Hi, i wonder how u guys cope up wit ldr. have been reading the forum but din join. anyway, i'm just like one of u.. on ldr for a yr plus. i feel like giving up dy.

i'm blur.. i dunno whether is the love still exist between us.. i dun feel that he loves me when we r apart..

we chat on skype every nite.. somehow most of the time we keep quiet. i dare not talk much coz he gets annoyed easily. sometimes i cant get he say (due to poor skype connection) but i need to pretend as if i heard it.. y? coz he will get irritated if i kept asking him to repeat his sentences. he told me once, he's not so interested in talking to me without seeing me physically. that's y he's annoyed over those lil thingy. once he's mad, he care nothing bout me. once i was very very sick and he was mad at me over nonsense stuff, he dun even care to come and visit me. we r just 500 km apart.. how sad?

yeap.. he's busy wit his work, but seems to me he is feed up wit his job too.. btw, he will never sms me unless he has done something wrong.. not even a sms saying he miss me after being apart for so long. i have did what i could.. sms him just to tell him i miss him.. but in the end, i got nothing.. not a single reply..

Joshua, useless if i love him and he doesn't appreciate me..

i'm in kl and he's in spore.. i've tried sms him.. he doesnt respond. call him, later disturb him. how ar? any idea how to make him care for me more? i could feel that both of us doesnt need each other.

i cant go n find him.. i dun have a place to stay in spore. sms him without a respond.. how long could u do that? calling him n he is not interested in talking.. apart from saying 'what r u doing now or how's ur day', i dunno what else to talk. nothing seems to attrack him. even i asked him, wat movie did u watch just now.. he just answer me 'i tell u, u also wont know la'.. see i got this kind of respond.. this is not just once.. a lot of time dy.. i wonder is the movie title too long? why would a guy answer like this to a gal? simple reason, he wants to cut the conversation short. he dun wan to talk. i have been doing all the talking and i'm getting tired. one way communication doesnt seems to work. what else could i do? u guys teach me la..

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Sep 17 2007, 07:19 PM

Thanks for all of ur opinions. Glad that u guys r so supporting.

Hey.. he still do call me using skype. it's just like a routine work. but the problem is he got nothing to talk, and i'm tired of talking too. one way communication. he dun take it as a problem n he dun seems to care how i feel.

yup.. something need to be done to heat up the relationship.. if i wanna go n look for him, that would be on the weekend. so meanwhile what shall i do? or just leave like that?

hmm.. i could only have serious talk wit him on weekend. weekday he need to work.

i'm afraid to tell him how i feel. he will take it as a complain. in the end, he will say 'if u r not satisfy wit me, then choose other man to be ur partner'. he will defend himself n starts to pick all my fault. i gotta be xtra careful in my words. the 2nd sentences must not be a contradiction to the 1st n the 1st sentences should be the main point.

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Sep 17 2007, 11:16 PM

yup.. i know that. i dunno y i feel reluctant to tell him. he dont tell me his feeling too. it's like there is a wall between us. yup, it is a committed relationship. otherwise i wont be stress out.. might as well just cut it off.. am i rite?

going to nowhere

not that cannot tahan.. just that already used to it. kekke.. anyway, thanks a lot. i've just discussed the matter wit him. i told him how i feel. he told me dunno y he just dun like chatting on phone.. not siok.. he wan to see me physically standing in front of him, then only he could have a proper chat wit me. how to help him over come this problem? everytime when he saw something and wanted to tell me, but once on the phone he dunno wat to say.

he agreed to come back more often..

thanks a lot for all the advices & support..

i cant do anything bout the phone chat. he promised to come back two week once.

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Added on September 18, 2007, 10:43 amthanks for correcting. yeap, i got a very poor command of English. anyway, i dun think u r a big showoff. at least u care to correct others.

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Sep 18 2007, 10:43 AM

so sweet.. for every second that he's quiet, he was looking at you.. but in my case, for every second that he's quiet, he was in dreamland!!

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Sep 18 2007, 10:52 AM

yea.. LDR is very hard. needs a lot of trust n patience. Cloudx, u must trust ur gal.

384 calls.. that's a lot.. what happen?
sheep, he is most probably trying to ignore ur calls. y not u just leave him an sms asking him to call u back asap. my bf ignore my calls before too, but i din try as much as 384 calls.. just 44 calls.

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Sep 21 2007, 11:31 PM

perhaps her life is bored over there? that's why she got nothing to share. if she seldom call u, why not u call her rather than waiting for her calls n sms? hopefully, everything gets better soon.

not very long.. dun worry, u will b with her soon. me even worse.. not sure when me n my bf can be together.

yea.. we should help each other ma..
good la u already plan for future.. how long will she be in kl wo?
hey, i'm facing a problem with my bf la.. my bf say i din do anything to make him happy. so any suggestion ar?

hmm.. how to care him more wo? i call him every nite. but he doesnt seems to be extra happy. like normal only. i really dunno how to tam him.

hmm.. i've even made a card for him before. he dun even know what to do wit the card.
i'm not good in writing.. moreover i dunno what to write also..