Everytime when there's discussion about religion, for sure the topic will have many pages and many TLDR comments. Headache.

TS, what I can say is, in conclusion, Christian is not a very complicated religion unlike the other that requires you must convert if wanna get married. If partner is a Christian, it really depends la.. some are hardcore, tell you die die must convert, some are softcore, but inside them they quietly want a same religion partner.

If your partner don't mind, good. If your partner is softcore type, then you really have to decide soon whether to convert or move on. After all, after convert, you still can do or eat anything you want. But if for me, I'm a Buddhist, I would feel sorry for my own religion because that's the religion I've been following since birth.

My own experience is, my ex is a Christian and she is the softcore type. No major problem actually, I even follow them to church every Sunday. It's just that her family side is quite hardcore. Sometimes being around with them, although friendly, but sometimes a bit over the line.

Example like they are too 'bangga' (proud) with themselves. Everytime when there's a gathering, they keep mentioning their surname and say "That's how we (insert surname) do it, yeah!". Sometimes give hints that the other religion is not that great. Me being the non-Christian among them, felt left out.

Lastly, we have broken up and that was many years ago. Now her bf is a Christian too and they are getting married soon. Good for her and myself. She found her happiness and I can start afresh. "Old one didn't go, new one won't come in".