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I Feel Suicidal i feel suicidal..
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night
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Mar 16 2007, 10:41 AM
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Everyone here asked TS to dump her. TS! I personally advise you, don't rush into making a decision you might regret. Talk things over with her first. You'll never know that there's reason for her behaving that way. Try having a nice discussion with her and hopefully, it'll end your misery.
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nickisthemost
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Mar 16 2007, 10:42 AM
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 still no reply i think he has............
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huakenny
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Mar 16 2007, 10:43 AM
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QUOTE(night @ Mar 16 2007, 10:41 AM) Everyone here asked TS to dump her. TS! I personally advise you, don't rush into making a decision you might regret. Talk things over with her first. You'll never know that there's reason for her behaving that way. Try having a nice discussion with her and hopefully, it'll end your misery. yea..as i mentioned in the earlier post...dump here only there is no improvement after discussion.
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WaCKy-Angel
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Mar 16 2007, 10:48 AM
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QUOTE(night @ Mar 16 2007, 10:41 AM) Everyone here asked TS to dump her. TS! I personally advise you, don't rush into making a decision you might regret. Talk things over with her first. You'll never know that there's reason for her behaving that way. Try having a nice discussion with her and hopefully, it'll end your misery. Erm....idk....but TS seems to like have no balls to speak up to his gf.. But nontheless, i bet the girl would b**** slap him if he tells her that.. Its better to find another girl that trully love u, than try to change her attitude. Maybe can read this thread http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/427512
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steven437
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Mar 16 2007, 10:51 AM
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before that  is your gf name call Yvonne??? is she studying accountant and from ipoh staying at bukit jalil?? if yes please slap her before you dump her  if the above don't applied to you, still slap her and dump her, only 2 month relationship, you got nothing to loose seriously.. ps: those who name yvonne and from ipoh and studying as a accountant, don't feel piss off  it might be 1 of you or none of you from the forum or from bukit jalil. so don't be a emo child..
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WaCKy-Angel
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Mar 16 2007, 10:55 AM
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QUOTE(steven437 @ Mar 16 2007, 10:51 AM) before that  is your gf name call Yvonne??? is she studying accountant and from ipoh staying at bukit jalil?? if yes please slap her before you dump her  if the above don't applied to you, still slap her and dump her, only 2 month relationship, you got nothing to loose seriously.. ps: those who name yvonne and from ipoh and studying as a accountant, don't feel piss off  it might be 1 of you or none of you from the forum or from bukit jalil. so don't be a emo child..  ROLF what she did to u?
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suiteng
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Mar 16 2007, 11:25 AM
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I admit that saying "whatever" is a bit rude for us, but in some culture it's normal for them. I never liked it when my ex used to say "whatever" when we are talking about something serious, and I will lose my temper coz of that. But after talking to her about it, she understand, and she used the word lesser. Improvement? Yes.
But have you ever think that, doing this to her and make her change will leave a root in her heart.. she will think that, wtf are you trying to change her into someone else? The problem will come sooner or later.
If you can't accept the attitude, then you guys are not meant to be together. Sorry to say that, but it's the fact. Loving someone is to accept him/her exactly like how he/she is. Not changing him/her into someone that you want it to be.
In this case, you can't accept, then leave her.
This post has been edited by suiteng: Mar 16 2007, 11:58 AM
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night
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Mar 16 2007, 11:56 AM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 16 2007, 10:55 AM) Must be something bad lar. I'm curious also. Share Share
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SUSyukikaze
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Mar 16 2007, 12:10 PM
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thank you for advices guys.....appreciate it from top to the bottom. but whenever something happen,i told her that it was her mistake,she tends to act that she did nothing wrong and point at me. oh well,gonna speak up to her bout it already... all this while i bear with it because i don't want any arguements...but things won't work out that way ain't it? Added on March 16, 2007, 12:12 pmthank you the advice guys.....appreciate it from the top to the bottom. whenever things happen,i did tell her that she did some mistake....but she just push it all away acting as if she did nothing wrong and point at me. all these while i just bear with it cause i don't want any arguements..... oh well,gonna speak up to her...if that doesn't work..i guess i'll become a suicide bomber at iraq This post has been edited by yukikaze: Mar 16 2007, 12:12 PM
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night
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Mar 16 2007, 12:14 PM
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QUOTE(yukikaze @ Mar 16 2007, 12:10 PM) thank you for advices guys.....appreciate it from top to the bottom. but whenever something happen,i told her that it was her mistake,she tends to act that she did nothing wrong and point at me. oh well,gonna speak up to her bout it already... all this while i bear with it because i don't want any arguements...but things won't work out that way ain't it? Added on March 16, 2007, 12:12 pmthank you the advice guys.....appreciate it from the top to the bottom. whenever things happen,i did tell her that she did some mistake....but she just push it all away acting as if she did nothing wrong and point at me. all these while i just bear with it cause i don't want any arguements..... oh well,gonna speak up to her...if that doesn't work..i guess i'll become a suicide bomber at iraq  I'm sure you'll get your answer to all this. Good luck dude and CHEERS!
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suiteng
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Mar 16 2007, 12:14 PM
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 Then you guys are not made for each other.
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jorineb
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Mar 16 2007, 12:29 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 16 2007, 11:25 AM) I admit that saying "whatever" is a bit rude for us, but in some culture it's normal for them. I never liked it when my ex used to say "whatever" when we are talking about something serious, and I will lose my temper coz of that. But after talking to her about it, she understand, and she used the word lesser. Improvement? Yes. But have you ever think that, doing this to her and make her change will leave a root in her heart.. she will think that, wtf are you trying to change her into someone else? The problem will come sooner or later. If you can't accept the attitude, then you guys are not meant to be together. Sorry to say that, but it's the fact. Loving someone is to accept him/her exactly like how he/she is. Not changing him/her into someone that you want it to be. In this case, you can't accept, then leave her. Well, not everyone is like that geh...at least in our case, im like this. that's why we call it off,right suiteng?
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miyoko
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Mar 16 2007, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(yukikaze @ Mar 16 2007, 12:10 PM) thank you for advices guys.....appreciate it from top to the bottom. but whenever something happen,i told her that it was her mistake,she tends to act that she did nothing wrong and point at me. oh well,gonna speak up to her bout it already... all this while i bear with it because i don't want any arguements...but things won't work out that way ain't it? Added on March 16, 2007, 12:12 pmthank you the advice guys.....appreciate it from the top to the bottom. whenever things happen,i did tell her that she did some mistake....but she just push it all away acting as if she did nothing wrong and point at me. all these while i just bear with it cause i don't want any arguements..... oh well,gonna speak up to her...if that doesn't work..i guess i'll become a suicide bomber at iraq  quite the blaming attitude, pointing that she's wrong. show it from your action. actions definitely speaks louder than words. what's the point if you could force her into admitting her fault, but she dont actually accept it? you have to show her the correct way by your own attitude, not forcing her to admit her mistake.
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siowgirl
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Mar 16 2007, 12:49 PM
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ermmmm i used to blame my ex also. even after we broke up, we still managed to fight with each other over who's right,who's not. at times, it is my fault but others, it's his. so i wont say its urs or her fault until you tell us what kind of situation it arises.
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SeeD
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Mar 16 2007, 01:36 PM
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LOL !!! I cant believe some guy would suicide because his gf doesnt treat him that well. LooOoOOOoOoL !!! Dont be an attention whore here.
Anyways, talk to her, and see if there's any positive response. If not, then dump her. I bet you deserve a better girl.
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suiteng
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Mar 16 2007, 01:41 PM
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QUOTE(jorineb @ Mar 16 2007, 12:29 PM) Well, not everyone is like that geh...at least in our case, im like this. that's why we call it off,right suiteng? We called it off? Who cheat on who? And who called it off? Stop hijacking thread lah..
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dawnreaver
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Mar 16 2007, 01:52 PM
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Grow some balls dude. Stop letting her step all over you.
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NaGeNaZ
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Mar 16 2007, 02:31 PM
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If you think she pushing you too much leave. A girl bossing around is not good for a guy. After she is bored pushing you around, maybe she will leave to push another guy. Dont let it happen. Did you had sex with her ? After doing it did she tell how much she say anything about love or sayang you. This is important if you guys been few years and quite matured age to do it. ITs normal nowdays.
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Duke Red
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Mar 16 2007, 02:38 PM
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Look at all my stars!!
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I don't know how you act in front of her but women are attracted by one's strength of character. If you are constantly an emotional wreck or not one to stand up for yourself, it can be a real turnoff. Next time you have an argument, let her be the one that comes crawling back. If she doesn't then she wasn't worth it anyway.
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