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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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post Jul 15 2007, 10:44 PM

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My condolence..
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post Jul 16 2007, 08:09 PM

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Guys and girls please help me this time.. My gf cared a lot about her weight.. she's not to say fat you know, I mean she's ok.. I did everything that I possibly could to help her in reducing her weight since she insisted in losing weight. I advice her that if she really wants to lose weight then lose in a healthy way, but then seems like I couldn't help much. But because of her menses she gained weight and that she plans to skip lunch, she already want to lose weight so many times by skipping meals but I've told her countless not to skip her meals even if she wants to lose weight and I even told her if she wants to lose then lose it in healthy way but then now.. I'm extremely worried about her and I just don't know what I can do for her and really really worried that she later will be come too over-sensitive with her weight.. I really really don't know what to do.. If darklight you're reading this now.. Please give me some advice.. Thanks..
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post Jul 16 2007, 08:23 PM

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As I said, I told her not to skip meals and all but still she did and also she eats a little bit each time when she thinks that she is gaining weight but the reason why is she eating a little bit is because she promised that she won't skip. If it wasn't because of the promise she wouldn't eat at all. She eats bread each morning and also during lunch and dinner milk she drinks a lot. So again what can I do?


Gr3yL3gion81, do you know this is a LDR? READ please

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post Jul 16 2007, 09:01 PM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 16 2007, 08:32 PM)
well, the only thing u can do is talk nicely to her. joke a bit like e.g. tell her she is pretty. then if she say she fat, say don trust me di wo? stuff like that.

its hard. but at least she promise nt to skip meals thats a good start. try advice her take fruits. its better than eating nth.

or maybe u try convince her that u make a meal schedule for her. and make sure she follow it.
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I did.. I did everything that I possibly could.. haih dunno la..

QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Jul 16 2007, 08:38 PM)
You could bank in the money to enrol into such centres.

What's wrong with that? It's just a suggestion...

I've been into LDR too, i could relate man.
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I'm not like you, who has some savings in bank and support. I'm a student. I do have some savings but I can't afford.
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post Jul 16 2007, 09:09 PM

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Haih, yeah.. right now we are sorting things out.. Anyway thanks for your suggestion and my apology to you that I was being rude with you because I was a bit angry with myself for not being able to help her and I'm really worried of her.. Thanks anyways
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post Jul 16 2007, 09:18 PM

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I did tell her that never ever skip breakfast because breakfast is really really important. Also I told her it's best not to skip meals but then what to do? Cannot la.. haih.. Anyway, having my patients now.. Thanks
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post Jul 17 2007, 04:33 PM

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QUOTE(yywoei @ Jul 17 2007, 12:25 PM)
Hey all, new here.. start off LDR 18months ago.. still struggling.. haha..  flex.gif

I'm in mlk and he is in PD. was previously in PJ.. His company going to sent him to Indonesia and will b staying there for 2 years or the most 3years... huh..  cry.gif 
not sure when, but mostly is within this year. Hoping his site wud have internet connection so tat we can skype.. cos phone billing wud cost a lot..

Anyway, Hi to you all!!! biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 17 2007, 03:19 PM)
hard yes but in the end we will all succeed. right? right?
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HELL YEAH DUDE!! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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post Jul 17 2007, 09:22 PM

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Up to your own decision man, you know yourself the best. wink.gif
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post Jul 17 2007, 09:55 PM

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Wassap, remember TAMBAH kicap, TAMBAH air, don't forget TAMBAH petrol!! Haha add oil ya.. smile.gif
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post Jul 18 2007, 08:41 PM

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Yup, she's using you.. Leave her at once.. Ouch...
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post Jul 18 2007, 10:30 PM

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Hopefully she appreciates of what you've done for her so all the best man wink.gif
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post Jul 18 2007, 11:29 PM

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Hey, I gave my gf your clip and she wish you good luck too.. She told me that from the clip she can see the sincerity just like what I thought.. smile.gif
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post Jul 20 2007, 09:26 PM

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Those threads are just plain ridiculous.
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post Jul 20 2007, 10:50 PM

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You know that "I dun feel like having a gf" thread.. It's stupid just because other gangs have gf doesn't mean he has to have one.. This thing just really stupid.
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post Jul 22 2007, 05:30 PM

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It really makes me wonder why she keeps ignoring your calls or sms and yet she e-mailed you telling you that she wants to get over it and start all over again but she still continue the same attitude towards you. It's really funny for a person who does that to another and didn't even bother to explain to you. - Maybe you should just write an e-mail to her saying that it's all over. But before you type this word out make sure you think carefully, I know you've been thinking but sometimes people tend to like regret. So anyway, should tell her it's over but it's up to you to decide. smile.gif

Wassap, how's your's now?
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post Jul 23 2007, 10:09 PM

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Lelong, if you feel you're happy after making this decision means you're making the right move. smile.gif
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post Jul 26 2007, 08:01 PM

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Rolex might do brows.gif

Oh yeah, btw if her father is a superticious kind better don't get a watch for him.. You know what that means in cantonese don't you?

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post Jul 27 2007, 08:14 PM

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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Jul 27 2007, 06:25 AM)
arrhhh....
so long dint come here!!
assignments kill me....
1 man do 4 man work ....
at this time , still doing .....

how are u guys ar?? ok mou ar???
peace n be happy neh^^
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Same here la, getting more and more assignments, I'm fine right now and I see everyone here is fine as well.. blink.gif
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:19 PM

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Looks different from what I saw last time.. hmm.gif
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post Jul 31 2007, 10:55 PM

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Nah just different, I don't know how to explain but different from what I thought lol..

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