i dont know about this but i think you don't simply search for friend like this just by giving out your friendster and arrange outing. because all of you are so stuck in your computer room and this is the only way to get friends.

i mean how long can you really last without sharing same interest and hobbies. at the same time, how well do you know the background of the person ? there can be a con-man, rapist, molester etc you name it..some are good to put on a mask and find out where you live .

want friends, find a common interest in sports like tennis, climbing etc.

Stop this nonsense or someone will get hurt because of you thread starter. i know you want friends by showing your good side but you have another side which is unknown to anyone else. Have you check out the movie 8MM by Nicholas Cage. A good father with children have another activities doing BDSM with teens in the movie.