...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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Oct 8 2007, 05:13 PM
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I believe in it
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Oct 8 2007, 06:43 PM
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I know you don't because of your past experience but then hey there are lots of girl-boy best friend outside.. But then when it comes to like if your partner's best friend is the opposite sex then I don't know but of course there's nothing wrong with it.. But I believe that we human sometimes can let our emotions control us right..? haihhhhhhhhhhhhh
XD dazzy, I miss my gf too but she's far away from me XD This post has been edited by BlueWind: Oct 8 2007, 06:44 PM |
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Oct 8 2007, 11:18 PM
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... I said something wrong ah?
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Oct 13 2007, 09:33 AM
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QUOTE(CrossFirE @ Oct 12 2007, 09:22 PM) yeah. i also hope that i can give her time to do her things but sometimes i found out myself very miss her till i cannot tahan and call her. sometimes, when i call her and chat for short while, i feel frustrated and seems like want to call her chat again and this will cause her to feel annoyed about me. i really don know why i am like this. maybe i am paranoid or something? maybe too miss my gf? if i got something to do then i think i will not call her all the time lah but only when i am alone or doing nothing. really don know why like this. You are not alone~ I'm~ here with you~ |
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Oct 13 2007, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Oct 13 2007, 04:27 PM) lol.. i've done it now.. my mom found out about us.. and she is very disappointed about my choice in a gf.. sigh.. now my mom is so angry.. zzz and my gf is still overseas and she doesnt know about wat happened.. my mom wants us to break up.. i dunno wat to do Heh, almost the same situation with my gf, her mom found out about me and obviously even she didn't tell her mom, she knows that we are a couple QUOTE(babysept @ Oct 13 2007, 05:31 PM) hi all.. first time posting in this topic, nice to meet all of u.. Welcome to da club im in a LDR, me myself in msia and my bf in aussie.. he migrated to china when he was a little kid and now a citizen there.. met ea other in an online game.. been together for almost 2 yrs le.. |
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Oct 13 2007, 11:51 PM
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Sooner or later you have to tell her, I don't think it will make a difference if you tell her later. But do you actually what your mom wants? I mean like not only she thinks that your gf is not suitable for you, it's more like what she really think of this relationship or try to find out the real reason the real deep reasons why she dislike your gf.. What's wrong with your gf is a single parent for your mom? I don't know much but I have this sense that she still has her another reason? Maybe? I don't know maybe you can try to find out..
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Oct 14 2007, 08:30 PM
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Dazzy, yeah if you tell your gf about it you will risk the chance of her wanting to break up with you, but the thing is you need to discuss with your gf as it involves the both of you so I think you better discuss with her. - You said you have a feeling it might not be true so don't worry so much.
Right now, the problem is not only lies within your mother but yourself too because you having doubts whether you will love her first child or not.. |
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Oct 15 2007, 09:10 PM
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You feel like as if you're not on a relationship? Be prepared for the worse man..
Good luck |
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Oct 15 2007, 10:02 PM
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Good to hear that your life is getting better because you managed to balance everything. So again good luck to you and your partner.
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Oct 16 2007, 10:09 AM
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You can't make a person commit to a relationship as much as you do, the same thing goes to can't expect to change a person the way we wanted to so it's all right to get disappointed and feel sad but you just need to understand we can't do many things. I mean as in like changing a person or whatever. - There are nobody in this world will always be right, mistakes then mistakes lor if you can accept it then accept la because if it's only a small mistake and you cannot get over it you might regret in future. In your case I don't know whether it's a big or small mistake. Just wait till she comes back and see how it goes.
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Oct 16 2007, 06:00 PM
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Yeah, it's true.. You need to make sure the other half has a lot of commitment towards the relationship..
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Oct 16 2007, 09:41 PM
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QUOTE(CrossFirE @ Oct 16 2007, 07:02 PM) yeah. i always want my other partner to have more commitment towards our relationship but it seems like that sometimes it very hard right?i wonder how to let them have more commitment? by telling them? Not exactly, until today I have no idea how because I never really experience this problem before. Since we are in LDR, it's quite difficult to get things sorted out.. so.. for me.. haih.. if I were you I would just take things as it comes although I have no clue what can I do..QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 16 2007, 08:48 PM) the same way you can't make someone care about you the way you do. Which would explain why I always feel shortchanged when I realize that my friends don't care about me as much as I do about them Haha, in this world many things won't turn out the way we expect.. so live with it lor... |
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Oct 16 2007, 11:04 PM
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Yup, face to face talking is much better than over the phone or msn..
Crossfire, how long you can complete your studies before you get to be with your gf? This post has been edited by BlueWind: Oct 16 2007, 11:14 PM |
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Oct 17 2007, 11:03 AM
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WAH, I yesterday night just left then suddenly BOOM with all posts.. Took me so long to read.. walao..
Anyway, dazzy the best thing you could do is to wait for her call.. Just what you are thinking now.. Joshua, I want to book leh.. How much is the staff price again? SGD 140? |
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Oct 17 2007, 05:09 PM
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But before that I want to ask, since we are considered foreigner when we are doing check-in I just give my name to the receptionist? I know it's kinda stupid to ask but it's my first time booking anyway so..
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Oct 17 2007, 05:29 PM
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Ok then, I think around early November I'll book the room. I give you the date and you help me ask. I'll be checking in on 15th December until 17th Monday. Thanks
Wah piang eh, now only I know it's near Dhoby Ghaut MRT which is also near Grand Central Hotel(sucky one).. so far away This post has been edited by BlueWind: Oct 17 2007, 05:31 PM |
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Oct 17 2007, 05:41 PM
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Oct 17 2007, 09:33 PM
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Here's what I think,
Ok.. So.. What you want to tell me? |
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Oct 17 2007, 10:55 PM
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Isn't that the same meaning?
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Oct 18 2007, 11:57 AM
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QUOTE(AprilGirl @ Oct 17 2007, 11:21 PM) hey.. i will be going down on 15th Dec till 16th Dec if the room rate is reasonable.. joshua helping me to book a room too. Haha, at most I will be travelling with Aeroline so.. I don't know which bus you're going to travel with. |
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