Well, you guys can't talk through the MSN or something?

Have faith in him. Maybe he's really busy with his stuff. Instead of getting mad at him, try showing your concern about him, tell him not to make himself too tired though he has to do his stuff, and tell him that when he's busy and has been missing for a day or two, you'll miss him a lot, worried about him, etc.

Let him knows your feeling.

I think that calling her will be a better choice, rather than telling her through the net.

Yes, you need to stand the absence of your partner. That's what LDR about. Be strong, girl.

Commitment is one of them. That's very important as well. If her bf isn't committed to the LDR, it's very difficult to make it work too.

mumuz: However, if you're lack of trust or faith, then it will be even harder because it will be like what spunkberry said, you'll be wondering and worrying a lot.

I believe that if trust is there between you two, there's no need to 'report' everything to your partner like with whom you have hang out last night, who called you, meals with who, etc. If you trust your partner, I don't see the point at all. If you're worrying and wondering too much, that's the sign of you don't trust your partner that much. And that's dangerous..

shanshan: Yes, it is about Long Distance Relationship.

This post has been edited by jdreamer: Jun 9 2007, 05:13 PM

It's alright. So, are you in a LDR?

True. Right after I replied that post, I thought of that as well but I was too lazy to re-edit my post so I left it unedited.

Afterall it's depends on the couple. If they're fine with the 'report', then it should be alright. However, like what you said, too much is never a good thing to do. Everything has its own limit, do not ever exceed it.

This thread will be growing if there are posters. I'm free these few days, that's why I'm spamming here.

Pardon me, where are you now? I kind of forgot.

Good so that it's not my fault for not remembering it!

India, my friend will be going there soon. JPA scholars.

Ah.. JPA........ blah, nightmare to me.

Hahax, no idea why anyway.

So, how long will you stay in Malaysia?

I don't want to turn this thread into discussion about India.

You'll pass, have faith!

Some of the couples here can't even meet once a month. Some need to wait for months or year or even years!

Who's more lucky now?

Then, good luck to you!

Well, why don't you talk to him about this? At least let him know your feeling.

Mandy has spoken!

Alternative ways are to chat online or call each other with MSN or other IM/skype.

Yea, get lost.

Add me too ~

Wooooooooooo, good morning.

I'm shy...

It has been a week... my ex has been smsing me for a week...

Asking me to turn back... telling me how much she has regretted...

Okie, sorry to keep most of you in the dark. Only Joshua and Darkie know that I'm seeing someone now.

It seems like my ex is desired to have me back. She has been looking for me since her last break - telling me how much she missed me, how much she regretted to leave, all of that. In fact, she complained a lot about her current bf so I guess it's because she couldn't get what she wanted from her bf. Just my guess though.

But.. I'm definitely not turning back. I've already walked away and there's no point to turn back, right? I love my current gf but I don't know how to reject my ex as I don't want to hurt her that much.

Teach me a way to make my ex to give up on me..