Haha, were looking for your nick in MSN. But you away, so I didn't msg you..

Will share it now...

Hold on

Things & problems happen after her sister went to Singapore and work and stay with her.

Support her sister all the way down to Singapore & work too. Were sick on the day before her interview. Still I try to go down with her to Singapore to look for job, etc. Nah, I am actually just crapping this...

Ok, real problem here... Her sister got a job in Singapore, which is taking over my gf ex-job. So, my gf has to teach her sister all the job scope etc. That goes 1 week bz of them. From morning till night, and that is also we start to seldom contact each another. Call her and she will said 'bz bz', and I will said 'o, ok, bye bye'. Feel like I am abandoned but I can understand what actually going on. So, I just don't want to think so much and I am fine with it.

Last Sunday start, she start to keep on hurting me and making me angry. Why? Just a short conversation of saying good night that lead to making my heart to bleed?

Example, when I talk to her, she didn't listen. Fine, coz she is tired. When she ask me question, I answer but she is not listening. Might as well no need to ask me!

Another example, I were at Tesco doing some shoppin with my brother. Were looking for some instant noodle mee and she missed call me. I call her up and we talk. Like normal, after we talk, then I said 'ok lar, bye bye' since nothing to talk already. Ok, we close the phone and she call me up again. She ask me why I close the phone so fast? Huh? I were busy doing something and we do not have anything to talk already. Then I said 'Am at Tesco buying some stuff, I busy choosing something that why'. Guess what she said? She said 'we do not have YUAN FEN. When I busy, you free. When I free, you busy.' I just thinking why she need to say till YUAN FEN, so serious meh? Whatever lar, don't bother it and accompany her for a while. But she knew that I am busy and yet still have to talk to her. She don't like and insisted to close the phone. I delayed the conversation till she reach her ex-company(she on the way there).

Phew.. Thought solved already. I then called her up when I really free(after 15 min). She on the MRT, line were very noisy. Again, she said 'See,we do not have YUAN FEN. When we can talk, we cannot listen to each another.' She repeated that again and again. 4-5 times and I get pissed off already. ENOUGH! Since she can't listen to me already at all, I straight close the phone.

Waited for another 10 min and I call her again. Line were clear since she has reached her destination. Ask her why does she need to talk till YUAN FEN so serious? She said, 'Our timing not match.' At that time, I were angry mood already. I keep asking her and then she again said 'say for fun only, you know me lar.' So, it is our timing not match or say for fun? It is totally not fun to hear using my own ears!

Another example, she has been making my angry and sad continueously. I can't sleep and really sad the whole night. I told her the next day, and yet she LAUGH said she really don't know.

Another example, we quarrel. And she said we need to FEN KAI. I ask FEN KAI or FEN SHOU? What is the different? I said, ok, FEN KAI for how many days she cannot answer me. She said, we are now already FEN KAI also what, so far apart.

Another example. I said I these few days don't want to 'disturb' her or whatsoever lor, but I said she need to tell me if got any problem. She said, she now got sister already, she doesn't want to tell me. She rather to tell her sister because she can read newspaper and tell her sister at the same time. While for me, she doens't want to pick up call and can't do anything as on the phone. I am thinking, does she still need a bf? And what I am for for her? The way she said like she doens't need me anymore, she doesn't need my accompany anymore.

Another example, remember the FEN KAI example I said just now? Ok, I said I don't want. She then came with this. She said 'Is it because you can't attract any girls any more? Is it because you don't have spare tyre anymore? It is because no girls like you anymore?' WTH she saying this to me? I seldom mix with girls because of her, I avoided close friend relationship with girls because of HER. And now she saying this to me? Sigh, what I did for her and this is what I get.

End of story. End of nagging. End of complaining.

Thanks

Any opinion?

I just know I very scare to call her.

But, I need to support her. She working in the new company and she having problem in her work. I need to give encouragement to her.

Sigh.... I i i... speechless... :'(

About the YUAN FEN story, I forgotten to add something. I got really pissed off and I ask her to go and find her real YUAN FEN. Stupid me.... Sigh, she and her sister saying I am tooo tooo sensitive. Am I? I don't think I am sensitive at all, YUAN FEN this word.... Saying we don't have YUAN FEN. She said I & her thinkin is different... What different? I ask she said timing not matching. Then again I ask her she said she say for fun. Then? WHAT DOES SHE ACTUALLY MEAN THEN?

Sigh................

If she read this, she for sure will going to say me again. She will say I small gas and will remember about the past.

I actually don't wish I write the story here, as she sometime will come to LYN and read.



Bluewind: Asking the question whether I & she love each another a not. For me, YES. For her, if I ask her like this, she won't answer me. For last time if I ask her, she will always say NO. But, at night she will say the 3 words

kokuryo: I am giving her the freedom and space already. She working time I won't call her or sms her at all. Last time yes, because easier to get her. Now, totally no. Even after 6 something, when I call her, I still will ask her whether she busy a not.



I just know I need to make sure we don't quarrel everyday. If not she will fed up and really break up, this is what she said.

I am losing my patient, faith, trust, hope and confident bit by bit

She will then ask me whether I have think about her feeling last time.. Remember last time I post the god-sis problem?

Justin, I am just waiting for you

She called me just now, she in problem now... Financial problem....

Hehe... Since you so good to me...

Who else? Of course she lar. If not, you meh?

This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Jun 21 2007, 07:15 PM

Since you not greedy, 128MB for you then... Cannot lar, I need it for my fm modulator, I give you 64MB can liao

Hao de, mei you wen ti

I ask her how much she need, so that I can bank in money for her. She said she doesn't want me to help, she said she doesn't want to be looked like come and find me when she has any problem. Told her I did not look her at her at that way because she is my gf and I love her.

So far so good gua... Just now she talk about fen kai, i said we did not fen kai..

Think so...

Super duper depressing...

What happen?

Again, yesterday and this morning she said something bad to me. Sigh sigh sigh...

I ask her why she recently like to say something to hurt me. She said she don't know. She said she just know always now to think continue to spoilt our relationship only. I really don't know what happen to she.

Wanted to rephrase the sentence. She actually mean she feel that she always wanted to spoilt our relationship. After I asking her whether izzit because of the 'monthly' or stress

Haha, she ask me why I so down, so I mar post the story post link to her lor, lazy to repeat. Didn't expect she will post here.

JUSTIN, don't think till other place.

That's normal.... I work at a shoppping mall, that's worst. I just can look at them being so close and sweet

This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Jun 23 2007, 01:40 AM

TS? U mean me? I LDR 2 years + already lar..


I can't upload pic of me & gf, my gf dun allowed 1

Do really love bring hurt more than happiness?