well... guess this is not the case YET.... we still have another year in LDR before reli marry... and even after marry we still will be in LDR for 2 more yrs coz she need to help her daddy on the bizz... still not confirm yet...

.... lol but still you both tie the knot

hi all , this was my first post on LDR thread actually i wanna start a relationship with a girl that live at sabah n i stay at k.l today we start sms each other n last time we chat on msn. LDR really hard to maintain? sorry this was my first LDR n my first love if success tackle her , she know i like her n she also got feel on me . but she say distance problem i told her i like u distance doesn't matter. so anyone can give me so opinion?

Yeah... ur right..!

Well, hard to maintain if you think iz hard... LDR need a lot of TRUST and UNDERSTANDING... if you both trusted each other then just go ahead... Good Luck !!

Well, yeah LDR is hard to maintain. - As you know it requires lots of patience commitments and things like that.. So if you both are really ready to commit this then I will say give it a try, but if the other side isn't ready yet then don't force her.. You know la SDR or LDR both need two sides to maintain it.. To be honest, this is my first love and it is also my first LDR, but we've been together for almost 9 months and we want to keep it going even though our future is uncertain but we still want it because if we really can manage to go through this I believe our story will be like Kokuryo's one

Good luck man~


Cheers

hehehe... me paiseh to post my picture leh... dont want lah... can ah?

I am in Spore n my GF in KL. We have been together for 8months. It is hard. Before i started it i thought distance is not a problem, but in fact it will start to have effect on us even though we meet once a month. I wud say try to avoid LDR if u can or be ready for the hard future ahead. It takes more and more courage as time goes by. G luck!

CANNOT!!! MUST POST!!

Yo brother I'm vice versa with you my gf is at Singapore and I'm in KL. Anyway we don't get to meet every month like you do, how I wish I could meet with her sometimes.. - Seriously not only LDR will have problem SDR too also have lots of problem..

hehehe congrats kokuryo. to be honest, marriage scares the crap outta me. XD
but I do sometimes dream of a romantic proposal and planning my wedding...

Nuh-uh. Scares the crap outta me. XD
Or even if I do get married, I don't want kids.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: May 7 2007, 03:33 PM

kokuryo,
congratulation! and celebration! really sweet of you and really very nice ring you've got there.

BlueWind,
dont like that lah... it's not that i dont wanna let you guys see my photo. it's just that i dont feel comfortable posting photo's into open cyberspace. ehehe...

I make beautiful kids. Don't be scared of me.

ya , trust n understand is the main problem . anyway is good to have a try on it .

hahahhaa I'm afraid of being a mother...being a wife is okay...being a mother is beyond scary...it's terrifying.

Haha, miyoko I'm not that unreasonable one la. - I understand geh, I was just joking anyway haha

Oh well, who says being a parent to a kid is easy huh? XD

oh and people...I've broken up with my bf.
I just didn't love him in that special way anymore...

Do you know what you talking about? In just such a short period?

yes I know what I'm talking about. I've been thinking about it for a very long time...and right now I'm feeling really down about it because I wanted it to work. but 1. the distance is proving too much...and 2. he was getting on my nerves a lot lately.

I'm just really REALLY down right now...but I know it's for the best because it's unfair to him to have it so one-sided. Just...*sigh*..I love him very much...but there's a different tone to it now...

This post has been edited by spunkberry: May 8 2007, 10:52 PM

Frankly speaking I don't think you really love him. No offence though, I mean love someone don't really need the SPECIAL way to love someone..

Sigh. What is done is done. Carry on with your life. If you guys have the fate, you guys will be together again.

*sings*
Oh life goes on
And it's only gonna make me strong
It's a fact, once you get on board
Say good-bye cause you can't go back
Oh it's a fight, and I really wanna get it right
Where I'm at, is my life before me
And this feelin' that I can go back