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alanyuppie
post Apr 17 2007, 09:08 AM

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dun forsake your religion that gives you strength. if she truly loves u, she will accept WHOLE HEARTEDly that it's your religion now that keeps you going strong everyday, alongside your family and other loved ones .

It's not love anymore if she still insist on converting you for the "reason" of "LOVE".
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post Apr 17 2007, 03:37 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 17 2007, 04:20 PM)
OK back to your dillema, do you even realized that this COULD be the last girl whom will accept your condition and willing to go thru thick and thin with you? I can see she is really a very kind hearted person...if I'm in your shoes, I'll plunge right in. She is willing to sacrifice so much for you so why cant you give something back? Talk to your parents...tell them what else you gotta lose? You're already rock bottom so, you've nothing to fear...but everything to gain.

Just do it....
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Dun tok bout those bullshit stuff like the first bolded. Since you can say not many able-bodied girls accept ppl like TS, so can we used back what you said to make a deduction that there's a BIG chance the girl is also "using" TS also? Especially with an added fact that both never met each other b4. It's simply "GOD-SENT" huh for someone to fell in love with another while not having to meet each other before.

its' religion. dunt play play with it. From how TS said it, his religion is his EVERYTHING also. why she can go ALL the way to concern and accept his everything, and yet didn't practice ACCEPTANCE on his religion (acceptance only. He's NOT EVEN asked her to convert to his religion also). Sometimes things r pretty fishy.

If both party keep to his and her religion and be happy about it, then now this is TRUE acceptance.





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post Apr 17 2007, 03:54 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 17 2007, 04:45 PM)
Hello, you think our fren is that dumb, just listen to my word and go meet this girl 1st time in his life in the nasional registra office ready to sign marriage certificate ka??? We cannot comment much coz we dont know...but base on only what lil information he wrote, do you think its easy to find an able bodied girl to commit into a rship with a wheelchair bound person? Unless he's damn rich than I see a motive...otherwise I think shes an angel...would you commit yourself to a wheelchair bound wife? ask yourself this question 1st.

2nd she is not being selfish about the religion issue...are you even living in Msia??? Here there is no choice...the gomen didnt give anyone (muslim) a choice, they cannot come out from the religion, so if they fall in love with a non-muslim its always the other party must sacrifice...unless you migrate elsewhere....
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still wanna go meet her after she let him know the requirement (conversion)? if meet also then what else comes after? She still will insist on that requirement.

first bolded: Then why r u commenting here now?

second bolded: so u emphasized again not many able-bodied girl would wan a wheelchair bound guy. So I also make deduction that that "girl" he's involved wiv now also MIGHT be using him too? Same like how u make your assumption that girl should be very very good and "sacrificing" already to pick him. You with your opinions, and mine with my reservations.

3rd bolded: so that's why she insist he convert ? SInce she willing to "sacrifice" (laughs) so much for accepting such a guy, why dun she go further and get out of this country wiv him, instead of requiring him to convert or else.

Note to TS: You religion carried you so far, giving you strength to live on after you the mishap that happened to you. I;m sure you will really have utmost faith in that. Dun't because of one girl, you sacrifice your religion. For one such girl who accept u "partially" (accept you but NOT your religion), there r thousands more who will accept you completely. Dun't fall for the same old marketing trick like "better choose her coz there's not many of her kind anymore!" .

btw, when u lost a girl like her, dun worry. there might b as good or maybe even better one in the future. But when u converted and change your mind...... I;m sure you know what awaits u. u willing to gamble ?

This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Apr 17 2007, 04:03 PM

 

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