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Why some guy so pushy? its suffocating.
TSkecik_mieow
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May 10 2017, 02:02 PM, updated 7y ago
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Why some guys are so pushy. I told them directly I am not interested, why cant they understand? They keep boombarding me with messages, calls, etc. Even when I dont entertain them much, they continue to send me messages every morning at 6 am or so. Do you know how it feels, you wake up to stress daily because you know they are expecting replies from you and they are waiting. Once I go online on whatsapp and I have not reply them they will send me a 2nd or 3rd messages.
I feel so stressed up with this and I feel sorry to them. Why have to force me to be a bitch and act like an asshole. I am a simple girl, I am grateful to have admirers but I really just want to have some peace in mind and plenty of alone time at the moment. Being an ENFP, I really need it, my alone time, my freedom to do what I want. Is that wrong?
Just cannot understand why some guys so pushy.. haiks.
Just want to rant it out. Tq for reading ppl.
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Baconateer
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May 10 2017, 02:13 PM
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You can just block them...
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sonic31s
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May 10 2017, 02:16 PM
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QUOTE(Baconateer @ May 10 2017, 02:13 PM) You can just block them... She needs minions, until all gone she will get the taste of her own medicine... This post has been edited by sonic31s: May 10 2017, 02:36 PM
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ifourtos
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May 10 2017, 02:18 PM
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QUOTE(kecik_mieow @ May 10 2017, 02:02 PM) Why some guys are so pushy. I told them directly I am not interested, why cant they understand? They keep boombarding me with messages, calls, etc. Even when I dont entertain them much, they continue to send me messages every morning at 6 am or so. Do you know how it feels, you wake up to stress daily because you know they are expecting replies from you and they are waiting. Once I go online on whatsapp and I have not reply them they will send me a 2nd or 3rd messages. I feel so stressed up with this and I feel sorry to them. Why have to force me to be a bitch and act like an asshole. I am a simple girl, I am grateful to have admirers but I really just want to have some peace in mind and plenty of alone time at the moment. Being an ENFP, I really need it, my alone time, my freedom to do what I want. Is that wrong? Just cannot understand why some guys so pushy.. haiks. Just want to rant it out. Tq for reading ppl. They wont stop until u hurt their ego
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SUSsokiahlee
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May 10 2017, 02:20 PM
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Why suffocate? Wait till 15 years later when you have lesser, lesser admirers when your beauty starts fading that's when you started questioning where have all these your so called pushy guys gone.
Rant for fuck sake. Enjoy what you have now.
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myslinux2
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May 10 2017, 02:25 PM
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QUOTE(kecik_mieow @ May 10 2017, 02:02 PM) Why some guys are so pushy. I told them directly I am not interested, why cant they understand? They keep boombarding me with messages, calls, etc. Even when I dont entertain them much, they continue to send me messages every morning at 6 am or so. Do you know how it feels, you wake up to stress daily because you know they are expecting replies from you and they are waiting. Once I go online on whatsapp and I have not reply them they will send me a 2nd or 3rd messages. I feel so stressed up with this and I feel sorry to them. Why have to force me to be a bitch and act like an asshole. I am a simple girl, I am grateful to have admirers but I really just want to have some peace in mind and plenty of alone time at the moment. Being an ENFP, I really need it, my alone time, my freedom to do what I want. Is that wrong? Just cannot understand why some guys so pushy.. haiks. Just want to rant it out. Tq for reading ppl. U haven't meet your love one ...That your reaction! If he is your white horse, u will behave like those guys & start to understand... Believe me..This going to happen in your life...
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Pete the great
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May 10 2017, 02:28 PM
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QUOTE(ifourtos @ May 10 2017, 02:18 PM) They wont stop until u hurt their ego Or they get to bed her
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NightHeart
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May 10 2017, 02:38 PM
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It's normal. Said got BF already still "pushy", saw BF already also still "pushy". Asking for dinners, movies, yumcha etc.....clearly still trying hard. Some got wife already also "pushy" wanna test their luck. So this won't stop until you're old & haggard.
So, rather that seeing it as "pushy", look at it as "Just another random message." If feel like it then reply, if don't feel like it then ignore & continue with what you're doing. Those people should already know what's going on, they shouldn't get angry or upset if you ignore a couple of messages. If they do get angry or upset, that's a super red flag to just block those creeps. They asked for it anyway.
Oh btw, sometimes those people are doing it beyond messages cause you do bump into them every now & then, usually at work or where you frequently go (gym, classes etc). Best you quickly learn to deal with this rather than to let it frustrate you.
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ymc2303
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May 10 2017, 03:21 PM
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without trolls for attention, how would you go on with your life? could have avoid it by not giving out numbers unless interested...
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siew14
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May 10 2017, 04:33 PM
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ENFP, the E stands for extrovert no? I thought introverts are the ones who need their personal time? anyway, from a guy perspective, i m doing this to show i m persistent, i belip one day i can steal your heart away. unless we slept together, i wont give up.
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Cy016
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May 10 2017, 05:56 PM
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Lol hungry wolf, already tell them till so obvious but still like that, maybe just ignore, if they still continue then u tell them u will block them or just block them straight away
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Hammox
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May 10 2017, 07:14 PM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « QUOTE(kecik_mieow @ May 10 2017, 02:02 PM) Why some guys are so pushy. I told them directly I am not interested, why cant they understand? They keep boombarding me with messages, calls, etc. Even when I dont entertain them much, they continue to send me messages every morning at 6 am or so. Do you know how it feels, you wake up to stress daily because you know they are expecting replies from you and they are waiting. Once I go online on whatsapp and I have not reply them they will send me a 2nd or 3rd messages. I feel so stressed up with this and I feel sorry to them. Why have to force me to be a bitch and act like an asshole. I am a simple girl, I am grateful to have admirers but I really just want to have some peace in mind and plenty of alone time at the moment. Being an ENFP, I really need it, my alone time, my freedom to do what I want. Is that wrong? Just cannot understand why some guys so pushy.. haiks. Just want to rant it out. Tq for reading ppl. lol this problem happened to me during my uni days. there were a few guys, no matter how indirect or direct i tell them that i am feeling uncomfortable with their messages, just cannot get about personal space and that their copy pasted spam chain sms/ telling me that they miss me (the heck we only knew each other a few days) were unwanted. at that time, i used to feel stress when i receive these messages from them too. but now looking back, realize its just a small thing la, not worth stressing . so no worries dear, i suggest really just be honest with them about how you are feeling about their messages and set some boundaries if they still want to be your friend, and if they still continue to harass you with their messages, just block or ignore. everyone deserves their own personal space, and you are in no way an asshole for asking for some
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mestillme92
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May 10 2017, 09:04 PM
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Orang asing : hot girl, better send d*** pics to get laid Malaysian : hot girl, better be persistent so she will fall for me
It may work 1 out of 100 times? So they got stuck with that kind of mentality, i guess
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zakuankajang
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May 10 2017, 10:41 PM
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u should be happy somebody attracted to you... many girls i know never dating... not even once in their life.. still single
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ah_heng
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May 10 2017, 10:43 PM
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Wahhh... what a way to tell the World that I'm pretty and attractive and popular Just kidding...
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BrendonStar
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May 10 2017, 10:53 PM
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This post has been edited by BrendonStar: May 10 2017, 10:55 PM
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BrendonStar
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May 10 2017, 10:53 PM
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deleted-similar response already given
This post has been edited by BrendonStar: May 10 2017, 10:55 PM
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zakuankajang
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May 10 2017, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(hug hug @ May 10 2017, 10:58 PM) why many factors... too shy, too choosy, too scare, not attractive...
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zakuankajang
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May 10 2017, 11:04 PM
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QUOTE(hug hug @ May 10 2017, 11:02 PM) can fix the shyness and fear too choosy ? because those guy isnt good at first place / insincere ? the choosy one usually because she hold high position in company/bussiness... and earn more than many guys out there. bird of same type fly together
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zakuankajang
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May 10 2017, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(zakuankajang @ May 10 2017, 11:04 PM) the choosy one usually because she hold high position in company/bussiness... and earn more than many guys out there. bird of same type fly together this woman type actually has sexual need but not willing to commit... so maybe just get a guy to fun fun and than its over.. i know this because i'm one of that guy they looking for haha
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