QUOTE(ZZR-Pilot @ Nov 21 2017, 01:20 PM)
The arrival of kids changed everything. Then she too changed. After a couple of years, I decided enough is enough and pulled the plug.
Now I have moved on and restarted with someone else. Having been through that experience where we changed and drifted apart, this time around I am determined to keep the lovey dovey the same way as it was when new for as long as I can. Being happy with each other is everything and one must be prepared to do whatever it takes to keep it that way.. otherwise, bug out.
I don't go peeking at her phone behind her back, and she doesn't peek at my phone either. That said, we totally don't mind using each other's phone. Having been divorced once, I now understand the real value of being honest with each other to the point of being comfortable handing over our phones to one another. It's the gold standard in a marriage.
Yes, I was given another chance... and I married again. When one is older, more mature, more financially stable and have attained a certain level in life, there is absolutely no point in living life alone without a faithful, loving companion to share it all with.
Now I have moved on and restarted with someone else. Having been through that experience where we changed and drifted apart, this time around I am determined to keep the lovey dovey the same way as it was when new for as long as I can. Being happy with each other is everything and one must be prepared to do whatever it takes to keep it that way.. otherwise, bug out.
I don't go peeking at her phone behind her back, and she doesn't peek at my phone either. That said, we totally don't mind using each other's phone. Having been divorced once, I now understand the real value of being honest with each other to the point of being comfortable handing over our phones to one another. It's the gold standard in a marriage.
Yes, I was given another chance... and I married again. When one is older, more mature, more financially stable and have attained a certain level in life, there is absolutely no point in living life alone without a faithful, loving companion to share it all with.