first of all...i want to ask u...why are u complaining here? if u think she's not appreciating u...just don't care so much for her lar...it's ur choice rite? if u want to treat her the way u used to treat her...then don't complain...becoz ur the one that decides to do so...and i think for the 2nd human ur talking about...maybe she's a little over...as in telling u u will nv kno or something lidat...it's a bit rude...if someone said things lidat to me...i guess i kno how is this psn like...so i think i will just save my energy next time and stay far away from ppl like this...no point being too nice and end up being treat lidat right?

So this "Sis and Bro" affair that you are having.... does your GF and Her BF know about the both of you???
I'm curious..

And if they "Don't Know" about it ........ then why don't they know??
Is this being kept a secret from them ..... ommission of the truth is still lying in my books/
My suggestion to you is
1. Wake up .... you have a girlfriend that deserves your respect and attention and whole-hearted devotion - cut the caring "bro-sis" crap behind her back

2. Concentrate on what is important ... your relationship with your loved one and not try to be a "brother" to other women who don't appreciate you .... and why should they?? they have not relation to you except being a work-mate

nuff said

the Love doctor 

woah...!

you considered me as your friend and yet you talk behind my back??!
post it on an open forum sumore?? woah...!!

dont u have balls to come up to me n say it out??

1st of all, you "OFFERED". i did not ask for it. its a norm for me to travel by public transport everyday. no biggie.
u apologies. i accepted. end of story.

2nd, y bother that your colleague offered send me home? who the heck are you???
its up to me whether i wanna tell who this "friend" is. why kaypoh. i don have to tell you everythin that goes around my life. again, who are you? and, when did i consider u as my friend? we work in the same company. ( i used to work there, not anymore). we were only colleagues. nothing more. a friend and a colleague, 2 different people. do u wan me to get the dictionary for you?

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Added on April 15, 2007, 3:38 am

ok..! this part here damn "quo fan" edi. i "hunt" for man? LOL...adui..no "better" way to put it? u really wanna putar belit-kan the entire story eh...? wat're u up to? gainin ppl's sympathy? LOL...
how the hell you know that he din offer??? you saw/heard i went buggin the fella for a ride home issit???!!!
you guys arent even buddies at work.....so, STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS!!

here is what actually happened.
TS offered me a lift home that particular day. i accepted.
the entire journey back, it wasnt that smooth. TS jerk-breaking n he took the longer route. i din complain. he apologies, i accepted. that was it. end of story.

TS offered again the next day. i declined. TS kay poh-ed. i said i got a friend to send me home. that was it. end of story.

the reason y i declined TS "kind" offer because he lives further than me. c'on la. y would i wanna bother TS when he lives 15 km away from me n not even along his journey back to his place n i travel by public transport everyday. like i said early, it's like a norm to me edi. no biggie. moreover, he got a gf. i taknak la, if later, i pulak cause any problems between them. u know, sometimes, girls can be a lil jealous n suspicious. dey, i'm a girl. i know better.

i DID NOT lie. we (TS's colleague n i) became friends not long after i joined the company. well, that time, i got attracted to him (the colleague) and vice versa.  so, i guess, it wasnt wrong that TS's colleague offered to send me home everyday. n he didnt mind even though he stays quite a distance from where i live. n he didnt complain like some wussy here..

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Added on April 15, 2007, 4:56 amok. i done my part explaining.

whoever u wanna believe, i dun care.

TS, hate me all u wan, i dun care.

we know wat actually happened n u damn sure i'm telling the truth

i duwan to drag the fella into this.

well, if u insist watever u said is the ultimate truth, so be it.

couldnt be bothered anymore.

lol.. I couldn't agree more after seeing the reply, it's ourselves being dumb to be kind.. and why whine when you choose to be kind.. I thought it was sign of courting for you being a super nice guy.. but you've said bro/sis, so my words are, you just being dumb.. quite whinnig and get on with life..

TS, u definitely got pwned here. You got a gf liao, why bother about how other girls think? and how the hell u wanna become so flirty to offer a ride home to a girl you barely know (did your gf knows about it?). haha saying its ur "kindness" konon. snap out of it. If you're that kind, why not try find out whose colleagues of THE SAME SEX as you that is living near your house, so u can pick a few them n drive them home (well they might give u a few driving tips as well, since they all guys).

you definitely did the wrong thing to post this as a topic here. As if you wanna proclaim to the world how kind u r. dunt be silly-le.

finally, all i can say to TS is... how come got such HUMANS like u still exist?

nak jadi gentleman konon! pergila!! balikla!! orang tak hadap your kind offer le...tak payah nak pretend pretend...

gentlemen dont complain and b**** like you la..!

hmm..imho,i think whoever the guy is(ts)..he's overreacting ...sometimes..some people just want the closest person to them to just be a support..not asking you to do this or that..but because when you do a lot more for the other human being..and the other human being just ignore it..you'll feel unsatisfied and slowly will make you feel angry and the result,ur here and she's out there feeling happy and maybe not even thinking of you. Sometimes..handling this such situation you shouldn give more than what you can afford..just be yourself..trying to be somebody else will just hurt you in the end.
At least..the decision is in your hand..some people are not that lucky where their future lies in somebody's else hand.
My only advise..put a stop and move on with your life

w00t! I'm in the picture, finally To be honest, I enjoy reading more than writing, but you left me no choice, seriously. You would be much comfortable sitting there and doing your work, rather than writing and reading all these. Again, you dont leave yourself much choice either, I would say

*back to serious mode*

As of the case #1. Well, she did tell me her part of stories, but it wouldn't be fair to you if I'm telling all these without your stories. It's already a completed diagram and process flow with your stories, thus, I would say that, please leave her alone and she will leave you alone. Move on with your life

Also, there is a contradiction in your stories. Especially on the bold part in the first paragraph. Nonetheless, I don't need to explain her stories to you. You would know the best Apart from that, if you did use my name to tell her that actually i told you about the breaking up part with her bf, especially showing you the friendster of her and stuff like that. PLEASE STOP using my name. I did not show you anything, especially her friendster nor telling you a single thing about her after she left the company. Anything beyond that, I'm not in the position to say nor comment.

As of the case #2. YES! I did offer her a ride home with my small lil' car She did not hunt for any person to fetch her back home. In fact, she was willingly to take public transport at anytime and YES! I live damn far away, almost a galaxy away. We got together and I know the person that she is. She did not lie to you. The reason that she told you so was because she has nothing to explain to you nor you have the rights to know everything about her. It's pretty much up to a person whether she/he is willingly to let you know anything about her/him. Also, purplecrystal had explained about it. Therefore, please get your facts straight and right. Do not twist the facts.

Besides, I knew you would do all these thing and purplecrystal would be your victim, just as in the case #1. Look dude, I have been keeping quiet all these while, even when I left, but that doesn't mean that you can step over my head and trying to twist the facts to gain sympathies. You are a smart kid, you know?! but you're just lacked of attitudes which would be able to drive you further and higher position.

You're expecting too much for the things that you have done and you never realised that actually the things that you have done so far, any ordinary human beings could do, yet you are trying to be outstanding with your up to number 24 "to do" list. If one doesn't appreciate your efforts/time. Please move on and stop whinning. Also, please stop digging the grave deeper and deeper

Last but not least, DO NOT always ask what you can get in return Sit in your chair and do your job please

First, in order to comply with the forum rules, I will answer to the TS's question. If all these are unjustice, then it'll only be proper if Mother Theresa ask for a world donation for her to get her a posh mansion, a dedicated limo airbrushed "Mother Theresa I Love You", a dedicated Helipad, and an airstrip at every country she went. And maybe a shuttlespace launcher too.  No seriously, if you can't take being 'giving away' so many things unconditionally, why wanna still act like a phailed gentleman?  And topping this up with so much of whining, that really makes you a total douchebag.

And btw QiQio boy, lyn is not a small town..its one thing that you can't take it having your 'generosity' unanswered..after all what is generosity when you are deep down expecting something in return?  Please lah don't toh sui our masculine crowd here..

Another thing is that alot of us have realised about you...can't you understand any part of what a 'public forum' means?  I really pity your gf, having her personal pictures put up into public viewing, tell me how many LYN forumers who own computers don't have Photoshop  preloaded in it?   And now at this thread, it's not even backstabbing, now you even take the uber-genius move of publicizing them to fulfill your sour-grape mentality?

Seriously, alot of people would be keeping closed eyes when it comes to this kind of retarded posting.  Maybe you haven't realised, as far as your field of work is concerned, maybe there's this part of your brain that hasn't told you that obviously you are not the only one holding an account in LYN, and also despite you thinking that you're so anonymous in real life, actually alot of us know each other in LYN? Still can twist and turn the facts somemore..so don't expect people not to retailiate when you're defaming people without getting your facts right.

Yoh brother, I fetch her everyday to lunch. Then shall I ask her to marry me instead?

Oh.... purplecrystal00 would you marry me?

Hey brother, don't talk about this crap la.. nonsense, no ppl asking you to treat the first girl that nice, and you do it willingly. Me too treats a girl so good.. and yes I do admit I have another intention. So? And she don't really treat me any better, so? Am I going to talk bad her to the LYN?

It's the game between you and her, don't tell anyone. Play smart la!!!!

How old are you? Get your own career then only talk about kao girls la.. You got money, you got ego, you got confidence, girls will fly to you. What's more to say when you already have a gf, you don't need a PET SIS, unless you want to end up on the bed. No point having a PET SIS anyway! No worth! That's wholly my opinion!

As for my friend part, it has nth to do with you la brother. Never heard she mention you before though I meet her thrice a week. If so.. I guess you shall be quiet, sending ppl home is normal. I sent my classmate go and back to her house, do I need to ask her to marry me too?! I fetch girls to work (previously, now no more, hopefully there will be more) do I need to ask her marry me too? I fetch a few girls go yum cha and clubbing, do I need to ask them sleep with me also? it's a NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!

You fetch on your own will, somemore she said thanks! So...... it's a draw! She owe you nth, and you owe her nth too. So..... think wisely before you speak...

Cheer!!!

Most of less I been facing the similar situation as ur case A. But I m single...not attached as u.

Used 2 fetch this girl wherever she want to go go..accompany her....watever she want to do.....bought her dinner...
she become my queen....but soon ended up that she bored with me and found another guy who is more interesting...

So Why u have to make urself cheap? There re so many other thngs which need ur concern more...ur family ur gf ur study or career....or u just cant stand with the temptation she throw 2 u?

If u really a person wish her give u a kiss as return and ended up getting nth..then why u still digging ur own grave yard..??

Luckily im much more conscious now...stop doing these stupid thng again~ telling myself my career ...my job ...my family who deserves more concern from me....not an immature girl~

Last thing I would do is probably whine in the forum when my investment in the ***** cats failed and having a gf doesn't help make the situation any better. You are lucky my friend is not as avengeful as I am or he would've informed your gf about this thread assuming that he knows your gf. Sucks to be your gf dude.