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TSStarbucki
post Apr 1 2017, 12:18 AM, updated 9y ago

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If offered to you, will you take it? If not, why?

Ayam sked take aredi cannot apply kuli job end up become poorfag dato.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:20 AM

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Nah. Not rich become dato will only become a laughing stock
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:20 AM

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yup ,cannot do kuli job
cannot sit cheap car

but if u want offer me, i might consider
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:21 AM

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Young dato. People laugh me.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:30 AM

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If it was offered the legit way, u cant actually decline. I know 1 person who decline at 1st but after being slowtalked by palace officials, he accepted it. Not accepting the title is somewhat an insult to the palace.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:32 AM

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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:30 AM)
If it was offered the legit way, u cant actually decline. I know 1 person who decline at 1st but after being slowtalked by palace officials, he accepted it. Not accepting the title is somewhat an insult to the palace.
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So what is he doing now?
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:33 AM

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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:30 AM)
If it was offered the legit way, u cant actually decline. I know 1 person who decline at 1st but after being slowtalked by palace officials, he accepted it. Not accepting the title is somewhat an insult to the palace.
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I know someone who declined, and continues to decline

He says that titles like any other gifts in Asian society come with future obligations attached
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:35 AM

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QUOTE(KLboy92 @ Apr 1 2017, 12:33 AM)
I know someone who declined, and continues to decline

He says that titles like any other gifts in Asian society come with future obligations attached
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yep, especially involvement $$
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:37 AM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Apr 1 2017, 12:32 AM)
So what is he doing now?
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Business as usual. Only difference is if got function at the palace he must attend, which he very lazy to go biggrin.gif
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:39 AM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Apr 1 2017, 12:18 AM)
If offered to you, will you take it? If not, why?

Ayam sked take aredi cannot apply kuli job end up become poorfag dato.
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well..kinda true also

but hey when become dato i dun see any chance to becum poorfag dato la

confirm ppl datang sembah kaki u and offer money wan..
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:39 AM

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QUOTE(KLboy92 @ Apr 1 2017, 12:33 AM)
I know someone who declined, and continues to decline

He says that titles like any other gifts in Asian society come with future obligations attached
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Depends on which palace. But usually from what i heard, those that is personally chosen by the sultan have no such any future obligation.

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post Apr 1 2017, 12:45 AM

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QUOTE(aliahmadhambali @ Apr 1 2017, 12:41 AM)
Sure will decline. Need to gip a donasi to sultan if got events.
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Oh so it's not one time payment? Wow.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:46 AM

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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:37 AM)
Business as usual. Only difference is if got function at the palace he must attend, which he very lazy to go biggrin.gif
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I mean does he work as some junior exec or does he run a successful biz
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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:39 AM)
Depends on which palace. But usually from what i heard, those that is personally chosen by the sultan have no such any future obligation.
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I really dunno, ayam just kuli, he is biznezman. Probably he means contracts and other such favours.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:48 AM

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QUOTE(GoldenHorn @ Apr 1 2017, 12:39 AM)
well..kinda true also

but hey when become dato i dun see any  chance to becum poorfag dato la

confirm ppl datang sembah kaki u and offer money wan..
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People generally are materialistic and will not offer money for nothing. So if you are an insignificant dato with no financial or political backing i doubt ppl will sembah you. Just my opinion la.
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:49 AM

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That will make u automatically a vip.

Imagine if u want to eat at this restaurant but need to wait coz its packed, you can skirt all This first come first serve by showing your datuk/dato title. Note that datuk is from agong and dato is from state.

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post Apr 1 2017, 12:52 AM

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QUOTE(Noyoudontcare @ Apr 1 2017, 12:49 AM)
That will make u automatically a vip.

Imagine if u want to eat at this restaurant but need to wait coz its packed, you can skirt all This first come first serve by showing your datuk/dato title. Note that datuk is from agong and dato is from state.
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But it would be embarassing if nobody give a hoot when you flash your title.

Note that some states call them datuks too.

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post Apr 1 2017, 12:54 AM

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QUOTE(GoldenHorn @ Apr 1 2017, 12:39 AM)
well..kinda true also

but hey when become dato i dun see any  chance to becum poorfag dato la

confirm ppl datang sembah kaki u and offer money wan..
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i know 1 karang guni dato whistling.gif

J dato somemore but from previous sj
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post Apr 1 2017, 12:55 AM

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See Khairy Jamaluddin


Rich got dato are everywhere

Rich but not dato now become premium

New trend and hipster
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post Apr 1 2017, 01:00 AM

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QUOTE(Noyoudontcare @ Apr 1 2017, 12:49 AM)
That will make u automatically a vip.

Imagine if u want to eat at this restaurant but need to wait coz its packed, you can skirt all This first come first serve by showing your datuk/dato title. Note that datuk is from agong and dato is from state.
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datuk/datuk seri is appointed by governor

not agong himself directly
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post Apr 1 2017, 01:24 AM

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if u earn it why not ? pay for it doesnt count tho
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post Apr 1 2017, 01:28 AM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Apr 1 2017, 12:18 AM)
If offered to you, will you take it? If not, why?

Ayam sked take aredi cannot apply kuli job end up become poorfag dato.
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just dont put datuk name on CV lorr


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post Apr 1 2017, 01:36 AM

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QUOTE(Lumiaaa @ Apr 1 2017, 01:28 AM)
just dont put datuk name on CV lorr
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post Apr 1 2017, 02:31 AM

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no, to me dato = corrupted person.
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post Apr 1 2017, 02:38 AM

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post Apr 1 2017, 02:45 AM

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post Apr 1 2017, 03:13 AM

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QUOTE(otakotak @ Apr 1 2017, 02:45 AM)
dato must be rich? apa retarded cainis bukit punya mentality ni?
that's why so many of u die die wanna get this title right?
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Some of us, who?

Far as I can tell, the only Chinese who die die want these titles are those involved in scams as the title helps add a false air of legitimacy. Majority of us don't actually fucking care, and have little respect for people who do have these titles.

Latuk je ma. Tai sai meh? Yi wai lei hai pin lan kor?
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post Apr 1 2017, 03:20 AM

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post Apr 1 2017, 03:21 AM

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Majority of the people are talking shit apparently
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post Apr 1 2017, 03:43 AM

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QUOTE(Noyoudontcare @ Apr 1 2017, 12:49 AM)
That will make u automatically a vip.

Imagine if u want to eat at this restaurant but need to wait coz its packed, you can skirt all This first come first serve by showing your datuk/dato title. Note that datuk is from agong and dato is from state.
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State without Sultan also Datuk.
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post Apr 1 2017, 03:54 AM

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it's like buying car beyond our means. then after, cannot commit with monthly instalments and maintenance
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post Apr 1 2017, 04:47 AM

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QUOTE(stupiak07 @ Apr 1 2017, 01:00 AM)
datuk/datuk seri is appointed by governor

not agong himself directly
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Datuk awarded by governor / TYT and agong. ( federal )
Dato awarded by Sultan only ( Royal title )
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post Apr 1 2017, 04:49 AM

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QUOTE(arubin @ Apr 1 2017, 03:13 AM)
Some of us, who?

Far as I can tell, the only Chinese who die die want these titles are those involved in scams as the title helps add a false air of legitimacy. Majority of us don't actually fucking care, and have little respect for people who do have these titles.

Latuk je ma. Tai sai meh? Yi wai lei hai pin lan kor?
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this i totally disagree. i been with dato alot, you should see how ppl bodek and sembah them.

There a few type of ppl i seen

1. will challenge whether your title is genuine or not

2. treat you extra good and give u vvip

3. boast they know dato, datuk or be friends

i have very little respect some that boast their title and keep telling me they have a title.

i know one very beneficial if you get stop by selected authority the card inside helps alot or imprint that name on your credit card some eatery or shop will treat you better.

the title also help when you are writing letter to complaint authority. If your letter show normal consumer 1 week, if title in letterhead personally call you in 1 hour
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post Apr 1 2017, 05:28 AM

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post Apr 1 2017, 06:08 AM

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most of the people who want the tile is developers. without the tile, it is hard for them to get approval or consnet from the mayor,etc

i know some low profile developer but due to losing chance to other datuk in bidding the lands, they have to 'invest' for the tile for company prostect
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QUOTE(jutarev @ Apr 1 2017, 03:25 AM)
Try come klang boston...
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u talking bout the boston tepi jalan. Deng that one pakai phone call book je
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post Apr 1 2017, 08:07 AM

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QUOTE(Velocity @ Apr 1 2017, 04:49 AM)
this i totally disagree. i been with dato alot, you should see how ppl bodek and sembah them.

There  a few type of ppl i seen

1. will challenge whether your title is genuine or not

2. treat you extra good and give u vvip

3. boast they know dato, datuk or be friends

i have very little respect some that boast their title and keep telling me they have a title.

i know one very beneficial if you get stop by selected authority the card inside helps alot or imprint that name on your credit card some eatery or shop will treat you better.

the title also help when you are writing letter to complaint authority.  If your letter show normal consumer 1 week, if title in letterhead personally call you in 1 hour
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Sadly thats how our society works. They sembah icons of 'success' in any form. Just look at tehalive how they sembah that guy even without datoship.
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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:30 AM)
If it was offered the legit way, u cant actually decline. I know 1 person who decline at 1st but after being slowtalked by palace officials, he accepted it. Not accepting the title is somewhat an insult to the palace.
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can
many member's parents here got offered but rejected as well
because its just a title
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post Apr 1 2017, 08:17 AM

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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Apr 1 2017, 12:18 AM)
If offered to you, will you take it? If not, why?

Ayam sked take aredi cannot apply kuli job end up become poorfag dato.
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If "Mr" alone is not good enough to convince people with his talent, then he might think of the need to use the "Datuk" to CONvince other people.

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post Apr 1 2017, 08:58 AM

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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 12:30 AM)
If it was offered the legit way, u cant actually decline. I know 1 person who decline at 1st but after being slowtalked by palace officials, he accepted it. Not accepting the title is somewhat an insult to the palace.
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Not really. My father rejected the title twice. 1st one back in 96 or 98 2nd one a few yrs after dat. He got it from the sultan of Kelantan not Pahang aa. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(Orias @ Apr 1 2017, 08:58 AM)
Not really. My father rejected the title twice. 1st one back in 96 or 98 2nd one a few yrs after dat. He got it from the sultan of Kelantan not Pahang aa. laugh.gif
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Emm...
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post Apr 1 2017, 09:22 AM

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QUOTE(silent_stalker @ Apr 1 2017, 09:13 AM)
Emm...
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Bakpo emmm emmm abe? hmm.gif
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post Apr 1 2017, 09:38 AM

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I would humbly decline.


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