hmm.. i understand you guy's feeling cause i have the same problem as well. i always call and sms a lot to my gf and she won't reply or sometimes won't pick up my call. i really wonder what she is up to. hmm.. they don't like being control. maybe when we are far apart, they will do their own things and when they be with us, then they will show their love to us. maybe lah.. because cannot guarantee all the LDR partners are like that.

when married already then everything will become normal as usual loh. don worry about this thing. when being together again, we can do things together again and have more communication.


hmm.. it is really suffering to wait her to miss you and call you. you will feel disappointed if you wait for her call or sms when you feel that she will call you today or tonite but she didn't call at all. i tried this before and it ends up disappointed me greatly.

yeah. i also hope that i can give her time to do her things but sometimes i found out myself very miss her till i cannot tahan and call her. sometimes, when i call her and chat for short while, i feel frustrated and seems like want to call her chat again and this will cause her to feel annoyed about me. i really don know why i am like this. maybe i am paranoid or something? maybe too miss my gf? if i got something to do then i think i will not call her all the time lah but only when i am alone or doing nothing. really don know why like this. am i normal? anyone has the same feeling as me?

why your mum want to break you two up? anything bad happen meh?

yeah.. i also don really understand why your mum don't like your gf. maybe something else? or your mum don't like your gf is a single parent?

but sometimes it is hard for us who are in love. maybe they know the best but sometimes they can be wrong.

yeah. i always want my other partner to have more commitment towards our relationship but it seems like that sometimes it very hard right?i wonder how to let them have more commitment? by telling them?

yeah. erm.. i think communication now is the priority because i really want to know what is the important things in her life and i want to share to her what i think and what is important to me. maybe last time, we are in LDR situation so then cannot chat something really deep. besides that, we usually sms and chat online so that i cannot see her expression and emotion so this is what we lack of. so have to plan more when she come here.

erm.. yeah. maybe you don understand it but no problem bro. we can share it together mah right? erm.. sometimes when we are in LDR, we really need to chat with our partner face to face is better because we will know their expression and emotion. i really miss that part which we usually chat with each other. i will treasure the time which we are together when it comes.

yeah. i think no one like to have a LDR relationship. i really hope that i can quickly complete my studies and be together with my gf ler.. really suffering leh. don want to suffer anymore.

hmm.. i think i still got 1 and a half years to go. damn long ler.. i really hope that the time pass super fast and then i cna be with her again.

yeah.. thanks aprilgirl. haha.. last time i help you, now you help me pula.. haha.. erm.. i really wish the time can pass by super fast and then after graduate will find a good job and then will plan the future with her.

2 months bro? also fast lah. my gf will be coming to kl 1 month later. really need to carefully plan what to do and where to go.

where are you going that time oh? you working now is it? erm.. don say like that lah. still got 2 months time ler.. maybe that time the situation change leh or maybe you can do something to make the difference mah. just remember to spend more time with her when you can loh because now i know that spending the time with your love one is really important and priceless.

erm.. my gf will be here at november and will stay at my house with her sister for 9 days. i try to plan carefully where to go and do in those 9 days. i really want to do my best for her and spend all my days for her and communicate with her more.

you have problem with your bf? erm.. not making him happy eh? maybe he got stress during his work and want you to care him more?

haha.. what younger than me? how you know oh? haha.. erm.. yeah. really have to spend more time with your love one because i really don like have a regret moment which i think that i don't have enough time to spend with her or something like that. don know why i thinking like this, maybe because we are in LDR situation. so if you got time, just spend with her. i also think your gf and mine will appreciate it very much oh.

erm.. actually i also don know how to tam people one especially my gf. what you can do is, maybe you can send him cards. not e-cards but real cards. try to buy some colourful and meaningful cards such as you are my hubby or something very sweet and try to write letters for him. love letters also can to make him feel that you spend your private time to care for him.

This post has been edited by CrossFirE: Oct 17 2007, 12:43 AM

wah.. good idea also but where to find certificate? haha.. but for me i will write love letters and send cards for him lah. writing love letters is not easy leh. haha..

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Added on October 17, 2007, 12:45 amyes loh.. but you also don believe..

This post has been edited by CrossFirE: Oct 17 2007, 12:45 AM

use M.Publisher? how? erm.. i also want to do it ler.. keke..

wah.. maybe we can come out and share the making of the love certificate together?

*BTW, joshua, how are you and your gf doing?

This post has been edited by CrossFirE: Oct 17 2007, 12:59 AM

hmm.. maybe guys are like that. sometimes will look stupid but when they realise that this thing is important then they will treasure it like hell.. don worry about it too much. erm.. just write something sweet or sweet memories which you and him been through loh. ask him whether he still remember this or that and you tell him that you really want to have this kind of situation or sweet moment with him again loh..

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Added on October 17, 2007, 1:04 amyou already got one already? haha.. show us how to make lah..

This post has been edited by CrossFirE: Oct 17 2007, 01:04 AM

can can.. haha.. like that lagi bagus lah. then you know how much he love you and you love him mah..

wah.. you got so many fans meh?