QUOTE(EDMerfe @ Dec 3 2017, 11:10 PM)
Hi guys, I met this girl from a career workshop. That was when we got to know each other, exchanged contacts & so on. For the past couple of weeks, we`ve been engaging in conversations through What`s App. Things have been going good so far between the 2 of us.
Planning to ask her out for a first date, but not now, cos she`s busy w/ work. So, I randomly popped a question on what she thinks of an ideal indoor/outdoor activity (however, I did not say that it was going to be the 2 of us).
She doesn`t reply w/ a list of activity she likes, instead these were her replies:
Outdoor - loves spending her time w/ her family & friends & also depends on what others like to do.
Indoor - okay w/ the malls but confesses she likes walking & seeing people
I`m aware that the first date is always the crucial thing that could either blow or bloom a relationship, which leads to my 2 questions below:
1. Should I reveal my intentions of bringing her out for the date now?
2. Should my first date w/ her be a 'surprise' or would sticking to what she likes turns her off?
Would appreciate all the help I need as I`m rather in a dilemma on this. Thanks guys.
I don't like the idea of outdoor activities on the 1st date. Movies are okay but be aware it's hard to converse over 1.5-2h where u need to be silent. A casual dinner never goes wrong.
1. Should I reveal my intentions of bringing her out for the date now?
Nothing guarantees a 100%. Start mastering the confidence and tell her
face-to-face,
when it's just the two of you, and
when she's not distracted by other stuff.
Start with a casual conversation, and then when you feel the moment is right, "I would like to bring you out for dinner. Are you open to it?" and then wait for her to answer (look at her eyes and don't be looking anywhere else).
Once you get a positive response, be sure to set
a date and time, and then..
1. Make the effort to pick her up from her place. Ask for her address a day or two before and scout her place.
2. If you're going for a proper restaurant,
please please please make a reservation prior
During the date,
1. Be damn sure to bring an umbrella big enough to cover you both in case it rains.
2.
Do not wait for her in the car. Be a gentlemen and pick her up from the gate. Open your car door to let her in. 3. Have fun! and Listen to what she says!
(TIPS) It's not uncommon that girls can have her period during a date night. They won't tell you straightaway, but common indications are she will avoid alcohol or cold drinks/desserts.
Good luck!