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Too Serious Too Soon
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TSiluvlavender
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 Apr 18 2007, 09:24 PM, updated 19y ago
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I was in a relationship with a guy after knowing him for less tan a week . And now i regret for being too serious too soon. After orientation day at uni all the seniors came back. and this guy aprroach me anter a few days msging each othe he call me out. and i agree. At that moment i was not really in love wit him. I was just interested coz he was such a fun guy. so when he asked me to be his gf...i didn't hesitated...good things don't last long. I was just experimenting since i was neva in a relationship. Now its has been almost 8 months we r together. So what and why i regret being with him. 1. my parents will never agree coz he is not the same religion as i am. And i'll never convert. 2. He is not the type of guy i am looking for 3. I am loosing out in this relationship. I am often depressed because of this. 4. when i say i'm serious with him...i mean SERIOUS!!! But the prooblem is i can never seem to break up with him. He says he is too dependent of me. i am in love with him. I can't hurt him. Recently something traggic happen to his family. So i had to be his moral support. Coming to think of it. i really don't mind being with him if not for our religion coz the last person's heart i want to break is my dad's.  |
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TSiluvlavender
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Apr 18 2007, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(cursed @ Apr 18 2007, 09:42 PM) first thing's first..may i ask why r u losing out? u do everything for him and he just depends on u? not saying thats wrong though if ur losing out from the relationship that means he has treated u badly or something like that.if ur saying hes not ur type of guy..then what is meant to be is meant to be...if he has done something meaningful than perhaps u may consider ur position..but if ur relationship is based on heartache and arguements..than i suggest u move on..there is no point clinging onto a broken relationship..for me religion is not the issue since ur relationship has just only lasted 8 months..if ur talking bout 3-4 years and he did proposed to u than its a different story.u should never feel guilty if he has done bad things to u..bcuz u r suffering from it and thats not good for u mentally..but try to talk things slowly.let the incident just slide by and try to talk to him about it..but the question is?..what type of relationship is it based on..does he make u happy or does he often argues wif u?  i sacrifies a lot for him...support him, motivate him. But he does't do the same all the time. There was something i was very interested in den he asked me to quit coz he don't like the ppl there. But he is carin...and most of all he loves me. he motivates me to study. give me encoraging words whem i'm down.
Added on April 18, 2007, 9:57 pmHis dad just past away, i'll be heartless to do it now. I love him This post has been edited by iluvlavender: Apr 18 2007, 09:57 PM |
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TSiluvlavender
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Apr 18 2007, 11:08 PM
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There are many guys out there...but only a very few that can make u fall in love wit them
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