U wanna die just because of that? What I gone thru is much worst than u n yet I am still here. So give up that idea of suicidal of yours n start talk to her about the problems. If things cant be resolve, dump her. If she loves u then she will do her best to make the relationship works.

no, things don't work out when we keep quiet. after all, some of the biggest breakthroughs in human history happen when people speak up and argue for the right things. notable example is Wilbur Wilberforce...

Commiting suicide is the act of a coward if you ask me. I mean no offence but it's taking the easy way out. Instead of solving problems, suicides take their lives and in fact, cause problems for their loved ones. It is easy to smile when times are good but it is when times are bleak does our strength of character truly be tested.

You do realize that more than 50% of your predicament is your fault right? I suggest you stop being a wuss and stop taking it lying down. If you let yourself get abused like that, you deserve to be abused.

People here can advise you on whatever they want, communication skills, heart to heart talk, bla bla, at the end of the day, it's your innate character which needs to be modified because whatever you have now just isn't cutting it.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Mar 16 2007, 04:41 PM

don b too fool TS, nth can be solve if u r dead..
try 2 communicate well each other, let her know wat u actually need and feel..
if there is no U-turn finally...juz dump her
wat is the big deal tat coz u go suicide?
u juz lost some1 who never love u...whereas she lost some1 who love her so much...she is the one should feel wan die...

hey, i don't think suicide will solve al the problem. As someone always told me that (the guy make me LOVES him so much), suicide will just make the situation more complicated and it will hurts both parties much too. It's really a silly thing to think of. if such problem occurs you, talk to her and tell her what bothers you and what you doesn;t like. her treats or anything. Just tell her. People needs other people to tell them where & what problem they have. we cannot and it is impossible for us to see the true us BUT only those who near us. Just talk to her and never end your life liked othes did. Be rationale. solve the problem liked an adult. Never put suicidal thought at #1.

u must know u did the wrong thing asking for breakup
breakup is taboo in relationship ok??
so don't cry over your own mistake...
just try to move on

bunga bukan sekuntum..kumbang bukan seekor

so many girls out there
find someone who appreciate you

She f*ck you outside, you f*ck her back in bed.
Film it with spycam and treaten her to publish it on net if she dont behave.
Ok, thats a joke, here's the serious advise.
Women like bad and strong man, those who smoke, bulky muscles, ahbeng, u know what i mean. Anyway, you need to be 'bad' in order to supress her. Then it will be you stepping on her instead. Try hang out with ahbeng, ahlong, vcd sellers etc to make you more man and less wussy. It makes no harm to get to know those people from the darkside.
If finally you cant tame her wild instinct and decided to break up, maybe she's crazy or a spoilt biatch, then ask your ahbeng friend to do the job. Bashed her up or molest her for revenge.


This post has been edited by funkyboi: Mar 16 2007, 08:26 PM

yukikaze, your gf must be older than you right?

hope you going to read my message to you (check your inbox)
girls usually like stronger character. at the beginning for girls, their guy is wonderful & perfect but later changed the perception.

none of us can changed overnight. it's not your mistakes because that is you, when she accept you, she should consider this, not blindly go through the next level after friendship. whatever, it is her fault for blindly couple with you.

i dont understand about girl, they do want strong character type of guy that could ease their life and make them less think (guy think for them).
but for me, it's not about strong character, it's about 2-ways understanding.

just dump her and move along, once girl step over your head, they're hard to be good. they just want to dominate and be "super-power" and it's even big mistakes if you get married with her.

yr case sounds very much like mine. i've been with my gf for almost 2yrs now and after talking to her countless times, i'm beginning to understand her and our relationship improves alot.

when mood swings happen (my experience, it's always during the monthly period, never fails, pls don't flame me ), maybe she just wants the attention and expects u to pujuk her whenever she's feeling moody. there are times when she'll intentionally put fault on you just to create an argument, it could be a hint that she needs attention.

of course, there are also times if she's gone overboard, a big fight will ensue, and if u somehow manage to show it to her, she might tone down a bit. if she has a bad temper, there's nothing much u can do about it but hope that she change. u know the proverb, something like girls always change, but guys never do (but i'm not implying that you shouldn't change to improve).

wish u the best.

at least think abt ur parent b4 u do anything stupid...

dont suicide, we can meet and have fun together.

life is beautiful, why want to suicide.
trust me, you're now in the same situation like me.
but think, in future maybe you're someone and she going to bloodyhell come to you and beg you to be back to you.

TS, you dont want to have argument with her and just bear with her simply means you haven face the problem and talk to her yet. Just FACE THE PROBLEM. you've point everything is the fault of your gf, do you try to understand her?? What's the message that she wanna to tell you.

-Love never bring me way to the hell.-

NinG, i would stand behind him.

a girl always like that, they want to dominate the relationship.
they think they're great just because they watch a lot of love movie.

for me, he should dump her and get a new life.
girl not easily can be different overnight. they can pretend very well too.

even he understand her but girl always like that, but girl dont want to understand him. it's not fair.

message? she want to dominate him. this is the fact of girl.
BEAR with it until how long? i bear with my ex for 2 years, i give everything (financially & emotionally) but at the end she dont want to change to be betetr person. what else should i do? i have my own dignity and value of myself.

if u really love her..u wont mind that its her attitude..no one can be perfect..of do you wanna try to break up..for her to learn her lesson?She will treat u better im sure..after this lesson..

and yeah..in a relationship theres no win-win situation..either 1 will have to sacrifice..

just think twice..dont rush..


This post has been edited by NewbieBetta: Mar 17 2007, 11:29 PM

thats the most scariest thing, she change become some1 u dunno at all.

at first she was damn sweet right? she can tolerate, understand & respect you right?

after a while, she changed. then it's not a good indicator.
don't do the same mistakes like me, it was horrible.

dont be a looser dude, you still got your hand.

TS, i recently broke up with my gf, and to tell u honestly, i never believed in dumping anyone or breaking up as solution

try talking to her, alwaz put breaking up as the last alternative...

yea some ppl just don appreciate until they lose tat someone, jut like me.. hehehe but at least... give her a chance, talk to her, give yourself a chance, at least u tried eh?

no regrets later ma...

good luck