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Tinder, advice needed
Tinder, advice needed
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Nov 2 2017, 01:10 PM
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Nov 2 2017, 01:11 PM
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Nov 2 2017, 11:16 PM
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QUOTE(chngchng @ Oct 24 2017, 04:25 PM) I have been trying tinder apps for several months, and met up few guys. The guys are quite decent looking with proper education background and job. The meet up went quite well, but some matches I have never heard from them again since first date, some of them still in contact but just on and off basis. I found that even thought I have so many matches, and quite many of them show interest (asking phone number, meet up) but all are very short term basis, hardly last longer than one month. I just want to know how many of you actually met your partner via tinder? Need guys opinion, are you guys targeting many girls at one time and lose curiosity after first meet up? There is no right or wrong. Mostly guys swapping alot, aim 100 and hope to hit 1....I have tinder account too, but i only swap twice. If not interested, after first time, many ppl won't interested anymore. when girl post the photo, high chances it is a photoshop-ed picture, some "wonderful angle" photo, when meet face to face, not same at all. people run off is common. Open your self to new friend, meetup, you will have chance to know right one. Not asking you to quit tinder or whatever. Just join more people. If you still don't have a good relationship. PM me, probably with your whatsapp or wechat. I am going to invite some guys and girls (single) for a little party. Maybe you can join. |
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Nov 3 2017, 12:42 PM
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Nov 3 2017, 02:14 PM
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Nov 3 2017, 02:25 PM
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Nov 5 2017, 01:51 PM
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2,227 posts Joined: Mar 2006 From: cheras |
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Nov 5 2017, 02:14 PM
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I'm a guy. I am on tinder because I just wanna find friends. Really. I don't have that many female friends throughout my life so I really want to find new friends. Most of my uni buddies work so far away from me so I'm really bored, tinder helped me a lot because of this. I matched and chat with many girls there but I only have met 2 people from tinder irl. So now I'm friends with those 2 girls. But one of them is interested in me and she confessed to me, but I really just wanna make friends. So we just remain friends, although I know she's quite sad about it.
So to answer your question, it depends on the guys. If like me, I really wanna find friends, and don't wanna have any commitments. But I also know that many guys just wanna match with as many girls as possible on tinder, and whenever some new match who is better come up, he will abandon the former girls. |
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Nov 5 2017, 05:42 PM
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Feb 9 2018, 03:21 PM
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Just discovered new app called TanTan. Anyone experienced it?
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Feb 9 2018, 03:23 PM
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why now tinder must pay?
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Feb 22 2018, 05:13 AM
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I don't use Tinder anymore, I have to say. I switched to some dating services like the one called Secret Benefits. It is a really nice sugar baby dating service which I like a lot and would recommend to everyone who is interested in such a relationship. Maybe you will like using it too, good luck
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Feb 22 2018, 07:33 AM
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QUOTE(kecik_mieow @ Nov 2 2017, 12:06 PM) I dont use tinder. Several factors actually, girls usually get a lot of msges, perday maybe get mges from 5-10 new guys. And everyone somehow say the same thing.. and the thing about text is, lack of facial expression, speaking tone, demenour, vibes etc.. in the end i just stop replying. Lost interest.. Meeting girls face to face requires getting a fucking life and growing a pair of testicles.True true, nothing beats face-to-face. I prefer old fashion dating I guess, face to face or phone calls at least. Haha. No longer using dating apps. Just gonna let things happen naturally. Both are too challenging for a lot of guys, unfortunately. |
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Feb 22 2018, 11:54 AM
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Feb 23 2018, 03:33 AM
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Feb 23 2018, 03:43 AM
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Using tinder for a while now. For me, rarely get matches. Either the ones I'm swiping are not the same as the girls that swipe me or simply because face problem
Even if I do get matches, the chats don't last long. Although my objective is just trying to improve my communication with girls, so my chats are pretty boring, hence getting ghosted lol. But I'll continue using it until I actually get some real friends or actually find the one there. |
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Feb 23 2018, 03:52 AM
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QUOTE(graphidz @ Feb 23 2018, 04:43 AM) Using tinder for a while now. For me, rarely get matches. Either the ones I'm swiping are not the same as the girls that swipe me or simply because face problem same here lol. Never been out on a date but there are a few girls who swipe me right then I swipe them right and we matchEven if I do get matches, the chats don't last long. Although my objective is just trying to improve my communication with girls, so my chats are pretty boring, hence getting ghosted lol. But I'll continue using it until I actually get some real friends or actually find the one there. |
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Feb 23 2018, 03:58 AM
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QUOTE(regan96 @ Feb 23 2018, 03:52 AM) same here lol. Never been out on a date but there are a few girls who swipe me right then I swipe them right and we match To increase my matches, I actually try some other dating apps. I like the simplicity of Tinder but other apps like Coffee meet Bagels and OKC is actually more complete if you want something more serious |
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Feb 26 2018, 04:54 PM
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I met my current bf from tinder. We started out in a LDR and we're together for almost a year now. I was on tinder for a few months after my break up and went on several dates - all decent guys but, I couldn't click with them. My current bf only asked me out after we chatted and got to know each other better.
It doesn't matter which platform you meet the person - tinder or real life (colleagues/friends) - what's most important is 1) Know what you look for in a partner - long term or hook up? Communicate it to the person. If they're not looking for the same thing, then politely decline. 2) Be very, very, very patient. Over the years, I've got more than 600+ matches, went on 10+ dates - but only met one guy that I'm truly comfortable with. 3) Enjoy the process it comes when you least expect it. This post has been edited by kthx90: Feb 26 2018, 04:54 PM |
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Mar 1 2018, 02:52 PM
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QUOTE(kthx90 @ Feb 26 2018, 04:54 PM) I met my current bf from tinder. We started out in a LDR and we're together for almost a year now. I was on tinder for a few months after my break up and went on several dates - all decent guys but, I couldn't click with them. My current bf only asked me out after we chatted and got to know each other better. haha thats the female version It doesn't matter which platform you meet the person - tinder or real life (colleagues/friends) - what's most important is 1) Know what you look for in a partner - long term or hook up? Communicate it to the person. If they're not looking for the same thing, then politely decline. 2) Be very, very, very patient. Over the years, I've got more than 600+ matches, went on 10+ dates - but only met one guy that I'm truly comfortable with. 3) Enjoy the process it comes when you least expect it. below is the guy version 1) 9 out of 10 girls on tinder will think guys only want to hockup 2) Guys will only get 1 match after 1000 swipe and only 1 might go out on a date with you if u got over 100+ matches 3) just swipe till you get your matches side note; most girls on tinder just want to get more followers on insta hahah |
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