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TSfruitale2222
post Aug 17 2017, 05:19 PM, updated 7y ago

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how to let your other half knows that, we need their attention and love ? sleeping beside each other doesn't count. you know ?

I hate quarrel with him to get attention , in the end cold war and further damaged our relationship.

I don't want the last resort is to divorce. bangwall.gif
ReD_ZoNe18
post Aug 17 2017, 05:28 PM

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why dont u tell him?
Communicate
umieabah
post Aug 17 2017, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(fruitale2222 @ Aug 17 2017, 05:19 PM)
how to let your other half knows that, we need their attention and love ? sleeping beside each other doesn't count. you know ?

I hate quarrel with him to get attention , in the end cold war and further damaged our relationship.

I don't want the last resort is to divorce. bangwall.gif
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i tot i ask u to pm me last time brows.gif
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post Aug 17 2017, 05:59 PM

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QUOTE(fruitale2222 @ Aug 17 2017, 05:19 PM)
how to let your other half knows that, we need their attention and love ? sleeping beside each other doesn't count. you know ?

I hate quarrel with him to get attention , in the end cold war and further damaged our relationship.

I don't want the last resort is to divorce. bangwall.gif
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Communications babe. It's important.

No need to ask for attention and love. Just need to talk about it generally saying women needs them. If he still cannot take the hint then I guess he is thick or ignorant. You will have to then do a direct approach.
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post Aug 17 2017, 07:42 PM

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Initiate "The Talk" with your spouse. Let him know what you're lacking.
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post Aug 17 2017, 08:46 PM

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you give what you want unconditionally...

You want attention... give attention unconditionally
You want love... give love unconditionally...

This post has been edited by Masculine: Aug 17 2017, 08:46 PM
ymc2303
post Aug 18 2017, 05:02 AM

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QUOTE(fruitale2222 @ Aug 17 2017, 05:19 PM)
how to let your other half knows that, we need their attention and love ? sleeping beside each other doesn't count. you know ?

I hate quarrel with him to get attention , in the end cold war and further damaged our relationship.

I don't want the last resort is to divorce. bangwall.gif
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you need effort and time mutually from both side. cannot just expect your other half to work things out while you are doing nothing.
do small gestures that triggers his happy side... something that both of you do when dating.
if you have done everything and he is still like a wood block, then its time for counselling.


kvnheng
post Aug 18 2017, 09:26 AM

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hi...
this will help u alot..

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

beahappyman
post Aug 18 2017, 09:52 AM

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stop being like a baby.

when a baby wants something, they cry for it. same goes to you, whenever you need his attention, you demand it - that's why it ended up in a fight instead of having proper communication. There is no free meal in this world, you want attention then learn and put in some efforts on how to get it from your husband by his willingness. I think this analogy does apply; to get respect from someone, you'll need to respect them first.

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