ok?
On a side note, she used to tell me that pandora, swaroski, tiffany & co are cheap stuff. She can afford herself one and dont need these. She say she will lost it since it is cheap & she only will keep properly those expensive one such as LV, rolex, Givenchy & etc. She wont wear or use those cheap stuff.
Then i said to her, can u just keep it and dont make lost since it is from someone special? She say she wil try.
It is quite hurt when she tells me like that...
QUOTE(SouLRenderZ @ Dec 8 2017, 02:26 PM)
1) Intro her to your family (face to face). This is more of a means to show that you are sincere and serious about this.
2) Unless you are home alone, best to check into a hotel. Tell her your house is in the midst of renovation or something. You may use this as an opportunity to go for an outstation trip (just saying)
3) Since it's your parents house, I don't see how is this an issue.
That said, I think it's important to isolate your own insecurities vs the actual reality first. It may be uncomfortable for you, but it's much better that way in the long run.
That's just my 2 cents.
1) ok will show her around the old house (i doubt she will like it), store her stuff in my room, intro to the family
2) renovation wont work? I guess cos she wanted to meet my family & i already promise her so if she happens to visit my house but no renovation can be seen then everything is a goner.
I feel lose face when i put down my insecurities. I dont know how to put it down...