We're not even friend before this. I purposely reach out to her on a dating site/app and asked her out on a date. So I hope you can understand my awkwardness with this whole situation.
We went out for 6-7 dates, texted everyday and then at one point I said lets take this to the next level. By that I mean make it official that we're together. She rejected, saying I'm too nice, I can score someone better, or whatever common shit people say to end something.
Being the person that I am, I just shrug it off and said ok, maybe we wasn't meant to be. I'm a bit disappointed but whatever. We handle it really well till the end. Then I stop contacting her.
Fast forward few weeks, she suddenly call me out of the blue saying she's doing something nearby my home and ask me to join her for dinner. I'm bored anyway so yeah, I went for it.
We talk for hours that night and don't feel weird at all. Maybe because when we were dating we totally clique well and can spend whole day doing some random shit together.
Over the next few days, she texted me asking/telling some obvious thing like, "eh how to go to <place>?", "I just saw some nice <food>". I did reply but kept it short "use GPS", "nice".
Few days ago she told me that she need to go to a hospital to visit her aunt who's giving birth. Since it literally 5 minutes away from my office, I offered to accompany her. She angrily said no saying that some of her relatives might be there. I'm totally mindfucked, so what's the point she's telling me that in the first place.
TimelineDate(4 month) -> Total silent(1 month) -> dinner(2 weeks ago) -> hospital(last week)
I don't want to have my hopes high since she rejected me before. Also, I saw that she's active/online on the dating site.
Someone please help me understand this girl. Is she just lonely? or am I her backup plan? because given the choices, I'd rather not befriend someone I used to date.
I can assure you this girl is definitely not the 'hot/sexy' type. I even doubt she date much. She's rather homely
I'm thinking of being blunt and ask her what she actually wants. But not sure if that's a good idea.
if she a play girls she won be just texting you right? should be a lot fling going on there~
or she still not yet overcome her past relation? you should ask! since you asked before.