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is he genuine?
SUSvincyvc
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Oct 6 2017, 08:41 PM, updated 7y ago
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we are together for almost 2 months.. but he never brings me out for dates coz hes very busy which i understands.. he will want to get intimate with me, but no dates.. does he really view me as his girlfriend or just some girls that he can hook up with and dump afterwards
apparently theres no future in our relationship, hes a muslim, im a chinese. but i still fell for him coz i rlly rlly love him but now, im getting mixed signals.. i dunno but im doubting this relationship. what should i do..
Update: found out he has a wife few days ago.. all this while he is lying to me. Told him I wanna break up ytd. He came and begged. I'm soft hearted but I have to force myself. Trying to
This post has been edited by vincyvc: Oct 13 2017, 01:07 AM
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even_steven
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Oct 6 2017, 08:56 PM
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He's using you as booty call.
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youngblood29us
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Oct 6 2017, 09:02 PM
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Be careful.. looks like hes just 'testing' you..dont follow ur heart.. sit, think and rationalize..
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JessicaAlba
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Oct 6 2017, 09:15 PM
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Getting Started
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Pump and dump. Prepare for the latter.
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Ralna
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Oct 6 2017, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(vincyvc @ Oct 6 2017, 08:41 PM) we are together for almost 2 months.. but he never brings me out for dates coz hes very busy which i understands.. he will want to get intimate with me, but no dates.. does he really view me as his girlfriend or just some girls that he can hook up with and dump afterwards apparently theres no future in our relationship, hes a muslim, im a chinese. but i still fell for him coz i rlly rlly love himbut now , im getting mixed signals.. i dunno but im doubting this relationship. what should i do.. FACT #1: If a man is genuinely interested in a woman, he is never too busy for her. If he doesn't have time, he will make time. FACT #2: If a man loves a woman, he won't let her have any doubt about him or the relationship. Trust your guts. Give yourself another 3-6 months. Those "really really love him" feelings will fade as your love hormones lose its effects = less infatuation = more clear-headed.
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BlueWind
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Oct 6 2017, 11:27 PM
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Do yourself a favor. He is leaving you in doubt. Red flag there.
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clawhammer
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Oct 6 2017, 11:43 PM
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///M
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I would stop putting hopes in this relationship if I were you No dates and only intimate? You know what it means.
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danny88888
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Oct 7 2017, 12:28 AM
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Your relationship sounds like you're a toilet bowl.
When he need to pee, he will find you. Otherwise it's a no show from him.
In addition, he gets the use the toilet for FREE. Don't even need to pay Rm0.20.
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burn22
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Oct 7 2017, 01:11 AM
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he is more to... desire... needs
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MasBoleh!
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Oct 7 2017, 05:44 AM
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QUOTE(vincyvc @ Oct 6 2017, 08:41 PM) we are together for almost 2 months.. but he never brings me out for dates coz hes very busy which i understands.. he will want to get intimate with me, but no dates.. does he really view me as his girlfriend or just some girls that he can hook up with and dump afterwards apparently theres no future in our relationship, hes a muslim, im a chinese. but i still fell for him coz i rlly rlly love him but now, im getting mixed signals.. i dunno but im doubting this relationship. what should i do.. how he woo you in the beginning? Does he suddenly stop all the things that he has been doing during the woo-ing process?
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MasBoleh!
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Oct 7 2017, 05:44 AM
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QUOTE(Ralna @ Oct 6 2017, 10:37 PM) FACT #1: If a man is genuinely interested in a woman, he is never too busy for her. If he doesn't have time, he will make time. FACT #2: If a man loves a woman, he won't let her have any doubt about him or the relationship. Trust your guts. Give yourself another 3-6 months. Those "really really love him" feelings will fade as your love hormones lose its effects = less infatuation = more clear-headed. Agree !
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tsg_7
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Oct 7 2017, 01:23 PM
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Maybe he wanna piap piap a chinese girl. Same race girl already piap till bored. Make a wise choice if not u ended with misery.
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yoshiki81
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Oct 7 2017, 01:29 PM
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QUOTE(vincyvc @ Oct 6 2017, 08:41 PM) we are together for almost 2 months.. but he never brings me out for dates coz hes very busy which i understands.. he will want to get intimate with me, but no dates.. does he really view me as his girlfriend or just some girls that he can hook up with and dump afterwards apparently theres no future in our relationship, hes a muslim, im a chinese. but i still fell for him coz i rlly rlly love him but now, im getting mixed signals.. i dunno but im doubting this relationship. what should i do.. My friend got wife and he keep one gf His wife he treat 100% but his gf only for ehem...never date, just meet and piap So u know what will happen right
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Drian
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Oct 7 2017, 04:31 PM
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Is TS a guy or girl?
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SotongBiru
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Oct 7 2017, 05:20 PM
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QUOTE(even_steven @ Oct 6 2017, 08:56 PM) He's using you as booty call. Hahaha, 100%. Wonder why you even ask this question.
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Lucas0323
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Oct 7 2017, 06:43 PM
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Love is always blind and the 3rd party view that you are getting here have confirmed it for you that your point is correct
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outsider
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Oct 8 2017, 09:30 AM
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Sound like he treat u like fb
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Hansleyss
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Oct 8 2017, 01:30 PM
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Trust me on this, DUMP this FELLA.
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-Aktan-
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Oct 8 2017, 10:05 PM
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It's a no go
Pump and dump
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sharmine
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Oct 9 2017, 09:17 AM
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Trust me. Please end this so-called "relationship". Exact same story; almost got intimate with him (thank God). I can even tell you the ending. Once he got himself an official gf. Someone whom he willing to date, someone whom he willing to hold hands in public, he will dump you.
Yes, he is attracted to you up to certain extent (good news) but not enough for him to be committed to you.
Yes, he will text you daily,good morning and good night texts, want you to accompany him everywhere, initiate intimacy --> "macam yes", right?
Somehow, you don't feel right with this relationship. You knew him not too long but he wants to do many couply stuff with you yet he never mentions anything about being serious in this "relationship".---->"macam bukan"
Hence, the mixed feeling.
He is lonely. Most likely still caught up with his past relationship with his ex. He needs someone to fill up the void in his heart/soul (whatever you want to call it). Yes, he is using you to heal himself. He doesn't see you as his potential gf. Hence, skip the "get-to-know-you" part and escalates quickly to intimacy. This is why you feel your relationship with him progresses so fast and yet you guys are not official. Confusing. right.
Don't put too much hope on, maybe - one -day - he-will -see-me-as-his-gf. Forget it. Guys are very direct. If he wants you as his gf. He will let you know. He won't keep you in the dark. Anything, other than this, He is not serious at all.
So, please and please dump him and get out of this "relationship". FAST. I wasted mine for 8 months and used about 5 months to really heal and clear my mind. And yes, the emotional turmoil is no kidding.
This post has been edited by sharmine: Oct 9 2017, 09:22 AM
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