QUOTE(Awakensoul @ Jun 27 2017, 08:33 AM)
LOL it's obvious what can he offers that you can't la. Financial security.
Where's that bf from? From the way he talks based on what you told us, probably EU or US or AUS. Those places currency exchange 3x to 4x our MYR.
Lets say you earn RM5k and he earns USD 4k. What he's bringing back to Malaysia is RM16k. Hello what you earn is puny. Move on. He probably can buy more iphones for her than you can afford in 6 mths.
Females at young age, are materialistic and realistic.
Alright, this isn't really the case. Even though the BF works overseas and have a higher exchange rate, unfortunately he has a lot of burdens over there and here. He has to send money back to his family over here and abroad,and according to what she told me, his doesn't have an easy life over there and i daresay i'm financially more stable than him, I have my own business and houses etc. Just want to make it clear that i'm in no way financially worse than him.
QUOTE(danielmckey @ Jun 27 2017, 08:42 AM)
You look like Justin Bieber or not?
If not stay away from that girl.
Do you mean if i look like a female ?
QUOTE(RUI @ Jun 27 2017, 01:27 PM)
If she gets what's she is harping for in future. You would be gone from her life.
If she doesn't, you might have a chance.
And if you are not stupid, you know what you are.
And in her heart, unless she gave up on him voluntarily, you always be the second best.
Yea bro, i have accepted the fact and moved on with my life. We are just friends now and nothing more.
QUOTE(ymc2303 @ Jun 28 2017, 01:13 PM)
its just proof enough that their relationship is too strong to be spanar-ed by the likes of you...
True
QUOTE(techm @ Jun 28 2017, 01:44 PM)
Like someone else said, all is fair in love and war.
Have you gotten to know her well enough? Do you feel it 101% in your gut that she is the one for you? Likely your future wife? If yes, go for it bro. (Unless she is a bro's gf).
Go convince her you're the one she is destined for.
How old are you guys anyway?
What I can certainly tell you from experience is that you don't want to live a life of regret in the far future, when you are helpless and the only thing you can do is wish that you can turn back time and at least tried.
Personally i think we have gotten very close the past few months, at first i was 101% sure but eventually she told me she would rather wait for him no matter how long it takes. I was suffering as well and decided to move on unless she comes back for me in the future and see how it goes with my future situation
. and i guarantee you that i have tried 101%.
This year i'm 26 and she is 24.
Thx for all the replies