I am 22,i met an accident few years back and injured my back and it left me paraplegic,which means no sensation/movement below my hip.I'm living with my family/parents,i'm doing preety good eventhough i can't walk i still earn some monies for my own expenses.Here's the story.

Few years back when i was chatting,because i've nothing better to do since i'm on wheelchair,i got to know a girl in ICQ,she's 25 now.We was chatting like everyday from the day we know each other and then it goes till sms and calls,later after few months she said she like me and i was like 'wat the...' i thought that's normal and i told her the same but i didn't tell her about my condition.Later i told her about my condition and she accept it without further questions.I told her the full story,how it happened and what's my current condition also till today there's no treatment for such injuries like mine.Fine everything was preety okay and we started to love each other.It passed 3 years and we're still continuing our relationship without meeting each other before.We're on sms/calls/mms/ym till today.

There's sceintists who're doing great in medical fields arround the globe and soon maybe 3-5 years there will be a cure or near-to-cure treatment for injuries/condition like mine.That's great!Which means i still have hope to be a normal human/man,walking of course.

The problem is my girl is a muslim and i'm christian.We both strong enough on our beleives and faith.I respect her religion and she respect mine too.In this situation,it is hard for us to be together since a non muslim should convert to a muslim religion if they wanted to marry a muslim women/man.

I told her that i'm strong with my religion and i don't want to convert,therefore after i think deeply i told her to leave me and it is better for both of us because i can't convert my religion to marry her.She cried and told me that she don't mind if i can't marry her,she's willing to be like this forever (She's great!).It's already few times i talk with her about this matter and she's still with her decision which is, she's willing to continue our relationship without getting married.I love her ver much as how she's loving me so i guess it will be ok someday soon.

Few weeks ago she told me that she's willing to come over here,kedah get a job and stay here just because she wanted to meet me everyday and be with me whenever possible but she's not sure when because her parents kinda control type.

At this point,i'm feeling very bad because she's willing to sacrifice lotsa things but i feel like i'm selfish and never sacrifice anything for her.I don't know why am i feeling like this,i think it is because she's willing not to marry if i'm not intend to do so and willing to shift to my place, left her family just because she loves me.

The only problem is religion.My parents brought me up with christianity and i love and respect my religion very much.

I'm not sure if you guys really get what i'm trying to say but i think it's quite understand-able so i just want to ask you guys for opinion,any kinda opinion,suggestion,advise will be appreciated!

just cause u convert to a muslim. doesnt mean u have to follow it .

I got friends with chinese dads and muslim moms. who eat char siew pau and pray to buddha .

it dosent matter wat the religion is . its up to u . when ur kids turn 18. let them choose their own religion. u can always move to singapore and renounce ur islam religion and live as a chrisitan if u really like.

Dun tok bout those bullshit stuff like the first bolded. Since you can say not many able-bodied girls accept ppl like TS, so can we used back what you said to make a deduction that there's a BIG chance the girl is also "using" TS also? Especially with an added fact that both never met each other b4. It's simply "GOD-SENT" huh for someone to fell in love with another while not having to meet each other before.

its' religion. dunt play play with it.  From how TS said it, his religion is his EVERYTHING also. why she can go ALL the way to concern and accept his everything, and yet didn't practice ACCEPTANCE on his religion (acceptance only. He's NOT EVEN asked her to convert to his religion also). Sometimes things r pretty fishy.

If both party keep to his and her religion and be happy about it, then now this is TRUE acceptance.

Why talk about religion now. Wait for the both of them to actually meet and physically date one another first. Take it from there. They haven't even met yet and everyone's going on about getting married and religion.