haha i think u better find someone with proper knowledge to analyze ur 8 pillar, i'm not qualify to do so. To find out your own element, you'll need your time of birth, day, month and year.  As for compatibility issue .. i believe we need to work thing out lar, if your gf element destroy you, it dosent mean you cant marry her, you'll just need to workout just a lil bit harder to enjoy a good relationship or marriage.

click here to find out your self element.  i'm just a noob .

this is getting way off topic, ciouz.