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mamao
post Nov 18 2017, 02:52 PM

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QUOTE(sharmine @ Nov 15 2017, 03:04 PM)
Sounds like she hasn't gotten over from her previous relationship?

Not try to pour cold water on you but it will be best to give her time to sort things out before getting into a serious relationship with you.

No point rushing into a relationship and break up after a short while, right? Reason? Can't forget the ex  doh.gif

How long it will take in order for her to accept you?

This is very subjective to individuals. If she has accepted that her previous relationship already ended and moving forward in her life. It won't take her very long. However if she chooses to dwell on her previous relationship. Still reminiscing the old times. Well, it really takes a while.

Can see that she enjoys your company but not into a serious relationship with you now. Best is to enjoy each other company (if you feel the same) AND continue to meet and date other girls at the same time till you found someone that will commit to you as well. .

Not implying you to be a playboy, since both of you are not serious yet.  sweat.gif

If someone tells you he/she not looking into a relationship but enjoys your company (showed some interest). These kind of people normally still got "baggage" from their previous relationship. Most of the time they can't let go of their ex (yet). However, they feel lonely and need companion at the same time. Since they can't seek for their ex. So, they compensate it from someone they have a good feeling with. Since she is an introvert, she might not have many friends or active in outdoor activities. This makes her feels lonelier.  Somehow or rather you are her "life support" for now. Not to judge what she is doing is right or wrong. She is just another human being anyway.  We do feel lonely and seek companionship sometimes.

She already hinted to you (will take her some time to open up again and accept another guy into her life). So, it is up to you, what you are going to do.
This kind of relationship requires you to gamble, because you will never know what are the odds. Whether or not she will choose you in the end. You can't force to be in someone's life, right. Still, you can buy some "insurance" for yourselves by continue to see other girls at the same time.

Even if one day you found out the luck is not on your side, at least you won't get crushed badly by being too emotionally attached to her. Yes, this will happen if you put all your attention on someone who is not emotionally available for you.

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