Case 1:
Few months ago, I ended my pursue and implied that we're together.
So one day, she told me she's sick, so I decided to surprise her by showing up in her house with some little presents and a herbal tea I made.
Her reaction was more to shocked rather than positive reaction, we did spent a few hours sitting close to each other, had a fun conversation, she finished the herbal tea I made.
I never expect that was the last day we met each other, she never go out with me anymore, she kept giving excuses to avoid outing.
Case 2:
Few weeks ago, I pursued another girl, we went out a lot of times already, we acted like couple sometimes, but tbh I can't be sure what's the progress now.
So one day she's very upset, I decided to surprise her by showing up in her house without prior notice with the purpose of bringing her out to relax.
She became more upset after that, she told me outright she doesn't like someone find her without prior notice, the outing didn't make it, I let her go back to her house.
So... women said "I want a guy who can give surprises", something like that, are all lies? At this point I think I won't do such thing anymore since there's 2 bad cases already.
I want to hear opinions, women's opinion will have more weight, despite both cases happened long ago, I'm still analyzing it and I can't figure out the answer, maybe I'm dumb, I don't know, please help.
Advice Wanted Confused, Women, what do you think?