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post Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM, updated 9y ago

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Still got such thing ah in this day and age?


Doesn't make sense mang...


If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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post Oct 27 2017, 12:25 AM

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that's why always get a prenup

especially with malaysian women
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post Oct 27 2017, 12:25 AM

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Go diu ur mum too... She's ur father's wife. She should not entitle for anything as well...
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post Oct 27 2017, 12:26 AM

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QUOTE(wilsonjay @ Oct 27 2017, 12:25 AM)
that's why always get a prenup

especially with malaysian women
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post Oct 27 2017, 06:23 AM

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QUOTE(holypredator @ Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM)
Still got such thing ah in this day and age?
Doesn't make sense mang...
If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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Only whatever thing u buy after married will split 50% . So buy house before married.
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post Oct 27 2017, 06:27 AM

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post Oct 27 2017, 06:38 AM

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Want to merried and fucuk pusi but dont trust wife.


I cant even brain this shit. Ts bodo confirmed
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post Oct 27 2017, 07:23 AM

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No choice.that the law unless you sign prenuptial or go Dutch type wife
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post Oct 27 2017, 07:26 AM

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QUOTE(L_nette @ Oct 27 2017, 06:38 AM)
Want to merried and fucuk pusi but dont trust wife.
I cant even brain this shit. Ts bodo confirmed
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It should be the other way around.


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post Oct 27 2017, 08:08 AM

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QUOTE(holypredator @ Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM)
Still got such thing ah in this day and age?
Doesn't make sense mang...
If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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Its not practice over Malaysia, right?
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post Oct 27 2017, 08:16 AM

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In order to prevent such cases, you yourself should think clearly 1st
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post Oct 27 2017, 08:25 AM

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If you have to divorce, liquidate your assets, kill your wife & run to Aussie & escape death sentence.

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post Oct 27 2017, 09:06 AM

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QUOTE(wilsonjay @ Oct 27 2017, 12:25 AM)
that's why always get a prenup

especially with malaysian women
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LOL berapa kali kahwin dah?
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:08 AM

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QUOTE(fukumiya @ Oct 27 2017, 07:23 AM)
Only whatever thing u buy after married will split 50% . So buy house before married.
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:11 AM

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Wife also only has claims to what she is aware of. Undeclared or offshore assets she is unaware of she has no claims to.
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then you have a useless lawyer. get a better one.
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:39 AM

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ITT everyone who watches too much drama

malaysia doesn't have this rule la bangang

but if your wife no work and depends on you solely then she can ask for your house / alimony / baby powder allowance / etc according to the judge's judgment

tl;dr get a good lawyer
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:39 AM

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thats why if can, dont buy house after marriage, buy it before marriage

so that way, she dont entitle to it as you own it before her appearance.

and can avoid awkward prenup discussion.

if cash rich, you better make sure she dont know about it, if she does, sorry bye bye
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QUOTE(ctrl_alt_del @ Oct 27 2017, 08:25 AM)
If you have to divorce, liquidate your assets, kill your wife & run to Aussie & escape death sentence.
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can always make it look like an accident
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:40 AM

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LAW protected wuuuman ...
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LAW IS SO RACIST ..

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>wuuuman
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QUOTE(incubus_skj @ Oct 27 2017, 09:40 AM)
>wuuuman
>RACIST

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post Oct 27 2017, 09:44 AM

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Not really, it is measured by wife 'contribution' to the marriage. Contribution can be in many forms
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QUOTE(holypredator @ Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM)
Still got such thing ah in this day and age?
Doesn't make sense mang...
If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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Standard procedure, before divorce sell the house or etc for RM1 each to your mother or so. After divorce then buy back lor.


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QUOTE(ju146 @ Oct 27 2017, 09:44 AM)
Not really, it is measured by wife 'contribution' to the marriage. Contribution can be in many forms
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Ya i think that is true. i have my friend who is earning more than 20k USD++ per month as consultant while his wife is a SPM. he is always oversea also contribute a lot and even bought a house under his wife name. later his wife found cheating him with another guy. in the end they divorce. the girl did not get to get even a cent because judge said she did not contribute anything.

Now she regretted so much and wish to come back to his husband... i LOL so much when my mother told me this.
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QUOTE(holypredator @ Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM)
Still got such thing ah in this day and age?
Doesn't make sense mang...
If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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but her virginity forever lost to u.. and if she have kids for u... body also taken a tol
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post Oct 27 2017, 09:57 AM

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pipul give u her virginity and u still don't 1 2 give 50%?
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post Oct 27 2017, 11:12 AM

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QUOTE(Edward_Ng @ Oct 27 2017, 09:48 AM)
Ya i think that is true. i have my friend who is earning more than 20k USD++ per month as consultant while his wife is a SPM. he is always oversea also contribute a lot and even bought a house under his wife name. later his wife found cheating him with another guy. in the end they divorce. the girl did not get to get even a cent because judge said she did not contribute anything.

Now she regretted so much and wish to come back to his husband... i LOL so much when my mother told me this.
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dai sei 1, seriously....
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post Oct 27 2017, 11:15 AM

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nowadays who know may b u wanna divorce to get 50% of ur wife assets
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QUOTE(incubus_skj @ Oct 27 2017, 09:39 AM)
ITT everyone who watches too much drama

malaysia doesn't have this rule la bangang

but if your wife no work and depends on you solely then she can ask for your house / alimony / baby powder allowance / etc according to the judge's judgment

tl;dr get a good lawyer
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eh correct me if I'm wrong i thought here got, but it must be assets under marriage.

but then if shit were to hit the fan, its bad, like someone i know had a bad divorce, he won la, but it was not pretty
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ Oct 27 2017, 09:57 AM)
pipul give u her virginity and u still don't 1 2 give 50%?
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I also give my virginity to her smile.gif
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QUOTE(juicyliana @ Oct 27 2017, 09:57 AM)
pipul give u her virginity and u still don't 1 2 give 50%?
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Guys give their virginity to women too.


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QUOTE(timesquare.net @ Oct 27 2017, 09:10 AM)
LAW protected wuuuman ...
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sexist you meant. doh.gif
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QUOTE(cHaRsIeWpAu^^ @ Oct 27 2017, 11:18 AM)
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How many times u all wanna ask this, u all watch too much TVB drama.

In Malaysia you do not need to split 50% of your wealth to your wife. Malaysia law actually protect the guy more than the women. Only stuff that has your wife name you need to split with her.
As for the alimony, even if you dont pay her, she cant do anything.


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where got such ruling la.. if got then all the greedy woman just go marry someone and divorce then repeat..

this rule only applicable when the husband file for a divorce and is at fault.. then court will investigate and ask for payment (it can be more than 50%).. if the wife is at fault or choose to settle peacefully then you do not need to give anything la unless any property got your wife's name then different story.
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is your asset under both name?

if yes then diu lo
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no, unless you were found guilty having affair or causing her to suffer.


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QUOTE(AznRicy @ Oct 27 2017, 11:18 AM)
I also give my virginity to her smile.gif
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your one takde value la..... sudah bagi left and right hand shake...
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post Oct 27 2017, 12:02 PM

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Base on contribution lah. Thats why even after marriage you track your onw contribution. Anything happen you got something to back you up.

if fiance ask you to put her name on the house you bought as condition to marry you = find another girl.
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QUOTE(Prometric @ Oct 27 2017, 11:26 AM)
How many times u all wanna ask this, u all watch too much TVB drama.

In Malaysia you do not need to split 50% of your wealth to your wife. Malaysia law actually protect the guy more than the women. Only stuff that has your wife name you need to split with her.
As for the alimony, even if you dont pay her, she cant do anything.
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Yeah.... watching too much of cheong kiong d....
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lol at /k comment on giving virginity to u

2017 and virginity still a thing.

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what the hek is virginity? didn't see that word in dictionary start from year 2000..
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QUOTE(Lumiaaa @ Oct 27 2017, 12:26 AM)
if u bought it means u own it
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QUOTE(timesquare.net @ Oct 27 2017, 09:10 AM)
LAW protected wuuuman ...
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LAW IS SO RACIST ..

FOOORRRKKKK......
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the word you're looking for is "sexist"
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the word you're looking for is "sexist"
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it combine assets.
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your one takde value la..... sudah bagi left and right hand shake...
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junsheng please tell her y guy virginity got value. smile.gif
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QUOTE(holypredator @ Oct 27 2017, 12:23 AM)
Still got such thing ah in this day and age?
Doesn't make sense mang...
If both are working... she suddenly divorce me... she did not contribute to pay housing loan but she get 50% of it + all my savings etc even though she is a working woman and earn as much as me or even more?

Diu la like that
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No
It doesnt
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so wot if the husband has a family trust set up before the relationship started, sold or transferred his assets(here/overseas) during separation and none of his assets is under the wife, how likely the wife will get any if the husband has an affair with another woman, has previous police record of hitting the wife and the wife hasn't been working since married?
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https://www.kuekong.com/matrimonial-assets-...BA%A7%E4%B8%9A/

you can get some info from here
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Sign a prenup
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then dont sohai put her name in the house u are paying alone la end of story
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So many naive and immature replies here... sad. Do you all really think that in 2019 either party is really virgin at marriage? I wouldn't be surprised is more than half the younger married couples today are actually unfaithful - it's so common these days.

Anyway - coming back to the point, there are a lot of factors that the judge takes into account in a divorce case when deciding how the assets will be distributed, I don't have hard facts but I would be surprised if it's just a straight 50-50.

There are obvious considerations like how much each partner contributed financially to the relationship but there are also more nuanced considerations like who gave up promotions in order to raise the children, or like if one partner financially supported the spouse in furthering their studies, etc. All this are points you need to make during a divorce to highlight your contributions to the union.

Where children are concerned, I have read that Malaysian law favours mothers over fathers unless there's some strong reason why the mother should not have custody. This is extremely unjust and it's likely a remnant of some naive old-timey matriarchal stereotypes still lingering and there's really no strong political will to make the law fair for both parenrs.

You can sign a prenuptial agreement (aka prenup) but this doesn't mean the court will follow this 100%, you can read more about the facts of prenups here:
https://asklegal.my/p/prenuptial-agreements...-marriage-marry

The hard part is how do you broach the subject of a prenup to your partner - regardless of whether it's the man proposing a prenup to the woman, or the woman proposing a prenup to the man. It sort of "plans for a divorce" ahead of time so it often leaves a bad taste - but if you are good with words, you could probably find a novel way to put it so that it doesn't put off your mister or your missus. Please teach me how too if you are successful notworthy.gif
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nak kahwin tapi taknak bagi 50% assets

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Even if your farther transfer the house name to you (son). During married period. The wife can claim the house when cerai.

Becareful guys. Choose your patner wisely. Nowadays got many fucckigg shitt person man and woman looking to curi your harta
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QUOTE(i am yijie @ Jun 8 2019, 12:15 AM)
QUOTE(lawrencesha @ Jun 8 2019, 12:18 AM)
This. That means it works both ways.
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QUOTE(Daylight2018 @ Jun 8 2019, 12:43 AM)
Sign a prenup
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then dont sohai put her name in the house u are paying alone la end of story
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QUOTE(DeniseLau @ Jun 8 2019, 02:36 AM)
So many naive and immature replies here... sad. Do you all really think that in 2019 either party is really virgin at marriage? I wouldn't be surprised is more than half the younger married couples today are actually unfaithful - it's so common these days.

Anyway - coming back to the point, there are a lot of factors that the judge takes into account in a divorce case when deciding how the assets will be distributed, I don't have hard facts but I would be surprised if it's just a straight 50-50.

There are obvious considerations like how much each partner contributed financially to the relationship but there are also more nuanced considerations like who gave up promotions in order to raise the children, or like if one partner financially supported the spouse in furthering their studies, etc. All this are points you need to make during a divorce to highlight your contributions to the union.

Where children are concerned, I have read that Malaysian law favours mothers over fathers unless there's some strong reason why the mother should not have custody. This is extremely unjust and it's likely a remnant of some naive old-timey matriarchal stereotypes still lingering and there's really no strong political will to make the law fair for both parenrs.

You can sign a prenuptial agreement (aka prenup) but this doesn't mean the court will follow this 100%, you can read more about the facts of prenups here:
https://asklegal.my/p/prenuptial-agreements...-marriage-marry

The hard part is how do you broach the subject of a prenup to your partner - regardless of whether it's the man proposing a prenup to the woman, or the woman proposing a prenup to the man. It sort of "plans for a divorce" ahead of time so it often leaves a bad taste - but if you are good with words, you could probably find a novel way to put it so that it doesn't put off your mister or your missus. Please teach me how too if you are successful  notworthy.gif
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QUOTE(TruthHurts @ Jun 8 2019, 04:32 AM)
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I rather enjoy myself, More cash in banks to retire happily and relaxed.. No stress of worrying.
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QUOTE(Nachiino Etamay @ Jun 8 2019, 06:31 AM)
bodoh

nak kahwin tapi taknak bagi 50% assets

man up and pay up
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why bump thread ??
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QUOTE(fiqir @ Jun 8 2019, 06:52 AM)
Even if your farther transfer the house name to you (son). During married period. The wife can claim the house when cerai.

Becareful guys. Choose your patner wisely. Nowadays got many fucckigg shitt person man and woman looking to curi your harta
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QUOTE(LamTin. @ Jun 8 2019, 07:48 AM)
in malaysia you wont have to pay much. but in UK you have to pay much and kantoi.
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post Jun 8 2019, 08:52 AM

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QUOTE(Prometric @ Oct 27 2017, 11:26 AM)
How many times u all wanna ask this, u all watch too much TVB drama.

In Malaysia you do not need to split 50% of your wealth to your wife. Malaysia law actually protect the guy more than the women. Only stuff that has your wife name you need to split with her.
As for the alimony, even if you dont pay her, she cant do anything.
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No la. Although its not automatically give 50%, but she can get a part of it if she can prove she help pay. And bcoz of many marriage nowadays household expenses they split 50/50, the wife can fight to have part of the assets if she can get a good lawyer.
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QUOTE(Prometric @ Oct 26 2017, 03:26 PM)
How many times u all wanna ask this, u all watch too much TVB drama.

In Malaysia you do not need to split 50% of your wealth to your wife. Malaysia law actually protect the guy more than the women. Only stuff that has your wife name you need to split with her.
As for the alimony, even if you dont pay her, she cant do anything.
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so many reply here only one person correct...

kids watching too much drama tvb or tabloid of foreign country and become too fancy creative imagination become reality, and tell it loud... =.=

msia here, if you divorce, you no need to pay any cent to others, not even one cent. even if you got children and you are cold heart animal enough you no need to pay for the kid also.
lawyer fee for divorce is pay by one who file divorce , or if other side okay agree can split the fee.

the ony thing that need to split is any property/valuables that both have name on it, like a house, a company that start together , bank account with join name etc, and those are not debatable things no need go to court, even if you want do tvb drama want go to court, court wouldnt accept the case, it will be dismissed as it is clear cut nothing to talk about, wasting court time.
Splitting things of both have name is not about marriage, it more about fair rights, just like in other type of relation like business, family siblings, joint venture, company etc, you get your fair share of things lah based on black and white how much your share is, thats all.

then either side may apply another side to give money alimony (remember either side), this one court can have a hearing, but the cost to have a court hearing is high remember so mostly not jadi one and if jadi court may give order ah, ah seng you give her rm300 every month lah you kaya bah,, or aminah you give him rm200 every month lah he kesian bah jobless you lui banyak, remember the amount usually is small, and also if either side didnt follow the order almost nothing can be done at all, actually no need to follow at all, tok kok sing song only.

the only thing you can do if other side didnt follow the so call court order is to apply another court order (remember its costly ) to freeze asset (mostly cash) and get the share of money he/she didnt pay, but you must know details of his cash like bank account detail, etc. the other thing can freeze is like his hard asset house etc and then go on auction to sell it, and you can only get what he/she owe you and must return balance to him, but to get that done you need alot lawyer fee , and if successful get your rm500 that he owe you, and you in return owe lawyer rm20k, and court fee rm30k, so now you know why people simpli ignore the order. and in process of freezing he/she can counter sue you in civil court, then there will be alot drama involve to fight for that rm500, so you know the risk and return is totally off.

those say woman take half lah from marriage etc pls lah keep your stupidity to yourself, and most likely in your imaginative world about everything not only marriage,

apuh i seldom comment but this one realy far from fact, its like seeing a generation of liar and dumb head, it like years ago when every self proclaim smartass go around say robert determine the palm oil prices etc

amoi pun belum pernah pegang already complain about marriage as if man that seeing everything already

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post Jun 8 2019, 09:28 AM

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QUOTE(botlife @ Jun 8 2019, 09:05 AM)
so many reply here only one person correct...

kids watching too much drama tvb or tabloid of foreign country and become too fancy creative imagination become reality, and tell it loud... =.=

msia here, if you divorce, you no need to pay any cent to others, not even one cent. even if you got children and you are cold heart animal enough you no need to pay for the kid also.
lawyer fee for divorce is pay by one who file divorce , or if other side okay agree can split the fee.

the ony thing that need to split is any property/valuables that both have name on it, like a house, a company that start together , bank account with join name etc, and those are not debatable things no need go to court, even if you want do tvb drama want go to court, court wouldnt accept the case, it will be dismissed as it is clear cut nothing to talk about, wasting court time.
Splitting things of both have name is not about marriage, it more about fair rights, just like in other type of relation like business, family siblings, joint venture, company etc, you get your fair share of things lah based on black and white how much your share is, thats all.

then either side may apply another side to give money alimony (remember either side), this one court can have a hearing, but the cost to have a court hearing is high remember so mostly not jadi one and if jadi court may give order ah, ah seng you give her rm300 every month lah you kaya bah,, or aminah you give him rm200 every month lah he kesian bah jobless you lui banyak, remember the amount usually is small, and also if either side didnt follow the order almost nothing can be done at all, actually no need to follow at all, tok kok sing song only.

the only thing you can do if other side didnt follow the so call court order is to apply another court order (remember its costly ) to freeze asset (mostly cash) and get the share of money he/she didnt pay, but you must know details of his cash like bank account detail, etc. the other thing can freeze is like his hard asset house etc and then go on auction to sell it, and you can only get what he/she owe you and must return balance to him, but to get that done you need alot lawyer fee , and if successful get your rm500 that he owe you, and you in return owe lawyer rm20k, and court fee rm30k, so now you know why people simpli ignore the order. and in process of freezing he/she can counter sue you in civil court, then there will be alot drama involve to fight for that rm500, so you know the risk and return is totally off.

those say woman take half lah from marriage etc pls lah keep your stupidity to yourself, and most likely in your imaginative world about everything not only marriage,

apuh i seldom comment but this one realy far from fact, its like seeing a generation of liar and dumb head, it like years ago when every self proclaim smartass go around say robert determine the palm oil prices  etc

amoi pun belum pernah pegang already complain about marriage as if man that seeing everything already
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Based on what you wrote, if wife gave up job long ago to be stay at home mum, and contributed time and effort in taking care of the family while husband was the sole bread winner.... you mean when they divorce years later, the wife will get absolutely nothing other than requesting for some alimony? That does not seem fair to the wife right?
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post Jun 8 2019, 09:31 AM

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QUOTE(aspartame @ Jun 7 2019, 01:28 PM)
Based on what you wrote, if wife gave up job long ago to be stay at home mum, and contributed time and effort in taking care of the family while husband was the sole bread winner.... you mean when they divorce years later, the wife will get absolutely nothing other than requesting for some alimony? That does not seem fair to the wife right?
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fair or not i dont know lah
but that is what is happening lah

law is about what is written and applied
not about what we layman think/imagine/assume/hope it has to be


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post Jun 8 2019, 09:35 AM

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post Jun 8 2019, 09:39 AM

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post Jun 8 2019, 09:48 AM

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post Jun 8 2019, 10:09 AM

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post Jun 8 2019, 10:18 AM

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Can anyone give insight on sharia rules (practiced in Malaysia) for this? I remembered the wife can claim the husband's assets that were acquired or upgraded during the period of marriage
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post Jun 8 2019, 10:24 AM

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QUOTE(botlife @ Jun 8 2019, 09:31 AM)
fair or not i dont know lah
but that is what is happening lah

law is about what is written and applied
not about what we layman think/imagine/assume/hope it has to be
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Correct answer is Divorce how to split
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post Jun 8 2019, 10:25 AM

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post Jun 8 2019, 03:21 PM

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QUOTE(botlife @ Jun 8 2019, 09:05 AM)
so many reply here only one person correct...

kids watching too much drama tvb or tabloid of foreign country and become too fancy creative imagination become reality, and tell it loud... =.=

msia here, if you divorce, you no need to pay any cent to others, not even one cent. even if you got children and you are cold heart animal enough you no need to pay for the kid also.
lawyer fee for divorce is pay by one who file divorce , or if other side okay agree can split the fee.

the ony thing that need to split is any property/valuables that both have name on it, like a house, a company that start together , bank account with join name etc, and those are not debatable things no need go to court, even if you want do tvb drama want go to court, court wouldnt accept the case, it will be dismissed as it is clear cut nothing to talk about, wasting court time.
Splitting things of both have name is not about marriage, it more about fair rights, just like in other type of relation like business, family siblings, joint venture, company etc, you get your fair share of things lah based on black and white how much your share is, thats all.

then either side may apply another side to give money alimony (remember either side), this one court can have a hearing, but the cost to have a court hearing is high remember so mostly not jadi one and if jadi court may give order ah, ah seng you give her rm300 every month lah you kaya bah,, or aminah you give him rm200 every month lah he kesian bah jobless you lui banyak, remember the amount usually is small, and also if either side didnt follow the order almost nothing can be done at all, actually no need to follow at all, tok kok sing song only.

the only thing you can do if other side didnt follow the so call court order is to apply another court order (remember its costly ) to freeze asset (mostly cash) and get the share of money he/she didnt pay, but you must know details of his cash like bank account detail, etc. the other thing can freeze is like his hard asset house etc and then go on auction to sell it, and you can only get what he/she owe you and must return balance to him, but to get that done you need alot lawyer fee , and if successful get your rm500 that he owe you, and you in return owe lawyer rm20k, and court fee rm30k, so now you know why people simpli ignore the order. and in process of freezing he/she can counter sue you in civil court, then there will be alot drama involve to fight for that rm500, so you know the risk and return is totally off.

those say woman take half lah from marriage etc pls lah keep your stupidity to yourself, and most likely in your imaginative world about everything not only marriage,

apuh i seldom comment but this one realy far from fact, its like seeing a generation of liar and dumb head, it like years ago when every self proclaim smartass go around say robert determine the palm oil prices  etc

amoi pun belum pernah pegang already complain about marriage as if man that seeing everything already
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i think its better you consult a lawyer and don't spread misleading info here. there are some info in your post is totally incorrect.
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QUOTE(IReallyNeed Answers @ Oct 27 2017, 09:39 AM)
thats why if can, dont buy house after marriage, buy it before marriage

so that way, she dont entitle to it as you own it before her appearance.

and can avoid awkward prenup discussion.

if cash rich, you better make sure she dont know about it, if she does, sorry bye bye
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In addition to the above, if you are of age, withdraw all your EPF transfer to your trusted kids account, b4 divorce proceedings star.

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