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JapanKid89
post Apr 4 2017, 02:26 PM

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QUOTE(michael2727 @ Apr 3 2017, 11:22 PM)
Hi guys, would like to seek advises regarding interfaith rship.
We clicked quite well these few months but have yet to get tgt. The only concern is diff in religion.
I do go church with her, but might not convert to Christian in the future.
She did say she hope she can have the her future partner can have same faith with her. and her mom might not like it too.
Any thoughts on this?
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First she said, if my boyfriend love me he will accompany me to church,

Then she continue, if my future husband love me he will convert to christian for me.

Then after marriage, If my husband lvoe me he will <insert next request>

can't you see their brain washing you.

Why not say if you love me! Don't influence my decision on what I wanna do with my life?? Hmmm?
JapanKid89
post Jun 22 2017, 04:33 PM

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QUOTE(michael2727 @ Apr 3 2017, 11:22 PM)
Hi guys, would like to seek advises regarding interfaith rship.
We clicked quite well these few months but have yet to get tgt. The only concern is diff in religion.
I do go church with her, but might not convert to Christian in the future.
She did say she hope she can have the her future partner can have same faith with her. and her mom might not like it too.
Any thoughts on this?
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LET THE BRAINWASHING BEGIN!

GUIDE TO NOT GET BRAIN WASH:
1. True love doesn't request your partner to follow whatever the person wishes. So don't fall for such reason:
( If you love me you would go to church with me) (If you love me you would be converting the same religion as me)
If you notice this kind of conversation PUT A STOP SIGN! Remember TRUE LOVE doesn't request your partner to follow whatever the person wishes.

2. YOU JUST NEED ONE RULE! follow back rule 1.

3. If you Rule 1 and 2 fail, DUMP HER and move on~

4. EVERYONE has FREE WILL! if you're being forced to do something you don't want too with sweet word, STOP AND NOTICED THIS IS BRAINWASHING! return back to RULE 1.

5. TOXIC relationship, REALIZED! if your partner say such as if you don't convert he/she will leave you for another. STOP! and LET IT GO! its better to live your lives as a free person then being under some CULT! return back to RULE 1.

This post has been edited by JapanKid89: Jun 22 2017, 04:37 PM
JapanKid89
post Jun 23 2017, 06:37 PM

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QUOTE(Mikethebodo @ Jun 21 2017, 09:12 AM)
That's your life and how you want to live it I respect that. Just I am saying to TS. Of course that's his life too if he wants to follow or not but since he put this thread out in open, he actually gives us the opportunity to offer feedback.

In actuality, religion, matters of interest, hobbies - these are all things in common. I am not sure about you, but for me, I rather be doing something with my gf or wife everyday due to us sharing the same values and issues rather than both of us having nothing in common. your decision! Not the person! do not shaft your ideology in other people throat.

As in your case, you believe in the liberal of all things while there are others who are more conservative. Wouldn't you think, its better you choose someone with the same belief system? NO! Everyone has their own belief system.

Yes you are right relationship is about tolerance n sacrifices but you got to be able to get your partner to accept you first before that tolerance n sacrifice comes into action EH hello!. A relationship exist would only give way to tolerance n sacrifices not when you are selecting your partner.
< yeah! but not to the extend to give up who you're! (YOUR IDENTITY!)>


In context of TS case, is about selection of partner cause he hasn't gone into relationship yet. if he feels there is nothing in common, ok so be it, don't try.

But just saying Enuff SAID~ , if you don't try, you won't know. TS hasn't really stated his belief system to us yet. TS hasn't said he is rejecting christianity. Maybe TS will find out he like it. what about NO! But of course, you may say, the pain and high risk of failure would be too great. Hey its a free world, you are free to say what you think is right.
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